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need to apologize for humor.  ;0) HUGS yeah pooh, roger that, ….if that was so, you would not be having the issues you have now!  good dumping (in this case..hee, hee)…sorry, could not resist the humor. jeffy

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yeah pooh, roger that, ….if that was so, you would not be having the issues you have now!  good dumping (in this case..hee, hee)…sorry, could not resist the humor. jeffy

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – to hear that you got through your issues …… and yes, in my reading(s), i have learned that for the most part parents won’t change, and for the most part they will deny what had happened, or make excuses such as "i did it for your own good", or "i did the best i could".  I dumped one of my therapists because she told me my "parent’s" did the best they could. Thanks again HUGS Pooh good to hear from you pooh.  i have missed you here.  i can sympathize with the "toxic parents" issue.  i worked it all out with a therapist about 20 years ago.  best thing i ever did.  i become (became?) to understand myself much better and found out there are good people in the world…i married one!  it is amasing how much stress that issue can add to your life.  i know that sometimes people say, just tell’em what you think and so forth, well depends on situation, sometimes all it does is set you apart from others and your are no better, sometimes worse off.  in my case it was MY issue and I had to deal with it, parents don’t change, especially when they get older…in fact, it usually gets worse.  i did the "deal with it" and "move on" and it was great.  just sharing, not saying right or wrong. everyone has to find their own way. prolly good you are staying busy.  i hope you find your way thru this, i know it must be tough.  i hope the gut settles down for you too.  take care and i will be thinking of you and sending good vibes your way pooh! jeff Just really busy and still not feeling well. my doctor’s appointments and therapist appointments and Jazz’s therapists appoointments i feel like i’m always on the go. ready to book ending exercises is to confront those that either abused you or made you feel relatives and actually felt a bit of anger release, even though they weren’t tear flare mode since. No one said that it was going to be easy and it’s going to get even harder hospital. ;0) annual actually really looking forward to the walks to begin again even though i don’t raise money for all of them i really enjoy going to them.  This year i’m really proud of Jazz, last year she was really hesitant Thursday and she came home with 25.00 donations from school already.  Last year she didn’t want to ask anyone i had to raise her money for her just to get her t-shirt.  LOL Hugs Pooh ICQ#: 3687282 Current ICQ status: + More ways to contact me — Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). — Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).

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hear that you got through your issues …… and yes, in my reading(s), i have learned that for the most part parents won’t change, and for the most part they will deny what had happened, or make excuses such as "i did it for your own good", or "i did the best i could".  I dumped one of my therapists because she told me my "parent’s" did the best they could. Thanks again HUGS Pooh – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – good to hear from you pooh.  i have missed you here.  i can sympathize with the "toxic parents" issue.  i worked it all out with a therapist about 20 years ago.  best thing i ever did.  i become (became?) to understand myself much better and found out there are good people in the world…i married one!  it is amasing how much stress that issue can add to your life.  i know that sometimes people say, just tell’em what you think and so forth, well depends on situation, sometimes all it does is set you apart from others and your are no better, sometimes worse off.  in my case it was MY issue and I had to deal with it, parents don’t change, especially when they get older…in fact, it usually gets worse.  i did the "deal with it" and "move on" and it was great.  just sharing, not saying right or wrong.  everyone has to find their own way. prolly good you are staying busy.  i hope you find your way thru this, i know it must be tough.  i hope the gut settles down for you too.  take care and i will be thinking of you and sending good vibes your way pooh! jeff Just really busy and still not feeling well. doctor’s appointments and therapist appointments and Jazz’s therapists appoointments i feel like i’m always on the go. ready to book exercises is to confront those that either abused you or made you feel relatives and actually felt a bit of anger release, even though they weren’t tear flare mode since. No one said that it was going to be easy and it’s going to get even harder hospital. ;0) actually really looking forward to the walks to begin again even though i don’t raise money for all of them i really enjoy going to them.  This year i’m really proud of Jazz, last year she was really hesitant Thursday and she came home with 25.00 donations from school already.  Last year she didn’t want to ask anyone i had to raise her money for her just to get her t-shirt.  LOL Hugs Pooh ICQ#: 3687282 Current ICQ status: + More ways to contact me — Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).

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good to hear from you pooh.  i have missed you here.  i can sympathize with the "toxic parents" issue.  i worked it all out with a therapist about 20 years ago.  best thing i ever did.  i become (became?) to understand myself much better and found out there are good people in the world…i married one!  it is amasing how much stress that issue can add to your life.  i know that sometimes people say, just tell’em what you think and so forth, well depends on situation, sometimes all it does is set you apart from others and your are no better, sometimes worse off.  in my case it was MY issue and I had to deal with it, parents don’t change, especially when they get older…in fact, it usually gets worse.  i did the "deal with it" and "move on" and it was great.  just sharing, not saying right or wrong.  everyone has to find their own way. prolly good you are staying busy.  i hope you find your way thru this, i know it must be tough.  i hope the gut settles down for you too.  take care and i will be thinking of you and sending good vibes your way pooh! jeff

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Just really busy and still not feeling well. doctor’s appointments and therapist appointments and Jazz’s therapists appoointments i feel like i’m always on the go. to exercises is to confront those that either abused you or made you feel relatives and actually felt a bit of anger release, even though they weren’t mode since. No one said that it was going to be easy and it’s going to get even harder ;0) even though i don’t raise money for all of them i really enjoy going to them.  This year i’m really proud of Jazz, last year she was really hesitant Thursday and she came home with 25.00 donations from school already.  Last year she didn’t want to ask anyone i had to raise her money for her just to get her t-shirt.  LOL Hugs Pooh ICQ#: 3687282 Current ICQ status: + More ways to contact me — Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).

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last year.  ;0) HUGS

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – (((((((Pooh))))))) Welcome back!  Can relate to the anger management issues; especially regarding so-called family.  My dh has been and is dealing with "toxic family" issues now.  Hope with the help of your therapy you can find some peace! Also hope you can get over that nasty flare verrrrry soon!  The people/dogs walk sounds great; enjoy it.  When is it? Christine CD 03/UC 01 Hi Sarah, it’s just a walk where you can take your dog(s) walking/running with you to raise money for the CCFA (Crohn’s Colitis Foundation) normally raise money for. Jazz is my 15 yo dd (dear daughter). the taking storm.  The area’s beautiful and we take in the scenery and Jazz and I get some mom/daughter time together.  ;0)  Plus we raise some money for a makes it a better cause for me.  LOL HUGS (((((((((((((((((((((Pooh)))))))))))))))))))) Life doesnt sound too good at the moment! Good to hear from you, what is the people/dog walk all about? never heard of it before but it sounds like fun!!! Who is Jazz? Daughter? Friend? Good luck with the walk anyway – hope it all goes well and it gets rid of some of the anger you said you are feeling too! Let us know how it goes :) Sarah Just really busy and still not feeling well. my doctor’s appointments and therapist appointments and Jazz’s therapists appoointments i feel like i’m always on the go. ready to book ending exercises is to confront those that either abused you or made you feel 2 relatives and actually felt a bit of anger release, even though they weren’t tear flare mode since. No one said that it was going to be easy and it’s going to get even harder hospital. ;0) annual actually really looking forward to the walks to begin again even though i don’t raise money for all of them i really enjoy going to them.  This year i’m really proud of Jazz, last year she was really hesitant Thursday and she came home with 25.00 donations from school already.  Last year she didn’t want to ask anyone i had to raise her money for her just to get her t-shirt.  LOL Hugs Pooh ICQ#: 3687282 Current ICQ status: + More ways to contact me — Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). — Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).

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(((((((Pooh))))))) Welcome back!  Can relate to the anger management issues; especially regarding so-called family.  My dh has been and is dealing with "toxic family" issues now.  Hope with the help of your therapy you can find some peace! Also hope you can get over that nasty flare verrrrry soon!  The people/dogs walk sounds great; enjoy it.  When is it? Christine CD 03/UC 01

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Sarah, it’s just a walk where you can take your dog(s) walking/running with you to raise money for the CCFA (Crohn’s Colitis Foundation) raise money for. Jazz is my 15 yo dd (dear daughter). taking storm.  The area’s beautiful and we take in the scenery and Jazz and I get some mom/daughter time together.  ;0)  Plus we raise some money for a makes it a better cause for me.  LOL HUGS (((((((((((((((((((((Pooh)))))))))))))))))))) Life doesnt sound too good at the moment! Good to hear from you, what is the people/dog walk all about? never heard of it before but it sounds like fun!!! Who is Jazz? Daughter? Friend? Good luck with the walk anyway – hope it all goes well and it gets rid of some of the anger you said you are feeling too! Let us know how it goes :) Sarah Just really busy and still not feeling well. my doctor’s appointments and therapist appointments and Jazz’s therapists appoointments i feel like i’m always on the go. ready to book ending exercises is to confront those that either abused you or made you feel relatives and actually felt a bit of anger release, even though they weren’t tear flare mode since. No one said that it was going to be easy and it’s going to get even harder hospital. ;0) annual actually really looking forward to the walks to begin again even though i don’t raise money for all of them i really enjoy going to them.  This year i’m really proud of Jazz, last year she was really hesitant Thursday and she came home with 25.00 donations from school already.  Last year she didn’t want to ask anyone i had to raise her money for her just to get her t-shirt.  LOL Hugs Pooh ICQ#: 3687282 Current ICQ status: + More ways to contact me — Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). — Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).

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Hi Sarah, it’s just a walk where you can take your dog(s) walking/running with you to raise money for the CCFA (Crohn’s Colitis Foundation) raise money for. Jazz is my 15 yo dd (dear daughter). taking storm.  The area’s beautiful and we take in the scenery and Jazz and I get some mom/daughter time together.  ;0)  Plus we raise some money for a makes it a better cause for me.  LOL HUGS

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – (((((((((((((((((((((Pooh)))))))))))))))))))) Life doesnt sound too good at the moment! Good to hear from you, what is the people/dog walk all about? never heard of it before but it sounds like fun!!! Who is Jazz? Daughter? Friend? Good luck with the walk anyway – hope it all goes well and it gets rid of some of the anger you said you are feeling too! Let us know how it goes :) Sarah Just really busy and still not feeling well. doctor’s appointments and therapist appointments and Jazz’s therapists appoointments i feel like i’m always on the go. ready to book exercises is to confront those that either abused you or made you feel relatives and actually felt a bit of anger release, even though they weren’t tear flare mode since. No one said that it was going to be easy and it’s going to get even harder hospital. ;0) actually really looking forward to the walks to begin again even though i don’t raise money for all of them i really enjoy going to them.  This year i’m really proud of Jazz, last year she was really hesitant Thursday and she came home with 25.00 donations from school already.  Last year she didn’t want to ask anyone i had to raise her money for her just to get her t-shirt.  LOL Hugs Pooh ICQ#: 3687282 Current ICQ status: + More ways to contact me — Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).

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(((((((((((((((((((((Pooh)))))))))))))))))))) Life doesnt sound too good at the moment! Good to hear from you, what is the people/dog walk all about? never heard of it before but it sounds like fun!!! Who is Jazz? Daughter? Friend? Good luck with the walk anyway – hope it all goes well and it gets rid of some of the anger you said you are feeling too! Let us know how it goes :) Sarah

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Just really busy and still not feeling well. doctor’s appointments and therapist appointments and Jazz’s therapists appoointments i feel like i’m always on the go. to exercises is to confront those that either abused you or made you feel relatives and actually felt a bit of anger release, even though they weren’t mode since. No one said that it was going to be easy and it’s going to get even harder ;0) even though i don’t raise money for all of them i really enjoy going to them.  This year i’m really proud of Jazz, last year she was really hesitant Thursday and she came home with 25.00 donations from school already.  Last year she didn’t want to ask anyone i had to raise her money for her just to get her t-shirt.  LOL Hugs Pooh ICQ#: 3687282 Current ICQ status: + More ways to contact me — Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).

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Just really busy and still not feeling well. doctor’s appointments and therapist appointments and Jazz’s therapists appoointments i feel like i’m always on the go. exercises is to confront those that either abused you or made you feel relatives and actually felt a bit of anger release, even though they weren’t mode since. No one said that it was going to be easy and it’s going to get even harder ;0) even though i don’t raise money for all of them i really enjoy going to them.  This year i’m really proud of Jazz, last year she was really hesitant and she came home with 25.00 donations from school already.  Last year she didn’t want to ask anyone i had to raise her money for her just to get her t-shirt.  LOL Hugs Pooh ICQ#: 3687282 Current ICQ status: + More ways to contact me — Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com).

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Newbee, newly diagnosed

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If you are going so often and not taking anything to stop the Big D’s attacks you might ask her for something to help with this too.  My gi doesn’t prescribe pain meds either and I see a pain management dr which has worked out really well for me.  UM MOM Susan

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Margo, Welcome to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in July 2001. At that time I was too inflamed to complete a colonoscopy – they only got 30cms in before having to stop. But they suspected I had pancolitis (the whole colon being affected). When I got out, the gastroenterologist didn’t bother doing another colonoscopy to determine the true extent of the inflammation and treated me for pancolitis with mesasal (in the same drug family as asacol and pentasa) and later imuran (immunosuppressant) in addition to the prednisolone (steroids). Having been released from hospital using colifoam (a rectal foam containing steroids), I felt pretty good in contrast to how I felt while in hospital. But my doctor took me off the colifoam and continued reducing the steroids (this part is necessary) and I got worse and worse until eventually I couldn’t cope anymore and decided I had to take control and do something about this damn illness. So I sought a second opinion, and the new doctor was absolutely wonderful. He sent me for a colonoscopy so he could actually determine the extent of the inflammation, and in the meantime prescribed predsol enemas (topical steroids) for the night, and colifoam for the morning. Within a week my symptoms had improved dramatically. The colonoscopy revealed that I did not have pancolitis as assumed by the first doctor – it was limited to the last 30cms (distal) and the inflammation was severe. So the predsol/colifoam was the best treatment after all. My first doctor had suggested to me that maybe I had "a bit of IBS" since he couldn’t treat my colitis competently – turns out he just did not know what he was doing. It seems a bit weird to decide my diarrhea is caused by IBS when I have severe inflammation due to UC! Anyway, sorry for this long-winded story – I guess the message I wanted to get across is that: 1. If you do not have much luck with the asacol, ask your doctor about topical treatments such as enemas and rectal foams. I know my initial reaction to using such things was "no way" – but really, the benefits outweigh the yuk factor! 2. If you are not happy with your treatment, seek a second opinion. I went through hell with my first doctor who refused to pass on my medical records even though he was required to by law, but the struggle was rewarded with me finding a very good doctor and getting my life back. 3. Take control of your treatment – be proactive, ask questions, research, talk to people, go to info lectures and support group meetings. Had I sat back and relied on my doctors for information and care, I would be a lot worse off than I am now. Doctors don’t have time to educate you about your illness, or tell you in detail how medications affect you. Often they make assumptions about what you know, or don’t care what you know. I have learned the most from this newsgroup. Good luck! Amy UC Melbourne, Australia Hi Amy, How is it down under? Nice and toasty I would imagine. I went to Sydney in 1991 for 10 days. I really loved it. I know Melbourne is probably not like Sydney. I really loved the people. And, as I have spent some time on the NG’s I have met other great people from Australia. I’ll swap weather with you! Anywaaay, thank you so much for sharing your story. I have other health problems, and have battled some bad/uninformed/egotistical drs. before; so I am battle ready, so to speak! I’m not too sure about this woman who diagnosed me; but I’ll withhold judgment until I talk to her on Monday. I saw her for the initial interview, she did the ’scope the next day, and that is all I have seen of her. During my initial interview, when she looked at my med sheet (I keep a typed medical info sheet with a list of my meds) and saw I was on pain meds, she said, "I don’t prescribe pain meds to anyone! If you want pain meds you have to go to your regular dr." Now mind you, I had not said a word at that point about any meds! And I wasn’t too impressed with the nurse I spoke to. She got pretty annoyed when I started grilling her about the meds that were prescribed. So I am looking into other drs. in nearby towns/cities. A very nice woman from the IBS sucks board got some names for me. I have had bouts with irritable bowel, or so I’ve been told, off and on for decades. I did have a colonoscopy back in 2000 that didn’t show anything amiss, and the biopsies were normal. So I have to assume that this is in fact new, and that it was probably triggered by my c. diff infection last year. I’ve got the feeling that this GI doc just diagnoses, prescribes, then ships you back to your internist. I want someone who will be my teammate in dealing with this, so I am prepared to shop around. There aren’t many options here in this town, but as I said, there are other towns within decent driving distance. And if the nearer towns don’t work, there is a university teaching hospital an hour or so away. I actually think that the rectal meds might be a good idea, and I intend to ask the doc about that when I talk to her on Monday. I don’t have any squeamishness about that route of administration. It just makes sense to use a topical steroid. But, I do have a question: my D is always worse in the am. How do you keep the enema or suppository in there if you are having D, like 5-10 times for the first 5 hours you are awake? Thanks to anyone here that I haven’t replied to. You have all made me feel much better, knowing that you are here; — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies an ear, a shoulder, and some experience to share.

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Margo, Welcome to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in July 2001. At that time I was too inflamed to complete a colonoscopy – they only got 30cms in before having to stop. But they suspected I had pancolitis (the whole colon being affected). When I got out, the gastroenterologist didn’t bother doing another colonoscopy to determine the true extent of the inflammation and treated me for pancolitis with mesasal (in the same drug family as asacol and pentasa) and later imuran (immunosuppressant) in addition to the prednisolone (steroids). Having been released from hospital using colifoam (a rectal foam containing steroids), I felt pretty good in contrast to how I felt while in hospital. But my doctor took me off the colifoam and continued reducing the steroids (this part is necessary) and I got worse and worse until eventually I couldn’t cope anymore and decided I had to take control and do something about this damn illness. So I sought a second opinion, and the new doctor was absolutely wonderful. He sent me for a colonoscopy so he could actually determine the extent of the inflammation, and in the meantime prescribed predsol enemas (topical steroids) for the night, and colifoam for the morning. Within a week my symptoms had improved dramatically. The colonoscopy revealed that I did not have pancolitis as assumed by the first doctor – it was limited to the last 30cms (distal) and the inflammation was severe. So the predsol/colifoam was the best treatment after all. My first doctor had suggested to me that maybe I had "a bit of IBS" since he couldn’t treat my colitis competently – turns out he just did not know what he was doing. It seems a bit weird to decide my diarrhea is caused by IBS when I have severe inflammation due to UC! Anyway, sorry for this long-winded story – I guess the message I wanted to get across is that: 1. If you do not have much luck with the asacol, ask your doctor about topical treatments such as enemas and rectal foams. I know my initial reaction to using such things was "no way" – but really, the benefits outweigh the yuk factor! 2. If you are not happy with your treatment, seek a second opinion. I went through hell with my first doctor who refused to pass on my medical records even though he was required to by law, but the struggle was rewarded with me finding a very good doctor and getting my life back. 3. Take control of your treatment – be proactive, ask questions, research, talk to people, go to info lectures and support group meetings. Had I sat back and relied on my doctors for information and care, I would be a lot worse off than I am now. Doctors don’t have time to educate you about your illness, or tell you in detail how medications affect you. Often they make assumptions about what you know, or don’t care what you know. I have learned the most from this newsgroup. Good luck! Amy UC Melbourne, Australia

Hi Amy, How is it down under? Nice and toasty I would imagine. I went to Sydney in 1991 for 10 days. I really loved it. I know Melbourne is probably not like Sydney. I really loved the people. And, as I have spent some time on the NG’s I have met other great people from Australia. I’ll swap weather with you! Anywaaay, thank you so much for sharing your story. I have other health problems, and have battled some bad/uninformed/egotistical drs. before; so I am battle ready, so to speak! I’m not too sure about this woman who diagnosed me; but I’ll withhold judgment until I talk to her on Monday. I saw her for the initial interview, she did the ’scope the next day, and that is all I have seen of her. During my initial interview, when she looked at my med sheet (I keep a typed medical info sheet with a list of my meds) and saw I was on pain meds, she said, "I don’t prescribe pain meds to anyone! If you want pain meds you have to go to your regular dr." Now mind you, I had not said a word at that point about any meds! And I wasn’t too impressed with the nurse I spoke to. She got pretty annoyed when I started grilling her about the meds that were prescribed. So I am looking into other drs. in nearby towns/cities. A very nice woman from the IBS sucks board got some names for me. I have had bouts with irritable bowel, or so I’ve been told, off and on for decades. I did have a colonoscopy back in 2000 that didn’t show anything amiss, and the biopsies were normal. So I have to assume that this is in fact new, and that it was probably triggered by my c. diff infection last year. I’ve got the feeling that this GI doc just diagnoses, prescribes, then ships you back to your internist. I want someone who will be my teammate in dealing with this, so I am prepared to shop around. There aren’t many options here in this town, but as I said, there are other towns within decent driving distance. And if the nearer towns don’t work, there is a university teaching hospital an hour or so away. I actually think that the rectal meds might be a good idea, and I intend to ask the doc about that when I talk to her on Monday. I don’t have any squeamishness about that route of administration. It just makes sense to use a topical steroid. But, I do have a question: my D is always worse in the am. How do you keep the enema or suppository in there if you are having D, like 5-10 times for the first 5 hours you are awake? Thanks to anyone here that I haven’t replied to. You have all made me feel much better, knowing that you are here; — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies an ear, a shoulder, and some experience to share.

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Hi Margo, Welcome to the group. I was diagnosed with UC in July 2001. At that time I was too inflamed to complete a colonoscopy – they only got 30cms in before having to stop. But they suspected I had pancolitis (the whole colon being affected). When I got out, the gastroenterologist didn’t bother doing another colonoscopy to determine the true extent of the inflammation and treated me for pancolitis with mesasal (in the same drug family as asacol and pentasa) and later imuran (immunosuppressant) in addition to the prednisolone (steroids). Having been released from hospital using colifoam (a rectal foam containing steroids), I felt pretty good in contrast to how I felt while in hospital. But my doctor took me off the colifoam and continued reducing the steroids (this part is necessary) and I got worse and worse until eventually I couldn’t cope anymore and decided I had to take control and do something about this damn illness. So I sought a second opinion, and the new doctor was absolutely wonderful. He sent me for a colonoscopy so he could actually determine the extent of the inflammation, and in the meantime prescribed predsol enemas (topical steroids) for the night, and colifoam for the morning. Within a week my symptoms had improved dramatically. The colonoscopy revealed that I did not have pancolitis as assumed by the first doctor – it was limited to the last 30cms (distal) and the inflamation was severe. So the predsol/colifoam was the best treatment after all. My first doctor had suggested to me that maybe I had "a bit of IBS" since he couldn’t treat my colitis competently – turns out he just did not know what he was doing. It seems a bit weird to decide my diarrhoea is caused by IBS when I have severe inflammation due to UC! Anyway, sorry for this long-winded story – I guess the message I wanted to get across is that: 1. If you do not have much luck with the asacol, ask your doctor about topical treatments such as enemas and rectal foams. I know my initial reaction to using such things was "no way" – but really, the benefits outweigh the yuk factor! 2. If you are not happy with your treatment, seek a second opinion. I went through hell with my first doctor who refused to pass on my medical records even though he was required to by law, but the struggle was rewarded with me finding a very good doctor and getting my life back. 3. Take control of your treatment – be proactive, ask questions, research, talk to people, go to info lectures and support group meetings. Had I sat back and relied on my doctors for information and care, I would be a lot worse off than I am now. Doctors don’t have time to educate you about your illness, or tell you in detail how medications affect you. Often they make assumptions about what you know, or don’t care what you know. I have learned the most from this newsgroup. Good luck! Amy UC Melbourne, Australia – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Hi Tiger and welcome.  I’m sorry to hear about your dx.  I hope you will find the support and information you need. :) mgbio – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Thank you!

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Tiger and welcome.  I’m sorry to hear about your dx.  I hope you will find the support and information you need. :) mgbio Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Scott, You are using the 6MP for its immunosuppressant properties.  The dosage you take is too small to have the effects needed in chemo. :)  mgbio – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Welcome to the group Margo.     I was diagnosed with UC in april of this year and have been on prednisone almost the entire time as well as sulfasalazine.  Excuse me if I seem cranky its just one of my side effects of being ill for 8 months straight.  I’ve grown very tired of this.  Today I started 6MP which is a form of chemotherapy and if this doesn’t help, I’m ready to do my own surgery and kick my colon to the curb once and for all.  I wish you all the best of luck in your treatment! -Scott Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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I was on it and only briefly because I got sick on it and now take Pentasa. But if I remember correctly it took a little while before it took enough of the inflamation down to notice a difference.  The Pentasa took me about a month or so before I actually felt any difference.  UM MOM Susan

I hope it works quickly for you :)  I’m not sure if Asacol works fast or not – I’ve never been on it. Hugs,  Linda

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Welcome Margo!  Good luck with the Asacol and pop in often :) Hugs,  Linda Just popped my first one, crossing my fingers! Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Welcome Margo!  Good luck with the Asacol and pop in often :) Hugs,  Linda Just popped my first one, crossing my fingers!

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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I hope it works quickly for you :)  I’m not sure if Asacol works fast or not – I’ve never been on it. Hugs,  Linda – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Welcome Margo!  Good luck with the Asacol and pop in often :) Hugs,  Linda Just popped my first one, crossing my fingers! Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Welcome Margo!  Good luck with the Asacol and pop in often :) Hugs,  Linda – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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That last one was an "oops", see my response below. Hello,

margo you hang in and stay on the board…good luck…prayers and good vibes are with u annie

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Margo,     With any luck you should start seeing some relief in a week or two.  If you don’t get any better make sure you contact your GI right away and stay on them until you find something that works for you.  Asacol didn’t work for me.  But then again neither did anything else thus far.  Don’t be afraid to demand good treatment.  They are getting paid well to take care of you and dang it they darn well better! :-) -Scott

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Welcome to the group Margo.     I was diagnosed with UC in april of this year and have been on prednisone almost the entire time as well as sulfasalazine.  Excuse me if I seem cranky its just one of my side effects of being ill for 8 months straight.  I’ve grown very tired of this.  Today I started 6MP which is a form of chemotherapy and if this doesn’t help, I’m ready to do my own surgery and kick my colon to the curb once and for all.  I wish you all the best of luck in your treatment! -Scott Wow Scott, you have it bad. I have been sick and in pain for about 3 months straight now. I have good days and bad days. I start my first med tomorrow. I hope I get lucky. How long do you wait after beginning the Asacol before you know if it is doing any good? — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. welcome to the group margo…sorry you had to join us <g but its a good place to be when u have uc or crohns(ibd)or have a family member with it..you will learn a lot..laugh a lot…(perhaps argue a lot lol)..asacol is a good med..related to colazol and pentasa which u might see mentioned..if you can be maintained on asacol that would be great..i hope they give u something for the pain tho..asacol will help heal ..but its not an immediate pain killer..i am on darvon when the pain is bad.. dealing with this..u have to revise your diet..and u will see as many different eating styles as people on here..what works for one doesnt always work for another..and you may have to revise your lifestyle..less physical stress to the body..depending on how you are feeling…i think the hardest thing to understand..really understand..is that this is chronic..that means it isnt going to go away permanently..ever…unless they find a cure..which they havent as yet..that means that u will have remissions..hopefully..and then flareups..learning to live with a chronic illness is very difficult..but we are all doing it on here…i would highly recommend a book called "people not patients" edited by several gi’s..including dr peter banks(who was my first gi in boston..no he doesnt pay me to mention his book lol)l..i believe there is a second or even a third book out now..but what i liked about his book is that it dealt with everything in ibd from technical terms, to meds to tests, to people leading successful lives with ibd..to fears, etc etc…it helped inform me a lot..since the edition of the book i had lots of new meds have come out. and being on this group u will learn tons of stuff..and get lots of love and support..so((((((((((((margo)))))))))))))))) hang in..and welcome annie

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That last one was an "oops", see my response below.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. welcome to the group margo…sorry you had to join us <g but its a good place to be when u have uc or crohns(ibd)or have a family member with it..you will learn a lot..laugh a lot…(perhaps argue a lot lol)..asacol is a good med..related to colazol and pentasa which u might see mentioned..if you can be maintained on asacol that would be great..i hope they give u something for the pain tho..asacol will help heal ..but its not an immediate pain killer..i am on darvon when the pain is bad.. dealing with this..u have to revise your diet..and u will see as many different eating styles as people on here..what works for one doesnt always work for another..and you may have to revise your lifestyle..less physical stress to the body..depending on how you are feeling…i think the hardest thing to understand..really understand..is that this is chronic..that means it isnt going to go away permanently..ever…unless they find a cure..which they havent as yet..that means that u will have remissions..hopefully..and then flareups..learning to live with a chronic illness is very difficult..but we are all doing it on here…i would highly recommend a book called "people not patients" edited by several gi’s..including dr peter banks(who was my first gi in boston..no he doesnt pay me to mention his book lol)l..i believe there is a second or even a third book out now..but what i liked about his book is that it dealt with everything in ibd from technical terms, to meds to tests, to people leading successful lives with ibd..to fears, etc etc…it helped inform me a lot..since the edition of the book i had lots of new meds have come out. and being on this group u will learn tons of stuff..and get lots of love and support..so((((((((((((margo)))))))))))))))) hang in..and welcome annie

Thank you annie. I was hoping for a good "starter" book. I know this is chronic, I’ve done some homework. I have lived with what I was told was Irritable Bowel for many years. Back in 2000 I had a negative colonoscopy/biopsies. I never had any bleeding before. But I had a bout of C. Diff colitis a year ago; from being on IV antibiotics for something else. I had my first nasty "attack" last August. Severe pain, bloody mucus after there wasn’t any stool left to get out. went to the ER. I didn’t have a regular doctor back then, and no insurance. They gave me Bentyl and pain pills and it settled down in a couple of weeks. All my stool cultures were negative for C. Diff and everything else. I had just gotten insurance when I had my second attack. That was in early November. It was in the middle of the night, so I went to the ER again. That Dr. was a jerk. She said "you probably have irritable bowel", and was very patronizing. I said "not with the kind of bleeding I’m getting, I don’t think so." Anyway, I found an internist right away. He was concerned because I had already lost so much weight. This time it wasn’t "settling down". He referred me to GI, but it took this long to get in! I had done a lot of research on line about symptoms and diagnosis, so I suspected that I had UC. Lets just say I wasn’t surprised. Yes, it is still a blow. Now I have to educate myself more on how to deal with this. I don’t know if it just hasn’t hit me yet or what. I’m bummed, but not devastated at this point. I don’t know, ask me again in a week or two! Margo — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Welcome to the group Margo.     I was diagnosed with UC in april of this year and have been on prednisone almost the entire time as well as sulfasalazine.  Excuse me if I seem cranky its just one of my side effects of being ill for 8 months straight.  I’ve grown very tired of this.  Today I started 6MP which is a form of chemotherapy and if this doesn’t help, I’m ready to do my own surgery and kick my colon to the curb once and for all.  I wish you all the best of luck in your treatment! -Scott

Wow Scott, you have it bad. I have been sick and in pain for about 3 months straight now. I have good days and bad days. I start my first med tomorrow. I hope I get lucky. How long do you wait after beginning the Asacol before you know if it is doing any good? — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this.

welcome to the group margo…sorry you had to join us <g but its a good place to be when u have uc or crohns(ibd)or have a family member with it..you will learn a lot..laugh a lot…(perhaps argue a lot lol)..asacol is a good med..related to colazol and pentasa which u might see mentioned..if you can be maintained on asacol that would be great..i hope they give u something for the pain tho..asacol will help heal ..but its not an immediate pain killer..i am on darvon when the pain is bad.. dealing with this..u have to revise your diet..and u will see as many different eating styles as people on here..what works for one doesnt always work for another..and you may have to revise your lifestyle..less physical stress to the body..depending on how you are feeling…i think the hardest thing to understand..really understand..is that this is chronic..that means it isnt going to go away permanently..ever…unless they find a cure..which they havent as yet..that means that u will have remissions..hopefully..and then flareups..learning to live with a chronic illness is very difficult..but we are all doing it on here…i would highly recommend a book called "people not patients" edited by several gi’s..including dr peter banks(who was my first gi in boston..no he doesnt pay me to mention his book lol)l..i believe there is a second or even a third book out now..but what i liked about his book is that it dealt with everything in ibd from technical terms, to meds to tests, to people leading successful lives with ibd..to fears, etc etc…it helped inform me a lot..since the edition of the book i had lots of new meds have come out. and being on this group u will learn tons of stuff..and get lots of love and support..so((((((((((((margo)))))))))))))))) hang in..and welcome annie

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye

Welcome, Margo!!  Glad to have you but sorry that you have IBD.  You can learn an aweful lot here, so stick around. Hugs, Love, Peace and Good Tidings to you all :) –Staci–

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Welcome to the group Margo.     I was diagnosed with UC in april of this year and have been on prednisone almost the entire time as well as sulfasalazine.  Excuse me if I seem cranky its just one of my side effects of being ill for 8 months straight.  I’ve grown very tired of this.  Today I started 6MP which is a form of chemotherapy and if this doesn’t help, I’m ready to do my own surgery and kick my colon to the curb once and for all.  I wish you all the best of luck in your treatment! -Scott

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Welcome, Margo!!  Glad to have you but sorry that you have IBD.  You can learn an aweful lot here, so stick around. Hugs, Love, Peace and Good Tidings to you all :) –Staci–

Thank you Staci, everyone here has made me feel welcome. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Hi Rebecca, I love it! "Time flies when you are in the bathroom"! My friends are getting used to the echo sound on the phone; I do spend a lot of time in there! I’m sure like anyone else, I just want to function as "normally" as possible, with as little pain as possible. I will be hanging out here a lot, I’m sure. Margo — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Welcome! I was dxed with UC over six years ago (time flies when you are in the bathroom) and was given Asacol too. It works for some, but not others. The big thing is to keep trying until you find the right combination of meds. And feel free to ask ANY questions here — we’ve discussed it all (and nothing embarrasses us) Rebecca :-) Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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http://www.rxlist.com/frame/display.cgi?drug=DEPO  Here is a link about your drug.   Everyones diet is so different, some can eat and drink things that others can’t.  I can have dairy products with no problems but I have trouble adjusting to the right amount of fiber foods.  Fiber foods like veggies, fruits, and nuts can cause problems to some so try a little of something and keep in your diary how you reacted to it.  This is how I ruled in and out a lot in my diet.  Here is a link from the ccfa site to give you an idea on how to at least try to sort out how to change your diet. http://www.ccfa.org/medcentral/library/diet/fiber.htm  I think you’ll be fine once you start to understand how you can be proactive in your disease. From now on  start a drs question sheet for all the questions you are going to have for your next appt.  Then make sure you get answers before you leave.  UM MOM Susan

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Thank you! I’m trying not to get too bummed. I knew once I started having bloody mucus passage, with pain at 9’s and 10’s that this wasn’t just my usual irritable bowel. But it took forever to get in to see a GI doc. I’m somewhat relieved that I finally have a diagnosis, but naturally bummed a little too. I have a lot to learn. Right now I would like to know how to get things to settle down enough in the morning to be able to get out and do things. Up until now I have only had Bentyl and Tylenol #3 for meds. So, thinking that I needed to let things "run" so to speak, I would go through the morning until I had passed all stool, or the pain got too bad, which ever happened first, then take the pills, wait another hour;  THEN I could go out and do things! I had not been given any advice from the doctor about diet, except to avoid dairy. I started a journal today for food and symptoms. I have to go pick up my Asacol script tonight. I don’t get the feeling, from reading up on that drug, that it will help with the cramping/pain. Does it make those things better once it starts working? Thanks for listening. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies Welcome to the group Margo.  Sorry about you having to be here but you will learn a lot.  There’s been a little bit of testiness here but hopefully that will calm down and you will learn about your disease and have while you do here.  I have Crohn’s so I can’t help you from a personal experience but I can help you with information if you would like.  Start with www.ccfa.org . You can learn a lot of this which is the Crohn’s-colitis Foundation organization.  Again welcome and ask any questions you have and right about now you have a few but more and more will come up.  Even if you think it sounds like a silly question we have the attitude that no question is too silly, weird or anything else.  UM MOM Susan Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Welcome! I was dxed with UC over six years ago (time flies when you are in the bathroom) and was given Asacol too. It works for some, but not others. The big thing is to keep trying until you find the right combination of meds. And feel free to ask ANY questions here — we’ve discussed it all (and nothing embarrasses us) Rebecca :-)

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Thank you! I’m trying not to get too bummed. I knew once I started having bloody mucus passage, with pain at 9’s and 10’s that this wasn’t just my usual irritable bowel. But it took forever to get in to see a GI doc. I’m somewhat relieved that I finally have a diagnosis, but naturally bummed a little too. I have a lot to learn. Right now I would like to know how to get things to settle down enough in the morning to be able to get out and do things. Up until now I have only had Bentyl and Tylenol #3 for meds. So, thinking that I needed to let things "run" so to speak, I would go through the morning until I had passed all stool, or the pain got too bad, which ever happened first, then take the pills, wait another hour;  THEN I could go out and do things! I had not been given any advice from the doctor about diet, except to avoid dairy. I started a journal today for food and symptoms. I have to go pick up my Asacol script tonight. I don’t get the feeling, from reading up on that drug, that it will help with the cramping/pain. Does it make those things better once it starts working? Thanks for listening. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Welcome to the group Margo.  Sorry about you having to be here but you will learn a lot.  There’s been a little bit of testiness here but hopefully that will calm down and you will learn about your disease and have while you do here.  I have Crohn’s so I can’t help you from a personal experience but I can help you with information if you would like.  Start with www.ccfa.org . You can learn a lot of this which is the Crohn’s-colitis Foundation organization.  Again welcome and ask any questions you have and right about now you have a few but more and more will come up.  Even if you think it sounds like a silly question we have the attitude that no question is too silly, weird or anything else.  UM MOM Susan Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Welcome to the group Margo.  Sorry about you having to be here but you will learn a lot.  There’s been a little bit of testiness here but hopefully that will calm down and you will learn about your disease and have while you do here.  I have Crohn’s so I can’t help you from a personal experience but I can help you with information if you would like.  Start with www.ccfa.org . You can learn a lot of this which is the Crohn’s-colitis Foundation organization.  Again welcome and ask any questions you have and right about now you have a few but more and more will come up.  Even if you think it sounds like a silly question we have the attitude that no question is too silly, weird or anything else.  UM MOM Susan

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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Hello, My name is Margo. I just found out today (I finally had my colonoscopy last Tuesday) that I have distal UC. I’ve been in a lot of pain for almost three straight months! I see my GI doc on Monday. So far she just had her nurse call me to tell me about a new prescribed med for me Asacol. I guess this is standard first-line treatment. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be hanging out here as I get the hang of how to deal with this. — Tiger Eye Remove the 21 from addy for replies

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What chords are you trying…? I’d start with A, then try switching to E, then introduce D, then G, and finally C… When you can switch between all these then you’re "on you way" :) Adam

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – First Kev, we prefer to keep this newsgroup on plain text.  Thank you.  To answer your question it depends on the chord and the person.  About twenty to thirty hours concentrating on any easy two chord change should be enough. Thsi is in hours because if you work 2 hours a day at it then it takes half as long as 1 hour a day. — My email is lonmsmith at att dot net Have a musical day! I have been teaching myself guitar for some 4 whole days now and was just wondering how long it usually takes before you can jump between open chords without taking too much time. Also what is the best way to learn without the aid of a tutor? Book,internet or video? Thanks     Sore fingers Kev

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First Kev, we prefer to keep this newsgroup on plain text.  Thank you.  To answer your question it depends on the chord and the person.  About twenty to thirty hours concentrating on any easy two chord change should be enough. Thsi is in hours because if you work 2 hours a day at it then it takes half as long as 1 hour a day. — My email is lonmsmith at att dot net Have a musical day!

I have been teaching myself guitar for some 4 whole days now and was just wondering how long it usually takes before you can jump between open chords without taking too much time. Also what is the best way to learn without the aid of a tutor? Book,internet or video? Thanks     Sore fingers Kev

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Kev- I’ve been "playing" for about 8 months. I started with a book/video combo by Larry Little. It teaches some elementary chords E, Em, D, Dm, A, Am, F, G, and C. It also has info on chord progressions and a few songs using the chords you learn (pretty woman, house of the rising sun, etc.). I thought it was very well done and got me going. I’m still working on House, I can allllmmmoooost do it. Jumping from chord to chord really depends on the chord. Some like E minor are easy and you will fly to that one from anywhere. Other’s (like F) will take a lot of practice. But you will see improvement. Just keep practicing the chord progressions and eventually you’ll be able to do it. I still can’t hit most chords as clean or as quick as I’d like to but I see small, incremetal improvements as time goes on so that makes me happy and keeps me working on it. Go to Dansm’s site (search for "dansm accoustic" to find the site) for info on reading tab and strumming patterns, there’s great info there. There are some songs by Tom Petty, John Mellencamp and REM that are not terribly complicated and you feel like a rock star the first time you can actually keep up playing with the recording (even if you sound crappy <g). One last tip that I didn’t know about when I started- strings wear out. I couldn’t figure out why my guitar sounded so blah even after tuning. Replace them after a couple of months or more often if you play alot, they’re cheap. Good luck! Eric

I have been teaching myself guitar for some 4 whole days now and was just wondering how long it usually takes before you can jump between open chords without taking too much time. Also what is the best way to learn without the aid of a tutor? Book,internet or video? Thanks     Sore fingers Kev

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I have been teaching myself guitar for some 4 whole days now and was just wondering how long it usually takes before you can jump between open chords without taking too much time.   Also what is the best way to learn without the aid of a tutor?  Book,internet or video? Thanks     Sore fingers Kev

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The best way to learn is to _post text_. It makes people nicer. Find a *couple* of good books, then some good sites on the net. Get tabs to easy songs that you know by heart. Learn them. Repeat. It’s really that easy. And don’t get discouraged if you can’t play chords very quickly. Many people experience a long period between when they first attempt to play and when they don’t sound like ass anymore. Have fun :)    http://machelp.habitforming.ath.cx <– out of order

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hi i have a ‘93 chevy with a 3.1 motor i would like to know to to remove the TCC  and or if i just unplug it would it do damage in the long run? 2] is it normal for a battery to die within a year {it does’nt  hold it’s charge anymore} i disconected the battery while the car was running and the volts were about 12.08  with everything turn on. 3] changing the tranny fuild & filter tomorrow  cause it’s not red it’s like a brownish color  can this color mean the tranny going?    just bought the car a week ago for the wife it has about 150.000 km the body great   {the car}    ..i own and the original owner of a S-10 ‘89  4.3  217.000 km  just love that truck  and it still hauls ass..                                               thanks group

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Is this a 3 or 4 speed automatic? Disconnecting the TCC isn’t a wonderful idea at the best of times as it will hurt the gas mileage, but especially not on the 4-speeds, it seems to make them overheat. As far as the battery, it could be that the battery is shot, or there’s some other power drain that’s causing it to die. Check and make sure none of the lights like the under-hood light (if any), glove compartment, trunk, etc. are not staying on. And as far as the transmission fluid, that probably means the fluid could use changing, but I don’t think it necessarily indicates a significant transmission problem. — Robert Hancock      Saskatoon, SK, Canada Home Page: http://www.roberthancock.com/

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – hi i have a ‘93 chevy with a 3.1 motor i would like to know to to remove the TCC  and or if i just unplug it would it do damage in the long run? 2] is it normal for a battery to die within a year {it does’nt  hold it’s charge anymore} i disconected the battery while the car was running and the volts were about 12.08  with everything turn on. 3] changing the tranny fuild & filter tomorrow  cause it’s not red it’s like a brownish color  can this color mean the tranny going?    just bought the car a week ago for the wife it has about 150.000 km the body great   {the car}    ..i own and the original owner of a S-10 ‘89  4.3  217.000 km  just love that truck  and it still hauls ass..                                               thanks group

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thks for the reply robert:     its a 3 speed transmission i took a look at the tcc today  whould you know how to remove it ? i check for screws,nuts, clips ect ect and couldnt find a way to remove it……thks in advance – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Is this a 3 or 4 speed automatic? Disconnecting the TCC isn’t a wonderful idea at the best of times as it will hurt the gas mileage, but especially not on the 4-speeds, it seems to make them overheat. As far as the battery, it could be that the battery is shot, or there’s some other power drain that’s causing it to die. Check and make sure none of the lights like the under-hood light (if any), glove compartment, trunk, etc. are not staying on. And as far as the transmission fluid, that probably means the fluid could use changing, but I don’t think it necessarily indicates a significant transmission problem. — Robert Hancock      Saskatoon, SK, Canada Home Page: http://www.roberthancock.com/ hi i have a ‘93 chevy with a 3.1 motor i would like to know to to remove the TCC  and or if i just unplug it would it do damage in the long run? 2] is it normal for a battery to die within a year {it does’nt  hold it’s charge anymore} i disconected the battery while the car was running and the volts were about 12.08  with everything turn on. 3] changing the tranny fuild & filter tomorrow  cause it’s not red it’s like a brownish color  can this color mean the tranny going?    just bought the car a week ago for the wife it has about 150.000 km the body great   {the car}    ..i own and the original owner of a S-10 ‘89  4.3  217.000 km  just love that truck  and it still hauls ass..                                               thanks group

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Taking it out is not worth the trouble, you might as well just pull the plug if you want to just go without it. To get at the TCC solenoid itself, you need to remove the transmission side cover. — Robert Hancock      Saskatoon, SK, Canada Home Page: http://www.roberthancock.com/

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – thks for the reply robert:     its a 3 speed transmission i took a look at the tcc today  whould you know how to remove it ? i check for screws,nuts, clips ect ect and couldnt find a way to remove it……thks in advance Is this a 3 or 4 speed automatic? Disconnecting the TCC isn’t a wonderful idea at the best of times as it will hurt the gas mileage, but especially not on the 4-speeds, it seems to make them overheat. As far as the battery, it could be that the battery is shot, or there’s some other power drain that’s causing it to die. Check and make sure none of the lights like the under-hood light (if any), glove compartment, trunk, etc. are not staying on. And as far as the transmission fluid, that probably means the fluid could use changing, but I don’t think it necessarily indicates a significant transmission problem. — Robert Hancock      Saskatoon, SK, Canada Home Page: http://www.roberthancock.com/ hi i have a ‘93 chevy with a 3.1 motor i would like to know to to remove the TCC  and or if i just unplug it would it do damage in the long run? 2] is it normal for a battery to die within a year {it does’nt  hold it’s charge anymore} i disconected the battery while the car was running and the volts were about 12.08  with everything turn on. 3] changing the tranny fuild & filter tomorrow  cause it’s not red it’s like a brownish color  can this color mean the tranny going?    just bought the car a week ago for the wife it has about 150.000 km the body great   {the car}    ..i own and the original owner of a S-10 ‘89  4.3  217.000 km  just love that truck  and it still hauls ass..                                               thanks group

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Lets take a look….. 1) In very cold weather (very cold being 28 degreesor so), it takes a *very* long time for the heater to warm up, even after 20 minutes of driving, most of the time cool/lukewarm air comes out, while if it’s warmer, say in the 40-50 degree range, the heater can still take 10 minutes to heat up, but it gets hot.  At very cold temperatures, the temperature gauge on the dash barely moves at all.  Is this a thermometer problem?

Common Explorer problem in that year range — the thermostat gets weak and isn’t able to close completely.  In very cold weather you engine never gets a chance to warm up since it is continually being fed with cold water. (Although I find it funny that you consider 28 degrees very cold — here in NY we haven’t even seen 28 in almost a month!) :-) 2) While we’re on the subject of heaters and A/Cs, occasionally, especially during the summer, the blower fan refuses to come on without some.. encouragement.  I’ve heard of other ford vehicles having a similar problem but have never found anything out about a solution, the dealership I got the truck from said they couldn’t fix it because they couldn’t reproduce the problem. Thoughts?

Could be a few different things.  The fan switch itself could be going and it isn’t making a good electrical connection, the connection on the resistor block could be corroded, or, most likely, the fan motor itself is going bad. You can replace the fan motor pretty easily, and I don’t think the part is very expensive. 3) The driver side seatbelt retractor has become almost impossible to deal with, it has very little power and must be hand fed, are these easy to fix/replace, and how much can I expect to spend on a replacement?

Another common Explorer problem.  If you can get the assembly out of the frame you might be able to lubricate the spindle and make it retract more easily.  Replacing the seatbelt is simpler, but not cheap. 4) I had a in-dash CD/mp3 player installed about a year ago, overall the system sounds great compared to what it used to, and especially since I still have factory speakers.  My one complaint though is that the volume level has become *very* touchy, even setting the volume on 05 out of a max of 40 or deafening. I’ve heard Ford has amps installed, but I can’t seem to find it ( if it even exists or could even be the problem), but if it is creating too much power, how can I bypass it?

It sounds like your installer simply ran the new head unit into the existing amplifier, and if so, that guy should not be installing systems in Explorers.  The stock head unit works much like a component in a home stereo system, it just outputs a line-level signal to the outboard amp. Aftermarket head units have their own amplifiers built in, outputting amplified signals ready to go directly to the speakers.  In your system you’ve got a high-level signal going into an amp designed for low-level signals — resulting in exactly what you are seeing. Fixing this is fairly simple.  You need to bypass the amplifier, which is located above the passenger side rear fender, using an aftermarket wiring harness.  There are some harnesses available that just bypass the amp, but what you want is one that comes with wires that run back to the dash.  This also allows you to bypass the stock signal-level wires really aren’t rated to handle the power your radio is putting out. Once you make this change, your radio should sound noticeably better. 5) Finally, one very rare problem, occasionally when I start the vehicle (occasionally as in once every month or two), the engine will race up to 3500+ RPM for a split second and go back down to idle speed.  This doesn’t seem normal to me.  I know it can’t be me accidently hitting the accelerator as it’s happened before with my starting it while standing outside the vehicle. Thoughts?

Not sure about this one, sounds like the engine speed sensor might be going bad. Good luck!

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Lets go through them 1. Sounds like the thermostat is stuck open (cheap item and easily replaced) 2. Could just be a bad connection (can be difficult to trace but start with the blower resistor which is under the hood next to the blower fan) 3. Sorry don’t know the cost but it needs replacing with a new unit (it might not lock when you need it!) 4. If you have the amp it is located on the passenger side behind the rear load bay panel. It can be bypassed with a loom kit from any decent car hifi shop. 5. This sounds like the IAC sticks sometimes. They can be cleaned but some do not have much success with cleaning so replace it. For further help or even help with these check out http://www.explorer4×4.com/ and the forum http://www.explorerforum.com/forums/index.php Hope this helps.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi, I own a 1995 Explorer, it’s the first an only vehicle I’ve ever owned and I don’t know a whole lot about them, so I have a few questions to ask, here goes.. 1) In very cold weather (very cold being 28 degreesor so), it takes a *very* long time for the heater to warm up, even after 20 minutes of driving, most of the time cool/lukewarm air comes out, while if it’s warmer, say in the 40-50 degree range, the heater can still take 10 minutes to heat up, but it gets hot.  At very cold temperatures, the temperature gauge on the dash barely moves at all.  Is this a thermometer problem? 2) While we’re on the subject of heaters and A/Cs, occasionally, especially during the summer, the blower fan refuses to come on without some.. encouragement.  I’ve heard of other ford vehicles having a similar problem but have never found anything out about a solution, the dealership I got the truck from said they couldn’t fix it because they couldn’t reproduce the problem. Thoughts? 3) The driver side seatbelt retractor has become almost impossible to deal with, it has very little power and must be hand fed, are these easy to fix/replace, and how much can I expect to spend on a replacement? 4) I had a in-dash CD/mp3 player installed about a year ago, overall the system sounds great compared to what it used to, and especially since I still have factory speakers.  My one complaint though is that the volume level has become *very* touchy, even setting the volume on 05 out of a max of 40 or deafening. I’ve heard Ford has amps installed, but I can’t seem to find it ( if it even exists or could even be the problem), but if it is creating too much power, how can I bypass it? 5) Finally, one very rare problem, occasionally when I start the vehicle (occasionally as in once every month or two), the engine will race up to 3500+ RPM for a split second and go back down to idle speed.  This doesn’t seem normal to me.  I know it can’t be me accidently hitting the accelerator as it’s happened before with my starting it while standing outside the vehicle. Thoughts? Thanks in advance to any help you can give.

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  4) I had a in-dash CD/mp3 player installed about a year ago, overall the system sounds great compared to what it used to, and especially since I still have factory speakers.  My one complaint though is that the volume level has become *very* touchy, even setting the volume on 05 out of a max of 40 or deafening. I’ve heard Ford has amps installed, but I can’t seem to find it ( if it even exists or could even be the problem), but if it is creating too much power, how can I bypass it?

The people that installed the system should have installed additional items that fixed this problem. When I had some work done on my (new to me) vehicle, the tech made a comment that whoever installed the after market CD player had done this.

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Hi, I own a 1995 Explorer, it’s the first an only vehicle I’ve ever owned and I don’t know a whole lot about them, so I have a few questions to ask, here goes.. 1) In very cold weather (very cold being 28 degreesor so), it takes a *very* long time for the heater to warm up, even after 20 minutes of driving, most of the time cool/lukewarm air comes out, while if it’s warmer, say in the 40-50 degree range, the heater can still take 10 minutes to heat up, but it gets hot.  At very cold temperatures, the temperature gauge on the dash barely moves at all.  Is this a thermometer problem? 2) While we’re on the subject of heaters and A/Cs, occasionally, especially during the summer, the blower fan refuses to come on without some.. encouragement.  I’ve heard of other ford vehicles having a similar problem but have never found anything out about a solution, the dealership I got the truck from said they couldn’t fix it because they couldn’t reproduce the problem. Thoughts? 3) The driver side seatbelt retractor has become almost impossible to deal with, it has very little power and must be hand fed, are these easy to fix/replace, and how much can I expect to spend on a replacement? 4) I had a in-dash CD/mp3 player installed about a year ago, overall the system sounds great compared to what it used to, and especially since I still have factory speakers.  My one complaint though is that the volume level has become *very* touchy, even setting the volume on 05 out of a max of 40 or deafening. I’ve heard Ford has amps installed, but I can’t seem to find it ( if it even exists or could even be the problem), but if it is creating too much power, how can I bypass it? 5) Finally, one very rare problem, occasionally when I start the vehicle (occasionally as in once every month or two), the engine will race up to 3500+ RPM for a split second and go back down to idle speed.  This doesn’t seem normal to me.  I know it can’t be me accidently hitting the accelerator as it’s happened before with my starting it while standing outside the vehicle. Thoughts? Thanks in advance to any help you can give.

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?  Also if anyone knows if jobs , and what type of jobs are available? I have a bus pass taking me along Melbourne, Adelaide, Alice Springs and back down the East Coast.  What type of year is it dangerous to swim at the Northern East Coast?  Is it dangerous at all beaches? And one more question…  How early should I make reservations at a hostel for Christmas?

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?

Reservations in October? I don’t think so. Sydney has an incredible amount of hostel capacity. Even at Christmas you’ll be fine as long as you show up by 8 or 9 in the morning and are willing to try a few places. Also if anyone knows if jobs, and what type of jobs are available?

Largely the same types of jobs you’ll find in Canada… though if you don’t have a work visa your options will be much more limited. miguel

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?  Also if anyone knows if jobs , and what type of jobs are available? I have a bus pass taking me along Melbourne, Adelaide, Alice Springs and back down the East Coast.  What type of year is it dangerous to swim at the Northern East Coast?  Is it dangerous at all beaches? And one more question…  How early should I make reservations at a hostel for Christmas?

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?

Reservations in October? I don’t think so. Sydney has an incredible amount of hostel capacity. Even at Christmas you’ll be fine as long as you show up by 8 or 9 in the morning and are willing to try a few places. Also if anyone knows if jobs, and what type of jobs are available?

Largely the same types of jobs you’ll find in Canada… though if you don’t have a work visa your options will be much more limited. miguel

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim through? ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it? Thanks in advance krudman

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What you’re looking for is the Aqua Span. Overall length is 36" and height is 15". Sells for $149.95US.  I found it at  www.thatpetplace.com — Bahnee in Craig, CO Attitoad is Everything! http://members.tripod.com/~bahnee

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that bridge thing…..i have seen it in one of my pond cataloges……but which one?….i think they had it for about $150….it actually looks pretty cool…..sorry i can’t remember which one though… I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim

through?

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.

I guessing maybe looking at these websites: www.petwhse.com or www.thatpetplace.com ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

Forget the crawdads they pick on sleeping fish. Waterdog, don’t know. See my ponds thru the seasons: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ ~jan~ Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7a Remove Z to E-mail

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…  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it

It was a plexiglass bridge that someone had seen in an ad in the back of a ponding mag.  The general consensus was that it would work, but would grow a lot of algae, and be impossible to keep clean. ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

From what I’ve learned about water dogs (mud puppies around here), they would be fine.  Not crawdads, though.  They have been known to nip sleeping or dormant fish and eat them when that little strategy resulted in death.  I have had stealth crawdads in my pond (didn’t know they were there) and they didn’t do that, but otheres have had it happen, and besides they don’t keep the detritus off the bottom very well. Ann in Houston

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?  Also if anyone knows if jobs , and what type of jobs are available? I have a bus pass taking me along Melbourne, Adelaide, Alice Springs and back down the East Coast.  What type of year is it dangerous to swim at the Northern East Coast?  Is it dangerous at all beaches? And one more question…  How early should I make reservations at a hostel for Christmas?

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?

Reservations in October? I don’t think so. Sydney has an incredible amount of hostel capacity. Even at Christmas you’ll be fine as long as you show up by 8 or 9 in the morning and are willing to try a few places. Also if anyone knows if jobs, and what type of jobs are available?

Largely the same types of jobs you’ll find in Canada… though if you don’t have a work visa your options will be much more limited. miguel

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Hello all, We are new to the pond world and were hoping to get some information. We bought our first house last year; it’s on two acres out in the country and had been vacant for several years. After a lot of general maintenance, we are finally ready to get the cement pond going! Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to have a general idea. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. Any info would be helpful – we appreciate your time! best regards, melissa and gregg

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During the ponding season a pump should run 24/7. Once the water temp. reaches the mid-40s and is going to stay there for a while you can shut the pump off. More details will help – how many fish and what size are they, what kind of plants, a filter, waterfall or fountain? Where you live will determine much of your winter activities. And your zone. You can check out the third link in my sig. for lots of good websites. Welcome to rec.ponds!! K30A See my brother’s website http://WWW.30acreimaging.com/ see the labradors at http://www.daydreamergardens.com/2_level/articles/dog_how_to.htm K30A and friends’ pond information page http://hometown.aol.com/k30a/myhomepage/writing.html

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If you just want a rough idea of the volume, try this:  find a container of five to ten gallons, or anything that you know the volume, and clock it to see how long it takes to fill it up w/your hose.  Then, w/out turning off the hose, fill up the pond, timing it again.  Then, just do the math, using the timed flow rate that you detemined with the small container. As for the color, there are several kinds of concrete paint available, and some of them will seal up any pores or cracks in the concrete at the same time.  Just go to any full service hardware or paint store and ask what kind to use. Good luck, and hope this helped. — Easy ~ Pond is the newest distributor for Permalon pond liners. Stronger, lighter, and sized per order, Permalon is comparable to EPDM in price only. Contact me via email for more information. Before you buy.

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Melissa,  the gallonage is easy to calculate but I’ll have to make some assumptions since you imply that the pond is circular (when you speak of diameter instead of length and width) and that the sides slope down at a 45 degree angle (one foot out equals one foot down).  In this case that would mean that where it’s 4 feet deep, is only a 2 foot diameter circle at the center.  So you have an upside-down truncated cone.  If this is the case for a (very) rough estimate of gallons it’s pi r squared one-half h minus the truncated part, or 3.14 * 5*5*2.5* 7.5 gallons minus the truncated part gallons (only about 12 gallons), or about 1450 gallons.  You can also use the flow method as another poster suggested, timing first how long it takes to fill 5 gallons using a 5 gallon bucket, then timing how long it takes to fill the pond.  The ratio of the first time to the second time is the ratio of 5 gallons to your pond’s gallons. I wouldn’t get too hung up on exact gallons, it’s just a guide to help you plan for plants, fish, pump.  You could be plus or minus 150 gallons or so and it wouldn’t make a great difference for most things. Tim

| Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped | inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be | acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest | point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 | inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to | have a general idea.

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I agree with Mike on the painting.  Algae will form on the sides and bottom in no time.  It would cover your paint job anyways so why bother.        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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snip Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there?

  The way to find out the gallonage in this pond would be to measure it if you fill it again. Fill a container of known gallons and time it. Then fill the pond. The time x the gallons in the container is the ponds volume. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place.

It won’t stay this color as algae will cover the sides after a short while, this is good. If you really don’t like the color, you can drain it and coat it with Thoroseal which can be dyed with standard concrete colors. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

Filter pumps run 24/7. Feature pumps can be run when desired. FAQ at http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/faq.html snip

– hth – how no NEWS is good

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<snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis.   Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Hi, Any of Helen Nash’s books are a good source of information. I like her "Low-Maintenance Water Gardens" and "The Pond Doctor".  Barron’s "Water Gardens" has much info for a little book.  It even has section for building bridges.   For plants Helen Nash’s "Aquatic Plants & Their Cultivation", American Horticultural Society "Ponds & Water Features". As you can see, there are many good books.  These are just a few of my collection.  I don’t know if this helps or just adds to the confusion. — Bonnie NJ http://www.users.fast.net/~maebe/index.htm – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) !

I second that!  Pond & Garden is the most beautiful and informative magazine I have ever read …. on any subject. Judy from California

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Whoops.. your correct.. see what happens you stay up late at night and try to rely on an aging brain? Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836 I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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I just ordered Helen Nash’s Plants for Water Gardens book.  I can’t wait to get it!!!  This is the area I’m having the hardest time with trying to figure out what plants to get, sizes I need and hardy for my zone.  This will make life so much simpler!!!  Now I can pick my plants and surf the web to order them!!!  : )  Then know exactly what to do come winter and lots of other stuff!!!        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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Thanks to all who responded. I’ve filed all the suggestions away, hoping to make use of them as winter reading material.

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Hello! I live in SW Michigan (Zone 5/6).  I’m thinking about installing a pond and have a few questions. First of all, does this NG have a FAQ I can refer to? I’m new and I hate to ask the same old same old… Second:  I have been reading stuff for about a year, and if all things were equal, I would use a high quality liner for my pond.  However, I am now the busy owner of a 1 yr old standard Poodle (the big size) who loves being in water.  I made a small pond out of an old wheelbarrow last summer when he a puppy and he was in it all the time.  I am concerned that he will occasionally get in the new pond and poke his nice big toenails right through the lining. I would of course attempt to teach him not to get in but he is quite ornery!  I guess I am interested in whether the lining material can withstand a 60 lb dog or not. (I’m guessing not!) A local discount pet supply business sells MacCourt pre-formed pools. They have a Lotus on sale that I am looking at.  However, it (and all of MacCourts other models) is only 18" deep.  From my reading this appears to be too shallow to keep fish over winter.  The shop assures me that they will be OK.  Are they just trying to get rid of this pond (it’s been sitting there all winter)? I am interested only in a few goldfish, nothing fancy. I don’t want to bring anything inside during the winter.   Thanks. I appreciate any answers you have for me! Catherine

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Catherine, Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.  They are real cheap and come in several shapes and sizes.  They are easy to manuver as are galvanized metal.  Metal needs to be painted inside with rubber or waterproofing paint to keep from leaching.  They have a drain screw on the side bottom. Keep dirt from this area so can reach it. I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

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Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.   I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either. Catherine

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Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either.

Catherine, Symmetrically shaped ponds are called "formal".  If you don’t try to naturalize it too much round doesn’t look odd at all.  You can trim the edges with paving stones or bricks, etc. and soften the edges with plants that drape over and into the water as well as some that stand tall.  A small fountain can complete the more formal look.  "Formal" in this case doesn’t have to mean that you have to wear a ball gown to walk by it.  It just means you MEANT for it to look that way.  To me, the harder you TRY to make a symmetrical pond look natural the worse it looks.  Go ahead and intend for it to be round by the type of surrounding plants and pavers you use!  Good luck! — Signed,    Kellie My Karma Ran Over My Dogma.  It was a catastrophe! Now my dogma’s dead and my karma’s out of alignment. Get in "Knee Deep"!     The Internet Pond Society      http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/newsletter.html

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim through? ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it? Thanks in advance krudman

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What you’re looking for is the Aqua Span. Overall length is 36" and height is 15". Sells for $149.95US.  I found it at  www.thatpetplace.com — Bahnee in Craig, CO Attitoad is Everything! http://members.tripod.com/~bahnee

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that bridge thing…..i have seen it in one of my pond cataloges……but which one?….i think they had it for about $150….it actually looks pretty cool…..sorry i can’t remember which one though… I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim

through?

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.

I guessing maybe looking at these websites: www.petwhse.com or www.thatpetplace.com ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

Forget the crawdads they pick on sleeping fish. Waterdog, don’t know. See my ponds thru the seasons: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ ~jan~ Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7a Remove Z to E-mail

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…  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it

It was a plexiglass bridge that someone had seen in an ad in the back of a ponding mag.  The general consensus was that it would work, but would grow a lot of algae, and be impossible to keep clean. ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

From what I’ve learned about water dogs (mud puppies around here), they would be fine.  Not crawdads, though.  They have been known to nip sleeping or dormant fish and eat them when that little strategy resulted in death.  I have had stealth crawdads in my pond (didn’t know they were there) and they didn’t do that, but otheres have had it happen, and besides they don’t keep the detritus off the bottom very well. Ann in Houston

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?  Also if anyone knows if jobs , and what type of jobs are available? I have a bus pass taking me along Melbourne, Adelaide, Alice Springs and back down the East Coast.  What type of year is it dangerous to swim at the Northern East Coast?  Is it dangerous at all beaches? And one more question…  How early should I make reservations at a hostel for Christmas?

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?

Reservations in October? I don’t think so. Sydney has an incredible amount of hostel capacity. Even at Christmas you’ll be fine as long as you show up by 8 or 9 in the morning and are willing to try a few places. Also if anyone knows if jobs, and what type of jobs are available?

Largely the same types of jobs you’ll find in Canada… though if you don’t have a work visa your options will be much more limited. miguel

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Hello all, We are new to the pond world and were hoping to get some information. We bought our first house last year; it’s on two acres out in the country and had been vacant for several years. After a lot of general maintenance, we are finally ready to get the cement pond going! Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to have a general idea. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. Any info would be helpful – we appreciate your time! best regards, melissa and gregg

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During the ponding season a pump should run 24/7. Once the water temp. reaches the mid-40s and is going to stay there for a while you can shut the pump off. More details will help – how many fish and what size are they, what kind of plants, a filter, waterfall or fountain? Where you live will determine much of your winter activities. And your zone. You can check out the third link in my sig. for lots of good websites. Welcome to rec.ponds!! K30A See my brother’s website http://WWW.30acreimaging.com/ see the labradors at http://www.daydreamergardens.com/2_level/articles/dog_how_to.htm K30A and friends’ pond information page http://hometown.aol.com/k30a/myhomepage/writing.html

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If you just want a rough idea of the volume, try this:  find a container of five to ten gallons, or anything that you know the volume, and clock it to see how long it takes to fill it up w/your hose.  Then, w/out turning off the hose, fill up the pond, timing it again.  Then, just do the math, using the timed flow rate that you detemined with the small container. As for the color, there are several kinds of concrete paint available, and some of them will seal up any pores or cracks in the concrete at the same time.  Just go to any full service hardware or paint store and ask what kind to use. Good luck, and hope this helped. — Easy ~ Pond is the newest distributor for Permalon pond liners. Stronger, lighter, and sized per order, Permalon is comparable to EPDM in price only. Contact me via email for more information. Before you buy.

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Melissa,  the gallonage is easy to calculate but I’ll have to make some assumptions since you imply that the pond is circular (when you speak of diameter instead of length and width) and that the sides slope down at a 45 degree angle (one foot out equals one foot down).  In this case that would mean that where it’s 4 feet deep, is only a 2 foot diameter circle at the center.  So you have an upside-down truncated cone.  If this is the case for a (very) rough estimate of gallons it’s pi r squared one-half h minus the truncated part, or 3.14 * 5*5*2.5* 7.5 gallons minus the truncated part gallons (only about 12 gallons), or about 1450 gallons.  You can also use the flow method as another poster suggested, timing first how long it takes to fill 5 gallons using a 5 gallon bucket, then timing how long it takes to fill the pond.  The ratio of the first time to the second time is the ratio of 5 gallons to your pond’s gallons. I wouldn’t get too hung up on exact gallons, it’s just a guide to help you plan for plants, fish, pump.  You could be plus or minus 150 gallons or so and it wouldn’t make a great difference for most things. Tim

| Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped | inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be | acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest | point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 | inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to | have a general idea.

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I agree with Mike on the painting.  Algae will form on the sides and bottom in no time.  It would cover your paint job anyways so why bother.        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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snip Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there?

  The way to find out the gallonage in this pond would be to measure it if you fill it again. Fill a container of known gallons and time it. Then fill the pond. The time x the gallons in the container is the ponds volume. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place.

It won’t stay this color as algae will cover the sides after a short while, this is good. If you really don’t like the color, you can drain it and coat it with Thoroseal which can be dyed with standard concrete colors. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

Filter pumps run 24/7. Feature pumps can be run when desired. FAQ at http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/faq.html snip

– hth – how no NEWS is good

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<snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis.   Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Hi, Any of Helen Nash’s books are a good source of information. I like her "Low-Maintenance Water Gardens" and "The Pond Doctor".  Barron’s "Water Gardens" has much info for a little book.  It even has section for building bridges.   For plants Helen Nash’s "Aquatic Plants & Their Cultivation", American Horticultural Society "Ponds & Water Features". As you can see, there are many good books.  These are just a few of my collection.  I don’t know if this helps or just adds to the confusion. — Bonnie NJ http://www.users.fast.net/~maebe/index.htm – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) !

I second that!  Pond & Garden is the most beautiful and informative magazine I have ever read …. on any subject. Judy from California

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Whoops.. your correct.. see what happens you stay up late at night and try to rely on an aging brain? Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836 I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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I just ordered Helen Nash’s Plants for Water Gardens book.  I can’t wait to get it!!!  This is the area I’m having the hardest time with trying to figure out what plants to get, sizes I need and hardy for my zone.  This will make life so much simpler!!!  Now I can pick my plants and surf the web to order them!!!  : )  Then know exactly what to do come winter and lots of other stuff!!!        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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Thanks to all who responded. I’ve filed all the suggestions away, hoping to make use of them as winter reading material.

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Hello! I live in SW Michigan (Zone 5/6).  I’m thinking about installing a pond and have a few questions. First of all, does this NG have a FAQ I can refer to? I’m new and I hate to ask the same old same old… Second:  I have been reading stuff for about a year, and if all things were equal, I would use a high quality liner for my pond.  However, I am now the busy owner of a 1 yr old standard Poodle (the big size) who loves being in water.  I made a small pond out of an old wheelbarrow last summer when he a puppy and he was in it all the time.  I am concerned that he will occasionally get in the new pond and poke his nice big toenails right through the lining. I would of course attempt to teach him not to get in but he is quite ornery!  I guess I am interested in whether the lining material can withstand a 60 lb dog or not. (I’m guessing not!) A local discount pet supply business sells MacCourt pre-formed pools. They have a Lotus on sale that I am looking at.  However, it (and all of MacCourts other models) is only 18" deep.  From my reading this appears to be too shallow to keep fish over winter.  The shop assures me that they will be OK.  Are they just trying to get rid of this pond (it’s been sitting there all winter)? I am interested only in a few goldfish, nothing fancy. I don’t want to bring anything inside during the winter.   Thanks. I appreciate any answers you have for me! Catherine

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Catherine, Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.  They are real cheap and come in several shapes and sizes.  They are easy to manuver as are galvanized metal.  Metal needs to be painted inside with rubber or waterproofing paint to keep from leaching.  They have a drain screw on the side bottom. Keep dirt from this area so can reach it. I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

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Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.   I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either. Catherine

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Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either.

Catherine, Symmetrically shaped ponds are called "formal".  If you don’t try to naturalize it too much round doesn’t look odd at all.  You can trim the edges with paving stones or bricks, etc. and soften the edges with plants that drape over and into the water as well as some that stand tall.  A small fountain can complete the more formal look.  "Formal" in this case doesn’t have to mean that you have to wear a ball gown to walk by it.  It just means you MEANT for it to look that way.  To me, the harder you TRY to make a symmetrical pond look natural the worse it looks.  Go ahead and intend for it to be round by the type of surrounding plants and pavers you use!  Good luck! — Signed,    Kellie My Karma Ran Over My Dogma.  It was a catastrophe! Now my dogma’s dead and my karma’s out of alignment. Get in "Knee Deep"!     The Internet Pond Society      http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/newsletter.html

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim through? ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it? Thanks in advance krudman

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What you’re looking for is the Aqua Span. Overall length is 36" and height is 15". Sells for $149.95US.  I found it at  www.thatpetplace.com — Bahnee in Craig, CO Attitoad is Everything! http://members.tripod.com/~bahnee

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that bridge thing…..i have seen it in one of my pond cataloges……but which one?….i think they had it for about $150….it actually looks pretty cool…..sorry i can’t remember which one though… I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim

through?

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.

I guessing maybe looking at these websites: www.petwhse.com or www.thatpetplace.com ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

Forget the crawdads they pick on sleeping fish. Waterdog, don’t know. See my ponds thru the seasons: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ ~jan~ Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7a Remove Z to E-mail

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…  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it

It was a plexiglass bridge that someone had seen in an ad in the back of a ponding mag.  The general consensus was that it would work, but would grow a lot of algae, and be impossible to keep clean. ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

From what I’ve learned about water dogs (mud puppies around here), they would be fine.  Not crawdads, though.  They have been known to nip sleeping or dormant fish and eat them when that little strategy resulted in death.  I have had stealth crawdads in my pond (didn’t know they were there) and they didn’t do that, but otheres have had it happen, and besides they don’t keep the detritus off the bottom very well. Ann in Houston

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?  Also if anyone knows if jobs , and what type of jobs are available? I have a bus pass taking me along Melbourne, Adelaide, Alice Springs and back down the East Coast.  What type of year is it dangerous to swim at the Northern East Coast?  Is it dangerous at all beaches? And one more question…  How early should I make reservations at a hostel for Christmas?

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?

Reservations in October? I don’t think so. Sydney has an incredible amount of hostel capacity. Even at Christmas you’ll be fine as long as you show up by 8 or 9 in the morning and are willing to try a few places. Also if anyone knows if jobs, and what type of jobs are available?

Largely the same types of jobs you’ll find in Canada… though if you don’t have a work visa your options will be much more limited. miguel

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Hello all, We are new to the pond world and were hoping to get some information. We bought our first house last year; it’s on two acres out in the country and had been vacant for several years. After a lot of general maintenance, we are finally ready to get the cement pond going! Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to have a general idea. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. Any info would be helpful – we appreciate your time! best regards, melissa and gregg

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During the ponding season a pump should run 24/7. Once the water temp. reaches the mid-40s and is going to stay there for a while you can shut the pump off. More details will help – how many fish and what size are they, what kind of plants, a filter, waterfall or fountain? Where you live will determine much of your winter activities. And your zone. You can check out the third link in my sig. for lots of good websites. Welcome to rec.ponds!! K30A See my brother’s website http://WWW.30acreimaging.com/ see the labradors at http://www.daydreamergardens.com/2_level/articles/dog_how_to.htm K30A and friends’ pond information page http://hometown.aol.com/k30a/myhomepage/writing.html

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If you just want a rough idea of the volume, try this:  find a container of five to ten gallons, or anything that you know the volume, and clock it to see how long it takes to fill it up w/your hose.  Then, w/out turning off the hose, fill up the pond, timing it again.  Then, just do the math, using the timed flow rate that you detemined with the small container. As for the color, there are several kinds of concrete paint available, and some of them will seal up any pores or cracks in the concrete at the same time.  Just go to any full service hardware or paint store and ask what kind to use. Good luck, and hope this helped. — Easy ~ Pond is the newest distributor for Permalon pond liners. Stronger, lighter, and sized per order, Permalon is comparable to EPDM in price only. Contact me via email for more information. Before you buy.

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Melissa,  the gallonage is easy to calculate but I’ll have to make some assumptions since you imply that the pond is circular (when you speak of diameter instead of length and width) and that the sides slope down at a 45 degree angle (one foot out equals one foot down).  In this case that would mean that where it’s 4 feet deep, is only a 2 foot diameter circle at the center.  So you have an upside-down truncated cone.  If this is the case for a (very) rough estimate of gallons it’s pi r squared one-half h minus the truncated part, or 3.14 * 5*5*2.5* 7.5 gallons minus the truncated part gallons (only about 12 gallons), or about 1450 gallons.  You can also use the flow method as another poster suggested, timing first how long it takes to fill 5 gallons using a 5 gallon bucket, then timing how long it takes to fill the pond.  The ratio of the first time to the second time is the ratio of 5 gallons to your pond’s gallons. I wouldn’t get too hung up on exact gallons, it’s just a guide to help you plan for plants, fish, pump.  You could be plus or minus 150 gallons or so and it wouldn’t make a great difference for most things. Tim

| Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped | inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be | acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest | point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 | inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to | have a general idea.

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I agree with Mike on the painting.  Algae will form on the sides and bottom in no time.  It would cover your paint job anyways so why bother.        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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snip Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there?

  The way to find out the gallonage in this pond would be to measure it if you fill it again. Fill a container of known gallons and time it. Then fill the pond. The time x the gallons in the container is the ponds volume. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place.

It won’t stay this color as algae will cover the sides after a short while, this is good. If you really don’t like the color, you can drain it and coat it with Thoroseal which can be dyed with standard concrete colors. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

Filter pumps run 24/7. Feature pumps can be run when desired. FAQ at http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/faq.html snip

– hth – how no NEWS is good

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<snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis.   Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Hi, Any of Helen Nash’s books are a good source of information. I like her "Low-Maintenance Water Gardens" and "The Pond Doctor".  Barron’s "Water Gardens" has much info for a little book.  It even has section for building bridges.   For plants Helen Nash’s "Aquatic Plants & Their Cultivation", American Horticultural Society "Ponds & Water Features". As you can see, there are many good books.  These are just a few of my collection.  I don’t know if this helps or just adds to the confusion. — Bonnie NJ http://www.users.fast.net/~maebe/index.htm – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) !

I second that!  Pond & Garden is the most beautiful and informative magazine I have ever read …. on any subject. Judy from California

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Whoops.. your correct.. see what happens you stay up late at night and try to rely on an aging brain? Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836 I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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I just ordered Helen Nash’s Plants for Water Gardens book.  I can’t wait to get it!!!  This is the area I’m having the hardest time with trying to figure out what plants to get, sizes I need and hardy for my zone.  This will make life so much simpler!!!  Now I can pick my plants and surf the web to order them!!!  : )  Then know exactly what to do come winter and lots of other stuff!!!        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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Thanks to all who responded. I’ve filed all the suggestions away, hoping to make use of them as winter reading material.

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Hello! I live in SW Michigan (Zone 5/6).  I’m thinking about installing a pond and have a few questions. First of all, does this NG have a FAQ I can refer to? I’m new and I hate to ask the same old same old… Second:  I have been reading stuff for about a year, and if all things were equal, I would use a high quality liner for my pond.  However, I am now the busy owner of a 1 yr old standard Poodle (the big size) who loves being in water.  I made a small pond out of an old wheelbarrow last summer when he a puppy and he was in it all the time.  I am concerned that he will occasionally get in the new pond and poke his nice big toenails right through the lining. I would of course attempt to teach him not to get in but he is quite ornery!  I guess I am interested in whether the lining material can withstand a 60 lb dog or not. (I’m guessing not!) A local discount pet supply business sells MacCourt pre-formed pools. They have a Lotus on sale that I am looking at.  However, it (and all of MacCourts other models) is only 18" deep.  From my reading this appears to be too shallow to keep fish over winter.  The shop assures me that they will be OK.  Are they just trying to get rid of this pond (it’s been sitting there all winter)? I am interested only in a few goldfish, nothing fancy. I don’t want to bring anything inside during the winter.   Thanks. I appreciate any answers you have for me! Catherine

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Catherine, Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.  They are real cheap and come in several shapes and sizes.  They are easy to manuver as are galvanized metal.  Metal needs to be painted inside with rubber or waterproofing paint to keep from leaching.  They have a drain screw on the side bottom. Keep dirt from this area so can reach it. I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

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Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.   I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either. Catherine

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Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either.

Catherine, Symmetrically shaped ponds are called "formal".  If you don’t try to naturalize it too much round doesn’t look odd at all.  You can trim the edges with paving stones or bricks, etc. and soften the edges with plants that drape over and into the water as well as some that stand tall.  A small fountain can complete the more formal look.  "Formal" in this case doesn’t have to mean that you have to wear a ball gown to walk by it.  It just means you MEANT for it to look that way.  To me, the harder you TRY to make a symmetrical pond look natural the worse it looks.  Go ahead and intend for it to be round by the type of surrounding plants and pavers you use!  Good luck! — Signed,    Kellie My Karma Ran Over My Dogma.  It was a catastrophe! Now my dogma’s dead and my karma’s out of alignment. Get in "Knee Deep"!     The Internet Pond Society      http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/newsletter.html

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim through? ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it? Thanks in advance krudman

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What you’re looking for is the Aqua Span. Overall length is 36" and height is 15". Sells for $149.95US.  I found it at  www.thatpetplace.com — Bahnee in Craig, CO Attitoad is Everything! http://members.tripod.com/~bahnee

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that bridge thing…..i have seen it in one of my pond cataloges……but which one?….i think they had it for about $150….it actually looks pretty cool…..sorry i can’t remember which one though… I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim

through?

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.

I guessing maybe looking at these websites: www.petwhse.com or www.thatpetplace.com ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

Forget the crawdads they pick on sleeping fish. Waterdog, don’t know. See my ponds thru the seasons: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ ~jan~ Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7a Remove Z to E-mail

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…  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it

It was a plexiglass bridge that someone had seen in an ad in the back of a ponding mag.  The general consensus was that it would work, but would grow a lot of algae, and be impossible to keep clean. ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

From what I’ve learned about water dogs (mud puppies around here), they would be fine.  Not crawdads, though.  They have been known to nip sleeping or dormant fish and eat them when that little strategy resulted in death.  I have had stealth crawdads in my pond (didn’t know they were there) and they didn’t do that, but otheres have had it happen, and besides they don’t keep the detritus off the bottom very well. Ann in Houston

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?  Also if anyone knows if jobs , and what type of jobs are available? I have a bus pass taking me along Melbourne, Adelaide, Alice Springs and back down the East Coast.  What type of year is it dangerous to swim at the Northern East Coast?  Is it dangerous at all beaches? And one more question…  How early should I make reservations at a hostel for Christmas?

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?

Reservations in October? I don’t think so. Sydney has an incredible amount of hostel capacity. Even at Christmas you’ll be fine as long as you show up by 8 or 9 in the morning and are willing to try a few places. Also if anyone knows if jobs, and what type of jobs are available?

Largely the same types of jobs you’ll find in Canada… though if you don’t have a work visa your options will be much more limited. miguel

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Hello all, We are new to the pond world and were hoping to get some information. We bought our first house last year; it’s on two acres out in the country and had been vacant for several years. After a lot of general maintenance, we are finally ready to get the cement pond going! Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to have a general idea. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. Any info would be helpful – we appreciate your time! best regards, melissa and gregg

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During the ponding season a pump should run 24/7. Once the water temp. reaches the mid-40s and is going to stay there for a while you can shut the pump off. More details will help – how many fish and what size are they, what kind of plants, a filter, waterfall or fountain? Where you live will determine much of your winter activities. And your zone. You can check out the third link in my sig. for lots of good websites. Welcome to rec.ponds!! K30A See my brother’s website http://WWW.30acreimaging.com/ see the labradors at http://www.daydreamergardens.com/2_level/articles/dog_how_to.htm K30A and friends’ pond information page http://hometown.aol.com/k30a/myhomepage/writing.html

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If you just want a rough idea of the volume, try this:  find a container of five to ten gallons, or anything that you know the volume, and clock it to see how long it takes to fill it up w/your hose.  Then, w/out turning off the hose, fill up the pond, timing it again.  Then, just do the math, using the timed flow rate that you detemined with the small container. As for the color, there are several kinds of concrete paint available, and some of them will seal up any pores or cracks in the concrete at the same time.  Just go to any full service hardware or paint store and ask what kind to use. Good luck, and hope this helped. — Easy ~ Pond is the newest distributor for Permalon pond liners. Stronger, lighter, and sized per order, Permalon is comparable to EPDM in price only. Contact me via email for more information. Before you buy.

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Melissa,  the gallonage is easy to calculate but I’ll have to make some assumptions since you imply that the pond is circular (when you speak of diameter instead of length and width) and that the sides slope down at a 45 degree angle (one foot out equals one foot down).  In this case that would mean that where it’s 4 feet deep, is only a 2 foot diameter circle at the center.  So you have an upside-down truncated cone.  If this is the case for a (very) rough estimate of gallons it’s pi r squared one-half h minus the truncated part, or 3.14 * 5*5*2.5* 7.5 gallons minus the truncated part gallons (only about 12 gallons), or about 1450 gallons.  You can also use the flow method as another poster suggested, timing first how long it takes to fill 5 gallons using a 5 gallon bucket, then timing how long it takes to fill the pond.  The ratio of the first time to the second time is the ratio of 5 gallons to your pond’s gallons. I wouldn’t get too hung up on exact gallons, it’s just a guide to help you plan for plants, fish, pump.  You could be plus or minus 150 gallons or so and it wouldn’t make a great difference for most things. Tim

| Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped | inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be | acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest | point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 | inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to | have a general idea.

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I agree with Mike on the painting.  Algae will form on the sides and bottom in no time.  It would cover your paint job anyways so why bother.        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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snip Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there?

  The way to find out the gallonage in this pond would be to measure it if you fill it again. Fill a container of known gallons and time it. Then fill the pond. The time x the gallons in the container is the ponds volume. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place.

It won’t stay this color as algae will cover the sides after a short while, this is good. If you really don’t like the color, you can drain it and coat it with Thoroseal which can be dyed with standard concrete colors. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

Filter pumps run 24/7. Feature pumps can be run when desired. FAQ at http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/faq.html snip

– hth – how no NEWS is good

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<snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis.   Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Hi, Any of Helen Nash’s books are a good source of information. I like her "Low-Maintenance Water Gardens" and "The Pond Doctor".  Barron’s "Water Gardens" has much info for a little book.  It even has section for building bridges.   For plants Helen Nash’s "Aquatic Plants & Their Cultivation", American Horticultural Society "Ponds & Water Features". As you can see, there are many good books.  These are just a few of my collection.  I don’t know if this helps or just adds to the confusion. — Bonnie NJ http://www.users.fast.net/~maebe/index.htm – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) !

I second that!  Pond & Garden is the most beautiful and informative magazine I have ever read …. on any subject. Judy from California

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Whoops.. your correct.. see what happens you stay up late at night and try to rely on an aging brain? Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836 I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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I just ordered Helen Nash’s Plants for Water Gardens book.  I can’t wait to get it!!!  This is the area I’m having the hardest time with trying to figure out what plants to get, sizes I need and hardy for my zone.  This will make life so much simpler!!!  Now I can pick my plants and surf the web to order them!!!  : )  Then know exactly what to do come winter and lots of other stuff!!!        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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Thanks to all who responded. I’ve filed all the suggestions away, hoping to make use of them as winter reading material.

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Hello! I live in SW Michigan (Zone 5/6).  I’m thinking about installing a pond and have a few questions. First of all, does this NG have a FAQ I can refer to? I’m new and I hate to ask the same old same old… Second:  I have been reading stuff for about a year, and if all things were equal, I would use a high quality liner for my pond.  However, I am now the busy owner of a 1 yr old standard Poodle (the big size) who loves being in water.  I made a small pond out of an old wheelbarrow last summer when he a puppy and he was in it all the time.  I am concerned that he will occasionally get in the new pond and poke his nice big toenails right through the lining. I would of course attempt to teach him not to get in but he is quite ornery!  I guess I am interested in whether the lining material can withstand a 60 lb dog or not. (I’m guessing not!) A local discount pet supply business sells MacCourt pre-formed pools. They have a Lotus on sale that I am looking at.  However, it (and all of MacCourts other models) is only 18" deep.  From my reading this appears to be too shallow to keep fish over winter.  The shop assures me that they will be OK.  Are they just trying to get rid of this pond (it’s been sitting there all winter)? I am interested only in a few goldfish, nothing fancy. I don’t want to bring anything inside during the winter.   Thanks. I appreciate any answers you have for me! Catherine

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Catherine, Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.  They are real cheap and come in several shapes and sizes.  They are easy to manuver as are galvanized metal.  Metal needs to be painted inside with rubber or waterproofing paint to keep from leaching.  They have a drain screw on the side bottom. Keep dirt from this area so can reach it. I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

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Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.   I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either. Catherine

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Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either.

Catherine, Symmetrically shaped ponds are called "formal".  If you don’t try to naturalize it too much round doesn’t look odd at all.  You can trim the edges with paving stones or bricks, etc. and soften the edges with plants that drape over and into the water as well as some that stand tall.  A small fountain can complete the more formal look.  "Formal" in this case doesn’t have to mean that you have to wear a ball gown to walk by it.  It just means you MEANT for it to look that way.  To me, the harder you TRY to make a symmetrical pond look natural the worse it looks.  Go ahead and intend for it to be round by the type of surrounding plants and pavers you use!  Good luck! — Signed,    Kellie My Karma Ran Over My Dogma.  It was a catastrophe! Now my dogma’s dead and my karma’s out of alignment. Get in "Knee Deep"!     The Internet Pond Society      http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/newsletter.html

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim through? ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it? Thanks in advance krudman

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What you’re looking for is the Aqua Span. Overall length is 36" and height is 15". Sells for $149.95US.  I found it at  www.thatpetplace.com — Bahnee in Craig, CO Attitoad is Everything! http://members.tripod.com/~bahnee

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that bridge thing…..i have seen it in one of my pond cataloges……but which one?….i think they had it for about $150….it actually looks pretty cool…..sorry i can’t remember which one though… I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim

through?

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.

I guessing maybe looking at these websites: www.petwhse.com or www.thatpetplace.com ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

Forget the crawdads they pick on sleeping fish. Waterdog, don’t know. See my ponds thru the seasons: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ ~jan~ Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7a Remove Z to E-mail

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…  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it

It was a plexiglass bridge that someone had seen in an ad in the back of a ponding mag.  The general consensus was that it would work, but would grow a lot of algae, and be impossible to keep clean. ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

From what I’ve learned about water dogs (mud puppies around here), they would be fine.  Not crawdads, though.  They have been known to nip sleeping or dormant fish and eat them when that little strategy resulted in death.  I have had stealth crawdads in my pond (didn’t know they were there) and they didn’t do that, but otheres have had it happen, and besides they don’t keep the detritus off the bottom very well. Ann in Houston

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?  Also if anyone knows if jobs , and what type of jobs are available? I have a bus pass taking me along Melbourne, Adelaide, Alice Springs and back down the East Coast.  What type of year is it dangerous to swim at the Northern East Coast?  Is it dangerous at all beaches? And one more question…  How early should I make reservations at a hostel for Christmas?

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?

Reservations in October? I don’t think so. Sydney has an incredible amount of hostel capacity. Even at Christmas you’ll be fine as long as you show up by 8 or 9 in the morning and are willing to try a few places. Also if anyone knows if jobs, and what type of jobs are available?

Largely the same types of jobs you’ll find in Canada… though if you don’t have a work visa your options will be much more limited. miguel

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Hello all, We are new to the pond world and were hoping to get some information. We bought our first house last year; it’s on two acres out in the country and had been vacant for several years. After a lot of general maintenance, we are finally ready to get the cement pond going! Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to have a general idea. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. Any info would be helpful – we appreciate your time! best regards, melissa and gregg

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During the ponding season a pump should run 24/7. Once the water temp. reaches the mid-40s and is going to stay there for a while you can shut the pump off. More details will help – how many fish and what size are they, what kind of plants, a filter, waterfall or fountain? Where you live will determine much of your winter activities. And your zone. You can check out the third link in my sig. for lots of good websites. Welcome to rec.ponds!! K30A See my brother’s website http://WWW.30acreimaging.com/ see the labradors at http://www.daydreamergardens.com/2_level/articles/dog_how_to.htm K30A and friends’ pond information page http://hometown.aol.com/k30a/myhomepage/writing.html

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If you just want a rough idea of the volume, try this:  find a container of five to ten gallons, or anything that you know the volume, and clock it to see how long it takes to fill it up w/your hose.  Then, w/out turning off the hose, fill up the pond, timing it again.  Then, just do the math, using the timed flow rate that you detemined with the small container. As for the color, there are several kinds of concrete paint available, and some of them will seal up any pores or cracks in the concrete at the same time.  Just go to any full service hardware or paint store and ask what kind to use. Good luck, and hope this helped. — Easy ~ Pond is the newest distributor for Permalon pond liners. Stronger, lighter, and sized per order, Permalon is comparable to EPDM in price only. Contact me via email for more information. Before you buy.

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Melissa,  the gallonage is easy to calculate but I’ll have to make some assumptions since you imply that the pond is circular (when you speak of diameter instead of length and width) and that the sides slope down at a 45 degree angle (one foot out equals one foot down).  In this case that would mean that where it’s 4 feet deep, is only a 2 foot diameter circle at the center.  So you have an upside-down truncated cone.  If this is the case for a (very) rough estimate of gallons it’s pi r squared one-half h minus the truncated part, or 3.14 * 5*5*2.5* 7.5 gallons minus the truncated part gallons (only about 12 gallons), or about 1450 gallons.  You can also use the flow method as another poster suggested, timing first how long it takes to fill 5 gallons using a 5 gallon bucket, then timing how long it takes to fill the pond.  The ratio of the first time to the second time is the ratio of 5 gallons to your pond’s gallons. I wouldn’t get too hung up on exact gallons, it’s just a guide to help you plan for plants, fish, pump.  You could be plus or minus 150 gallons or so and it wouldn’t make a great difference for most things. Tim

| Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped | inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be | acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest | point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 | inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to | have a general idea.

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I agree with Mike on the painting.  Algae will form on the sides and bottom in no time.  It would cover your paint job anyways so why bother.        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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snip Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there?

  The way to find out the gallonage in this pond would be to measure it if you fill it again. Fill a container of known gallons and time it. Then fill the pond. The time x the gallons in the container is the ponds volume. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place.

It won’t stay this color as algae will cover the sides after a short while, this is good. If you really don’t like the color, you can drain it and coat it with Thoroseal which can be dyed with standard concrete colors. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

Filter pumps run 24/7. Feature pumps can be run when desired. FAQ at http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/faq.html snip

– hth – how no NEWS is good

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<snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis.   Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Hi, Any of Helen Nash’s books are a good source of information. I like her "Low-Maintenance Water Gardens" and "The Pond Doctor".  Barron’s "Water Gardens" has much info for a little book.  It even has section for building bridges.   For plants Helen Nash’s "Aquatic Plants & Their Cultivation", American Horticultural Society "Ponds & Water Features". As you can see, there are many good books.  These are just a few of my collection.  I don’t know if this helps or just adds to the confusion. — Bonnie NJ http://www.users.fast.net/~maebe/index.htm – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) !

I second that!  Pond & Garden is the most beautiful and informative magazine I have ever read …. on any subject. Judy from California

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Whoops.. your correct.. see what happens you stay up late at night and try to rely on an aging brain? Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836 I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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I just ordered Helen Nash’s Plants for Water Gardens book.  I can’t wait to get it!!!  This is the area I’m having the hardest time with trying to figure out what plants to get, sizes I need and hardy for my zone.  This will make life so much simpler!!!  Now I can pick my plants and surf the web to order them!!!  : )  Then know exactly what to do come winter and lots of other stuff!!!        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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Thanks to all who responded. I’ve filed all the suggestions away, hoping to make use of them as winter reading material.

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Hello! I live in SW Michigan (Zone 5/6).  I’m thinking about installing a pond and have a few questions. First of all, does this NG have a FAQ I can refer to? I’m new and I hate to ask the same old same old… Second:  I have been reading stuff for about a year, and if all things were equal, I would use a high quality liner for my pond.  However, I am now the busy owner of a 1 yr old standard Poodle (the big size) who loves being in water.  I made a small pond out of an old wheelbarrow last summer when he a puppy and he was in it all the time.  I am concerned that he will occasionally get in the new pond and poke his nice big toenails right through the lining. I would of course attempt to teach him not to get in but he is quite ornery!  I guess I am interested in whether the lining material can withstand a 60 lb dog or not. (I’m guessing not!) A local discount pet supply business sells MacCourt pre-formed pools. They have a Lotus on sale that I am looking at.  However, it (and all of MacCourts other models) is only 18" deep.  From my reading this appears to be too shallow to keep fish over winter.  The shop assures me that they will be OK.  Are they just trying to get rid of this pond (it’s been sitting there all winter)? I am interested only in a few goldfish, nothing fancy. I don’t want to bring anything inside during the winter.   Thanks. I appreciate any answers you have for me! Catherine

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Catherine, Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.  They are real cheap and come in several shapes and sizes.  They are easy to manuver as are galvanized metal.  Metal needs to be painted inside with rubber or waterproofing paint to keep from leaching.  They have a drain screw on the side bottom. Keep dirt from this area so can reach it. I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

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Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.   I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either. Catherine

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Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either.

Catherine, Symmetrically shaped ponds are called "formal".  If you don’t try to naturalize it too much round doesn’t look odd at all.  You can trim the edges with paving stones or bricks, etc. and soften the edges with plants that drape over and into the water as well as some that stand tall.  A small fountain can complete the more formal look.  "Formal" in this case doesn’t have to mean that you have to wear a ball gown to walk by it.  It just means you MEANT for it to look that way.  To me, the harder you TRY to make a symmetrical pond look natural the worse it looks.  Go ahead and intend for it to be round by the type of surrounding plants and pavers you use!  Good luck! — Signed,    Kellie My Karma Ran Over My Dogma.  It was a catastrophe! Now my dogma’s dead and my karma’s out of alignment. Get in "Knee Deep"!     The Internet Pond Society      http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/newsletter.html

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim through? ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it? Thanks in advance krudman

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What you’re looking for is the Aqua Span. Overall length is 36" and height is 15". Sells for $149.95US.  I found it at  www.thatpetplace.com — Bahnee in Craig, CO Attitoad is Everything! http://members.tripod.com/~bahnee

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that bridge thing…..i have seen it in one of my pond cataloges……but which one?….i think they had it for about $150….it actually looks pretty cool…..sorry i can’t remember which one though… I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim

through?

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.

I guessing maybe looking at these websites: www.petwhse.com or www.thatpetplace.com ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

Forget the crawdads they pick on sleeping fish. Waterdog, don’t know. See my ponds thru the seasons: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ ~jan~ Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7a Remove Z to E-mail

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…  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it

It was a plexiglass bridge that someone had seen in an ad in the back of a ponding mag.  The general consensus was that it would work, but would grow a lot of algae, and be impossible to keep clean. ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

From what I’ve learned about water dogs (mud puppies around here), they would be fine.  Not crawdads, though.  They have been known to nip sleeping or dormant fish and eat them when that little strategy resulted in death.  I have had stealth crawdads in my pond (didn’t know they were there) and they didn’t do that, but otheres have had it happen, and besides they don’t keep the detritus off the bottom very well. Ann in Houston

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?  Also if anyone knows if jobs , and what type of jobs are available? I have a bus pass taking me along Melbourne, Adelaide, Alice Springs and back down the East Coast.  What type of year is it dangerous to swim at the Northern East Coast?  Is it dangerous at all beaches? And one more question…  How early should I make reservations at a hostel for Christmas?

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?

Reservations in October? I don’t think so. Sydney has an incredible amount of hostel capacity. Even at Christmas you’ll be fine as long as you show up by 8 or 9 in the morning and are willing to try a few places. Also if anyone knows if jobs, and what type of jobs are available?

Largely the same types of jobs you’ll find in Canada… though if you don’t have a work visa your options will be much more limited. miguel

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Hello all, We are new to the pond world and were hoping to get some information. We bought our first house last year; it’s on two acres out in the country and had been vacant for several years. After a lot of general maintenance, we are finally ready to get the cement pond going! Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to have a general idea. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. Any info would be helpful – we appreciate your time! best regards, melissa and gregg

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During the ponding season a pump should run 24/7. Once the water temp. reaches the mid-40s and is going to stay there for a while you can shut the pump off. More details will help – how many fish and what size are they, what kind of plants, a filter, waterfall or fountain? Where you live will determine much of your winter activities. And your zone. You can check out the third link in my sig. for lots of good websites. Welcome to rec.ponds!! K30A See my brother’s website http://WWW.30acreimaging.com/ see the labradors at http://www.daydreamergardens.com/2_level/articles/dog_how_to.htm K30A and friends’ pond information page http://hometown.aol.com/k30a/myhomepage/writing.html

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If you just want a rough idea of the volume, try this:  find a container of five to ten gallons, or anything that you know the volume, and clock it to see how long it takes to fill it up w/your hose.  Then, w/out turning off the hose, fill up the pond, timing it again.  Then, just do the math, using the timed flow rate that you detemined with the small container. As for the color, there are several kinds of concrete paint available, and some of them will seal up any pores or cracks in the concrete at the same time.  Just go to any full service hardware or paint store and ask what kind to use. Good luck, and hope this helped. — Easy ~ Pond is the newest distributor for Permalon pond liners. Stronger, lighter, and sized per order, Permalon is comparable to EPDM in price only. Contact me via email for more information. Before you buy.

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Melissa,  the gallonage is easy to calculate but I’ll have to make some assumptions since you imply that the pond is circular (when you speak of diameter instead of length and width) and that the sides slope down at a 45 degree angle (one foot out equals one foot down).  In this case that would mean that where it’s 4 feet deep, is only a 2 foot diameter circle at the center.  So you have an upside-down truncated cone.  If this is the case for a (very) rough estimate of gallons it’s pi r squared one-half h minus the truncated part, or 3.14 * 5*5*2.5* 7.5 gallons minus the truncated part gallons (only about 12 gallons), or about 1450 gallons.  You can also use the flow method as another poster suggested, timing first how long it takes to fill 5 gallons using a 5 gallon bucket, then timing how long it takes to fill the pond.  The ratio of the first time to the second time is the ratio of 5 gallons to your pond’s gallons. I wouldn’t get too hung up on exact gallons, it’s just a guide to help you plan for plants, fish, pump.  You could be plus or minus 150 gallons or so and it wouldn’t make a great difference for most things. Tim

| Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped | inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be | acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest | point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 | inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to | have a general idea.

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I agree with Mike on the painting.  Algae will form on the sides and bottom in no time.  It would cover your paint job anyways so why bother.        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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snip Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there?

  The way to find out the gallonage in this pond would be to measure it if you fill it again. Fill a container of known gallons and time it. Then fill the pond. The time x the gallons in the container is the ponds volume. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place.

It won’t stay this color as algae will cover the sides after a short while, this is good. If you really don’t like the color, you can drain it and coat it with Thoroseal which can be dyed with standard concrete colors. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

Filter pumps run 24/7. Feature pumps can be run when desired. FAQ at http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/faq.html snip

– hth – how no NEWS is good

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<snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis.   Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Hi, Any of Helen Nash’s books are a good source of information. I like her "Low-Maintenance Water Gardens" and "The Pond Doctor".  Barron’s "Water Gardens" has much info for a little book.  It even has section for building bridges.   For plants Helen Nash’s "Aquatic Plants & Their Cultivation", American Horticultural Society "Ponds & Water Features". As you can see, there are many good books.  These are just a few of my collection.  I don’t know if this helps or just adds to the confusion. — Bonnie NJ http://www.users.fast.net/~maebe/index.htm – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) !

I second that!  Pond & Garden is the most beautiful and informative magazine I have ever read …. on any subject. Judy from California

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Whoops.. your correct.. see what happens you stay up late at night and try to rely on an aging brain? Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836 I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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I just ordered Helen Nash’s Plants for Water Gardens book.  I can’t wait to get it!!!  This is the area I’m having the hardest time with trying to figure out what plants to get, sizes I need and hardy for my zone.  This will make life so much simpler!!!  Now I can pick my plants and surf the web to order them!!!  : )  Then know exactly what to do come winter and lots of other stuff!!!        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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Thanks to all who responded. I’ve filed all the suggestions away, hoping to make use of them as winter reading material.

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Hello! I live in SW Michigan (Zone 5/6).  I’m thinking about installing a pond and have a few questions. First of all, does this NG have a FAQ I can refer to? I’m new and I hate to ask the same old same old… Second:  I have been reading stuff for about a year, and if all things were equal, I would use a high quality liner for my pond.  However, I am now the busy owner of a 1 yr old standard Poodle (the big size) who loves being in water.  I made a small pond out of an old wheelbarrow last summer when he a puppy and he was in it all the time.  I am concerned that he will occasionally get in the new pond and poke his nice big toenails right through the lining. I would of course attempt to teach him not to get in but he is quite ornery!  I guess I am interested in whether the lining material can withstand a 60 lb dog or not. (I’m guessing not!) A local discount pet supply business sells MacCourt pre-formed pools. They have a Lotus on sale that I am looking at.  However, it (and all of MacCourts other models) is only 18" deep.  From my reading this appears to be too shallow to keep fish over winter.  The shop assures me that they will be OK.  Are they just trying to get rid of this pond (it’s been sitting there all winter)? I am interested only in a few goldfish, nothing fancy. I don’t want to bring anything inside during the winter.   Thanks. I appreciate any answers you have for me! Catherine

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Catherine, Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.  They are real cheap and come in several shapes and sizes.  They are easy to manuver as are galvanized metal.  Metal needs to be painted inside with rubber or waterproofing paint to keep from leaching.  They have a drain screw on the side bottom. Keep dirt from this area so can reach it. I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

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Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.   I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either. Catherine

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Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either.

Catherine, Symmetrically shaped ponds are called "formal".  If you don’t try to naturalize it too much round doesn’t look odd at all.  You can trim the edges with paving stones or bricks, etc. and soften the edges with plants that drape over and into the water as well as some that stand tall.  A small fountain can complete the more formal look.  "Formal" in this case doesn’t have to mean that you have to wear a ball gown to walk by it.  It just means you MEANT for it to look that way.  To me, the harder you TRY to make a symmetrical pond look natural the worse it looks.  Go ahead and intend for it to be round by the type of surrounding plants and pavers you use!  Good luck! — Signed,    Kellie My Karma Ran Over My Dogma.  It was a catastrophe! Now my dogma’s dead and my karma’s out of alignment. Get in "Knee Deep"!     The Internet Pond Society      http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/newsletter.html

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim through? ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it? Thanks in advance krudman

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What you’re looking for is the Aqua Span. Overall length is 36" and height is 15". Sells for $149.95US.  I found it at  www.thatpetplace.com — Bahnee in Craig, CO Attitoad is Everything! http://members.tripod.com/~bahnee

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that bridge thing…..i have seen it in one of my pond cataloges……but which one?….i think they had it for about $150….it actually looks pretty cool…..sorry i can’t remember which one though… I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim

through?

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.

I guessing maybe looking at these websites: www.petwhse.com or www.thatpetplace.com ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

Forget the crawdads they pick on sleeping fish. Waterdog, don’t know. See my ponds thru the seasons: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ ~jan~ Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7a Remove Z to E-mail

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…  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it

It was a plexiglass bridge that someone had seen in an ad in the back of a ponding mag.  The general consensus was that it would work, but would grow a lot of algae, and be impossible to keep clean. ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

From what I’ve learned about water dogs (mud puppies around here), they would be fine.  Not crawdads, though.  They have been known to nip sleeping or dormant fish and eat them when that little strategy resulted in death.  I have had stealth crawdads in my pond (didn’t know they were there) and they didn’t do that, but otheres have had it happen, and besides they don’t keep the detritus off the bottom very well. Ann in Houston

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?  Also if anyone knows if jobs , and what type of jobs are available? I have a bus pass taking me along Melbourne, Adelaide, Alice Springs and back down the East Coast.  What type of year is it dangerous to swim at the Northern East Coast?  Is it dangerous at all beaches? And one more question…  How early should I make reservations at a hostel for Christmas?

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?

Reservations in October? I don’t think so. Sydney has an incredible amount of hostel capacity. Even at Christmas you’ll be fine as long as you show up by 8 or 9 in the morning and are willing to try a few places. Also if anyone knows if jobs, and what type of jobs are available?

Largely the same types of jobs you’ll find in Canada… though if you don’t have a work visa your options will be much more limited. miguel

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Hello all, We are new to the pond world and were hoping to get some information. We bought our first house last year; it’s on two acres out in the country and had been vacant for several years. After a lot of general maintenance, we are finally ready to get the cement pond going! Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to have a general idea. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. Any info would be helpful – we appreciate your time! best regards, melissa and gregg

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During the ponding season a pump should run 24/7. Once the water temp. reaches the mid-40s and is going to stay there for a while you can shut the pump off. More details will help – how many fish and what size are they, what kind of plants, a filter, waterfall or fountain? Where you live will determine much of your winter activities. And your zone. You can check out the third link in my sig. for lots of good websites. Welcome to rec.ponds!! K30A See my brother’s website http://WWW.30acreimaging.com/ see the labradors at http://www.daydreamergardens.com/2_level/articles/dog_how_to.htm K30A and friends’ pond information page http://hometown.aol.com/k30a/myhomepage/writing.html

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If you just want a rough idea of the volume, try this:  find a container of five to ten gallons, or anything that you know the volume, and clock it to see how long it takes to fill it up w/your hose.  Then, w/out turning off the hose, fill up the pond, timing it again.  Then, just do the math, using the timed flow rate that you detemined with the small container. As for the color, there are several kinds of concrete paint available, and some of them will seal up any pores or cracks in the concrete at the same time.  Just go to any full service hardware or paint store and ask what kind to use. Good luck, and hope this helped. — Easy ~ Pond is the newest distributor for Permalon pond liners. Stronger, lighter, and sized per order, Permalon is comparable to EPDM in price only. Contact me via email for more information. Before you buy.

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Melissa,  the gallonage is easy to calculate but I’ll have to make some assumptions since you imply that the pond is circular (when you speak of diameter instead of length and width) and that the sides slope down at a 45 degree angle (one foot out equals one foot down).  In this case that would mean that where it’s 4 feet deep, is only a 2 foot diameter circle at the center.  So you have an upside-down truncated cone.  If this is the case for a (very) rough estimate of gallons it’s pi r squared one-half h minus the truncated part, or 3.14 * 5*5*2.5* 7.5 gallons minus the truncated part gallons (only about 12 gallons), or about 1450 gallons.  You can also use the flow method as another poster suggested, timing first how long it takes to fill 5 gallons using a 5 gallon bucket, then timing how long it takes to fill the pond.  The ratio of the first time to the second time is the ratio of 5 gallons to your pond’s gallons. I wouldn’t get too hung up on exact gallons, it’s just a guide to help you plan for plants, fish, pump.  You could be plus or minus 150 gallons or so and it wouldn’t make a great difference for most things. Tim

| Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped | inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be | acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest | point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 | inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to | have a general idea.

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I agree with Mike on the painting.  Algae will form on the sides and bottom in no time.  It would cover your paint job anyways so why bother.        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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snip Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there?

  The way to find out the gallonage in this pond would be to measure it if you fill it again. Fill a container of known gallons and time it. Then fill the pond. The time x the gallons in the container is the ponds volume. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place.

It won’t stay this color as algae will cover the sides after a short while, this is good. If you really don’t like the color, you can drain it and coat it with Thoroseal which can be dyed with standard concrete colors. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

Filter pumps run 24/7. Feature pumps can be run when desired. FAQ at http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/faq.html snip

– hth – how no NEWS is good

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<snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis.   Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Hi, Any of Helen Nash’s books are a good source of information. I like her "Low-Maintenance Water Gardens" and "The Pond Doctor".  Barron’s "Water Gardens" has much info for a little book.  It even has section for building bridges.   For plants Helen Nash’s "Aquatic Plants & Their Cultivation", American Horticultural Society "Ponds & Water Features". As you can see, there are many good books.  These are just a few of my collection.  I don’t know if this helps or just adds to the confusion. — Bonnie NJ http://www.users.fast.net/~maebe/index.htm – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) !

I second that!  Pond & Garden is the most beautiful and informative magazine I have ever read …. on any subject. Judy from California

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Whoops.. your correct.. see what happens you stay up late at night and try to rely on an aging brain? Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836 I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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I just ordered Helen Nash’s Plants for Water Gardens book.  I can’t wait to get it!!!  This is the area I’m having the hardest time with trying to figure out what plants to get, sizes I need and hardy for my zone.  This will make life so much simpler!!!  Now I can pick my plants and surf the web to order them!!!  : )  Then know exactly what to do come winter and lots of other stuff!!!        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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Thanks to all who responded. I’ve filed all the suggestions away, hoping to make use of them as winter reading material.

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Hello! I live in SW Michigan (Zone 5/6).  I’m thinking about installing a pond and have a few questions. First of all, does this NG have a FAQ I can refer to? I’m new and I hate to ask the same old same old… Second:  I have been reading stuff for about a year, and if all things were equal, I would use a high quality liner for my pond.  However, I am now the busy owner of a 1 yr old standard Poodle (the big size) who loves being in water.  I made a small pond out of an old wheelbarrow last summer when he a puppy and he was in it all the time.  I am concerned that he will occasionally get in the new pond and poke his nice big toenails right through the lining. I would of course attempt to teach him not to get in but he is quite ornery!  I guess I am interested in whether the lining material can withstand a 60 lb dog or not. (I’m guessing not!) A local discount pet supply business sells MacCourt pre-formed pools. They have a Lotus on sale that I am looking at.  However, it (and all of MacCourts other models) is only 18" deep.  From my reading this appears to be too shallow to keep fish over winter.  The shop assures me that they will be OK.  Are they just trying to get rid of this pond (it’s been sitting there all winter)? I am interested only in a few goldfish, nothing fancy. I don’t want to bring anything inside during the winter.   Thanks. I appreciate any answers you have for me! Catherine

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Catherine, Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.  They are real cheap and come in several shapes and sizes.  They are easy to manuver as are galvanized metal.  Metal needs to be painted inside with rubber or waterproofing paint to keep from leaching.  They have a drain screw on the side bottom. Keep dirt from this area so can reach it. I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

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Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.   I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either. Catherine

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Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either.

Catherine, Symmetrically shaped ponds are called "formal".  If you don’t try to naturalize it too much round doesn’t look odd at all.  You can trim the edges with paving stones or bricks, etc. and soften the edges with plants that drape over and into the water as well as some that stand tall.  A small fountain can complete the more formal look.  "Formal" in this case doesn’t have to mean that you have to wear a ball gown to walk by it.  It just means you MEANT for it to look that way.  To me, the harder you TRY to make a symmetrical pond look natural the worse it looks.  Go ahead and intend for it to be round by the type of surrounding plants and pavers you use!  Good luck! — Signed,    Kellie My Karma Ran Over My Dogma.  It was a catastrophe! Now my dogma’s dead and my karma’s out of alignment. Get in "Knee Deep"!     The Internet Pond Society      http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/newsletter.html

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim through? ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it? Thanks in advance krudman

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What you’re looking for is the Aqua Span. Overall length is 36" and height is 15". Sells for $149.95US.  I found it at  www.thatpetplace.com — Bahnee in Craig, CO Attitoad is Everything! http://members.tripod.com/~bahnee

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that bridge thing…..i have seen it in one of my pond cataloges……but which one?….i think they had it for about $150….it actually looks pretty cool…..sorry i can’t remember which one though… I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.  I know that this is not a very good description, but that is all that I can really remember.  If anyone knows what I am talking about, is it possible to either buy or make one that would extend between our two ponds (approx. 15") that the fish could swim

through?

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I have a few questions as I ponder what the spring thaw will bring me when I take the cover off the pond.  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it.

I guessing maybe looking at these websites: www.petwhse.com or www.thatpetplace.com ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

Forget the crawdads they pick on sleeping fish. Waterdog, don’t know. See my ponds thru the seasons: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ ~jan~ Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7a Remove Z to E-mail

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…  A long, LONG time ago, i saw a post about something like a glass "bridge" that extended out of the water, but allowed the fish to swim through it

It was a plexiglass bridge that someone had seen in an ad in the back of a ponding mag.  The general consensus was that it would work, but would grow a lot of algae, and be impossible to keep clean. ALSO, I am looking for something interesting to put into our ponds that would be peaceful with the other animals (fish and frogs) but at the same time, would be interesting.  I was considering maybe adding a crawdad or two, or even a water dog.  Will this work, has anyone had any success with it?

From what I’ve learned about water dogs (mud puppies around here), they would be fine.  Not crawdads, though.  They have been known to nip sleeping or dormant fish and eat them when that little strategy resulted in death.  I have had stealth crawdads in my pond (didn’t know they were there) and they didn’t do that, but otheres have had it happen, and besides they don’t keep the detritus off the bottom very well. Ann in Houston

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?  Also if anyone knows if jobs , and what type of jobs are available? I have a bus pass taking me along Melbourne, Adelaide, Alice Springs and back down the East Coast.  What type of year is it dangerous to swim at the Northern East Coast?  Is it dangerous at all beaches? And one more question…  How early should I make reservations at a hostel for Christmas?

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I am leaving for Australia in a few weeks.  Arriving in Sidney I am just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to which hostel I should make reservations, or if I need to make reservations at?

Reservations in October? I don’t think so. Sydney has an incredible amount of hostel capacity. Even at Christmas you’ll be fine as long as you show up by 8 or 9 in the morning and are willing to try a few places. Also if anyone knows if jobs, and what type of jobs are available?

Largely the same types of jobs you’ll find in Canada… though if you don’t have a work visa your options will be much more limited. miguel

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Hello all, We are new to the pond world and were hoping to get some information. We bought our first house last year; it’s on two acres out in the country and had been vacant for several years. After a lot of general maintenance, we are finally ready to get the cement pond going! Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to have a general idea. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. Any info would be helpful – we appreciate your time! best regards, melissa and gregg

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During the ponding season a pump should run 24/7. Once the water temp. reaches the mid-40s and is going to stay there for a while you can shut the pump off. More details will help – how many fish and what size are they, what kind of plants, a filter, waterfall or fountain? Where you live will determine much of your winter activities. And your zone. You can check out the third link in my sig. for lots of good websites. Welcome to rec.ponds!! K30A See my brother’s website http://WWW.30acreimaging.com/ see the labradors at http://www.daydreamergardens.com/2_level/articles/dog_how_to.htm K30A and friends’ pond information page http://hometown.aol.com/k30a/myhomepage/writing.html

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If you just want a rough idea of the volume, try this:  find a container of five to ten gallons, or anything that you know the volume, and clock it to see how long it takes to fill it up w/your hose.  Then, w/out turning off the hose, fill up the pond, timing it again.  Then, just do the math, using the timed flow rate that you detemined with the small container. As for the color, there are several kinds of concrete paint available, and some of them will seal up any pores or cracks in the concrete at the same time.  Just go to any full service hardware or paint store and ask what kind to use. Good luck, and hope this helped. — Easy ~ Pond is the newest distributor for Permalon pond liners. Stronger, lighter, and sized per order, Permalon is comparable to EPDM in price only. Contact me via email for more information. Before you buy.

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Melissa,  the gallonage is easy to calculate but I’ll have to make some assumptions since you imply that the pond is circular (when you speak of diameter instead of length and width) and that the sides slope down at a 45 degree angle (one foot out equals one foot down).  In this case that would mean that where it’s 4 feet deep, is only a 2 foot diameter circle at the center.  So you have an upside-down truncated cone.  If this is the case for a (very) rough estimate of gallons it’s pi r squared one-half h minus the truncated part, or 3.14 * 5*5*2.5* 7.5 gallons minus the truncated part gallons (only about 12 gallons), or about 1450 gallons.  You can also use the flow method as another poster suggested, timing first how long it takes to fill 5 gallons using a 5 gallon bucket, then timing how long it takes to fill the pond.  The ratio of the first time to the second time is the ratio of 5 gallons to your pond’s gallons. I wouldn’t get too hung up on exact gallons, it’s just a guide to help you plan for plants, fish, pump.  You could be plus or minus 150 gallons or so and it wouldn’t make a great difference for most things. Tim

| Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped | inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be | acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest | point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 | inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there? We would just like to | have a general idea.

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I agree with Mike on the painting.  Algae will form on the sides and bottom in no time.  It would cover your paint job anyways so why bother.        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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snip Our first question has to do with size. The sides of our pond are sloped inward so steeply that the formula for calculating the gallons wouldn’t be acurate. It’s about ten feet in diameter and four feet deep at the deepest point, but the sides slope inward severely – i.e., it’s only a foot deep 12 inches in from the side. Any math geniuses out there?

  The way to find out the gallonage in this pond would be to measure it if you fill it again. Fill a container of known gallons and time it. Then fill the pond. The time x the gallons in the container is the ponds volume. Our second question is this:  after filling it up the first time, we quickly realized that we didn’t like seeing the light concrete color at the bottom. We would like to know what we can use to make it black. A liner is not an option; it’s got a rock border already in place.

It won’t stay this color as algae will cover the sides after a short while, this is good. If you really don’t like the color, you can drain it and coat it with Thoroseal which can be dyed with standard concrete colors. And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

Filter pumps run 24/7. Feature pumps can be run when desired. FAQ at http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/faq.html snip

– hth – how no NEWS is good

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<snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day.

After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis.   Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Hi, Any of Helen Nash’s books are a good source of information. I like her "Low-Maintenance Water Gardens" and "The Pond Doctor".  Barron’s "Water Gardens" has much info for a little book.  It even has section for building bridges.   For plants Helen Nash’s "Aquatic Plants & Their Cultivation", American Horticultural Society "Ponds & Water Features". As you can see, there are many good books.  These are just a few of my collection.  I don’t know if this helps or just adds to the confusion. — Bonnie NJ http://www.users.fast.net/~maebe/index.htm – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) !

I second that!  Pond & Garden is the most beautiful and informative magazine I have ever read …. on any subject. Judy from California

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Whoops.. your correct.. see what happens you stay up late at night and try to rely on an aging brain? Craig – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Craig,  I can understand your confusion… but Helen Nash is editor of Pond & Garden magazine. Watergardening is yet another good magazine….. but not as good as Pond & Garden  (imo) ! Any of Helen Nash’s books are very good.  She goes through the basics without clobbering one with technicalities.  I have all her books but for newbies I like "Low Maintenance for Water Gardens";  "The Complete Pond Builder"; and  "The Pond Doctor".  Again, these not for the technically inclined, rather they are for the newbie. Nedra Zone 6+ Visit my ponds: www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4836 I can only recommend Helen Nash’s magazine, Water Gardening. I find that the vast majority of pond books have conflicting information.  Most of the typical ones in the pond stores and garden centers are fine for getting the basics and looking at pictures to get ideas for building but I hardly would recommend them on a technical basis. Once you understand the general basics, most of of what you need to know is in a general physics or math book.  I.e. pump flows, volume calculations, estimations of materials, etc.. Then ask questions here!  You’ll STILL get lots of conflicting information!! *LOL* It does take some research to get it right. Or you learn by trial and error. Or course the whole point is the journey though!  Getting to the destination just means you have pick a new destination for a new journey. Craig <snip And last, can anyone suggest a good book or website where we can learn general information? We don’t even know if the pump has to stay on at all times, or if it only needs to be run for a certain number of hours per day. After watching this thread for a few days, I’m wondering why no one has suggested any books – which is why I’m lurking here – wondering what books are there that would be good for newbies.  Are there any that you experienced people have found worthwhile?

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I just ordered Helen Nash’s Plants for Water Gardens book.  I can’t wait to get it!!!  This is the area I’m having the hardest time with trying to figure out what plants to get, sizes I need and hardy for my zone.  This will make life so much simpler!!!  Now I can pick my plants and surf the web to order them!!!  : )  Then know exactly what to do come winter and lots of other stuff!!!        })i({  Cindy  })i({   If you think the grass is  greener on the other side,         get fertilizer!!!               : )     Live, Love, Laugh!!! Don’t lose sight of lifes simple treasures, they cost nothing yet are priceless

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Thanks to all who responded. I’ve filed all the suggestions away, hoping to make use of them as winter reading material.

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Hello! I live in SW Michigan (Zone 5/6).  I’m thinking about installing a pond and have a few questions. First of all, does this NG have a FAQ I can refer to? I’m new and I hate to ask the same old same old… Second:  I have been reading stuff for about a year, and if all things were equal, I would use a high quality liner for my pond.  However, I am now the busy owner of a 1 yr old standard Poodle (the big size) who loves being in water.  I made a small pond out of an old wheelbarrow last summer when he a puppy and he was in it all the time.  I am concerned that he will occasionally get in the new pond and poke his nice big toenails right through the lining. I would of course attempt to teach him not to get in but he is quite ornery!  I guess I am interested in whether the lining material can withstand a 60 lb dog or not. (I’m guessing not!) A local discount pet supply business sells MacCourt pre-formed pools. They have a Lotus on sale that I am looking at.  However, it (and all of MacCourts other models) is only 18" deep.  From my reading this appears to be too shallow to keep fish over winter.  The shop assures me that they will be OK.  Are they just trying to get rid of this pond (it’s been sitting there all winter)? I am interested only in a few goldfish, nothing fancy. I don’t want to bring anything inside during the winter.   Thanks. I appreciate any answers you have for me! Catherine

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Catherine, Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.  They are real cheap and come in several shapes and sizes.  They are easy to manuver as are galvanized metal.  Metal needs to be painted inside with rubber or waterproofing paint to keep from leaching.  They have a drain screw on the side bottom. Keep dirt from this area so can reach it. I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

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Check your local Feed stores for Stock Watering Tanks.   I have one sunk in ground to grade, that is 3′ deep and 6′ round.  Small submersible fountain in bottom, two small lily baskets, flattish rocks around rim, bamboo beside.  Makes a nice entry by front door. Sally

Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either. Catherine

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Thanks, I’ll be checking into this.  Does being so round look weird or have you softened the edges with plants.  My pond will be by our front entrance also.  In that spot it won’t look totally natural but I don’t want it to look absolutely out of place or fake either.

Catherine, Symmetrically shaped ponds are called "formal".  If you don’t try to naturalize it too much round doesn’t look odd at all.  You can trim the edges with paving stones or bricks, etc. and soften the edges with plants that drape over and into the water as well as some that stand tall.  A small fountain can complete the more formal look.  "Formal" in this case doesn’t have to mean that you have to wear a ball gown to walk by it.  It just means you MEANT for it to look that way.  To me, the harder you TRY to make a symmetrical pond look natural the worse it looks.  Go ahead and intend for it to be round by the type of surrounding plants and pavers you use!  Good luck! — Signed,    Kellie My Karma Ran Over My Dogma.  It was a catastrophe! Now my dogma’s dead and my karma’s out of alignment. Get in "Knee Deep"!     The Internet Pond Society      http://w3.one.net/~rzutt/newsletter.html

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Joshua: I noticed in my earlier reply I did not really answer a couple of your questions. You asked: How painful is this?  Also how is this disease going to effect my life?  Will it make a difference in the things I do? With respect to pain, although some Crohn’s patients experience a significant amount of pain during flareups, my pain was not that bad. It was more an experience of frustration and a systemic "sick" feeling that is hard to describe, but you sure know it when you experience it.  With prednisone, you will also experience lability, irritability and possibly insomnia? How did it affect my life? Considerably. Although only once, when I was hosptialized during a flareup and again when I had surgery did it ever disable me enough that I couldn’t work. During flareups, I felt lousy.  Also, because of the joint pains, it meant initially that I had to give up playing hockey and other strenuous sports, and it almost forced me to give up hiking while birding. The prednisone made me put on a lot of weight (which I lost after surgery). It caused me worry about getting colon cancer. It cost money (I have an 80 percent deducitble insurance). It’s made it difficult to change jobs for fear of losing my insurance coverage. How is it going to affect your life? That’s hard to say. I don’t know how old you are or much about you. I don’t know how well you will respond to medication. I don’t know what drugs you will be on and how they will affect you. I also do not know what new treatment therapies will come about in the future. But having Crohn’s certainly will affect your life. My guess is you will have good periods (remission) and bad times (flareups). You have a chronic disease that, at this time, is not curable. But, as the numerous people on this newsgroup will attest, you still can have a long and fulfilling live with this disease. And, you can have hope that treatments will improve or even that there will be a cure.

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Everyone …. Please put on your FOIL HATS cause I am taking anti depressants and its not cause I was depressed !!

Uh-oh!!!  Mood swing!!  Everybody duck!!!  LOL!!  Not to worry, Maryjo, we are all on your side, so vent or flame away!  We can take it!  Hope you are well. Love,   Margie

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Kim, The key here  is vulnerable.   There has to be a mind connection that is pretty strong  and going on much of the time. Not everyone is vulnerable and some have a very strong constitution and are not affected.  Those that go their own way pretty much are not affected,  a little bit of dependency seems to  play a part. Gail

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Margie Considering I am in the middle of week 6 without smoking (yes still on the patches but down to the middle patch now) I am really in a fantastic frame of mind … Denis said I am filling in the bones of my body … I feel great (other then I am tired) Maryjo come visit my homepage:  "http://community.webtv.net/MaryjoL/MYPAGE"

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When that person is on the drug, he/she unknowingly can cause a vulnerable person to develop the symptoms of crohns

That’s a joke right? You can get crohns from someone taking antidepressants? Then everyone in my family would have it. :o ) And all my friends too. Hmmm.

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Please lets not give this type of information to someone that has no idea of the disease anyway.  I do not believe in what you say as it does not relate to me. Lynn in Fl

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Joshua, Take it from an old Jewish grandma who has seen and experienced crohns (presently also) what she knows causes crohns, and if one is lucky can have it gone quickly.   It all depends on some other person who is close in relationship to the crohnie (friend or family) who happens to be on a stimulant drug, such as amphetamine, diet drug, anti-depressant, marijuana, cocaine, depakote, buspar, seratonin drug, or 1 of many I could not know of that have a stimulant as an ingredient in it.  When that person is on the drug, he/she unknowingly can cause a vulnerable person to develop the symptoms of crohns. The really unbelievable part (but true) is that the two (or more) persons do not have to be in the same room for the crohnie to have the symptoms, they can be miles apart.  Sounds incredible, but it matches the weird illness that crohns is.  Continue with your doctor, but this, if you can relate, will make you free of crohns if the person will stop the drug.  However, most will not stop, they don’t believe they can affect another person,  in that case, I sever ALL contact with the person and hope that time will sever all our mind connections, because as long as the drug and mind connection continue, so does crohns. Joshua, I’d like to see you well, sometimes a mother could be on an anti-depressant and not think it important enough to  tell her children, so ask EVERYONE.  When it comes to health, shyness will get one nowhere. I.m well known on the group, but don’t wish to post generally, until ALL my symptoms are gone, as the son of a bitch that is on anti-depressants whom I used to talk to every day for five years when he was on tranquillizers and said he would never take anti-depressants decided to take them when we had a disagreement, and I didn’t want him to call me anymore.  He doesn’t believe the theory, but he said he will hurt me, and he IS. Wishing you well, Gail Michael Chicago

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Everyone …. Please put on your FOIL HATS cause I am taking anti depressants and its not cause I was depressed !! Maryjo come visit my homepage:  "http://community.webtv.net/MaryjoL/MYPAGE"

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I started taking 6-mp 5 weeks ago.  I started to see an improvement almost immediately.  Actually today is the first bad day I’ve had in a "long" time. A few weeks, anyway.  I’m so glad to have relatively pain free days that It doesn’t take me too long to start to feel more well than unwell.  Amazing what a few nights of good sleep will do.  Unfortunately I’m losing water faster than I can drink it now so I broke down and took an immodium which I don’t like to do because it usually causes cramping for me.  Toss up between that and probably waking up every hour to go to the potty…If I can keep some of this water down maybe I won’t get that headache tomorrow that I know I will otherwise get as one of those first signs of dehydration. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – ight now I’m hoping that I’ve found a drug that will work to keep me in something close to a remission Hi Kim! i wonder what the drug is that is helping you? i’ve had terrific success with Imuran.. agreeing with you that for me anyway…it was a very benign drug. For pain, i’ve found that the drug Vioxx helps me a bit…at least takes the edge off of the pain. Thanks for your letter here… how true the contents were!! The disease is  so unusual and unpredictable…as are the the various reactions to the medicinal therapies that we try! This is certainly a good place to share what we’ve learned, tho….it is so helpful to all of us!   debbie

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Joshua, Take it from an old Jewish grandma who has seen and experienced crohns (presently also) what she knows causes crohns, and if one is lucky can have it gone quickly.   It all depends on some other person who is close in relationship to the crohnie (friend or family) who happens to be on a stimulant drug, such as amphetamine, diet drug, anti-depressant, marijuana, cocaine, depakote, buspar, seratonin drug, or 1 of many I could not know of that have a stimulant as an ingredient in it.  When that person is on the drug, he/she unknowingly can cause a vulnerable person to develop the symptoms of crohns. The really unbelievable part (but true) is that the two (or more) persons do not have to be in the same room for the crohnie to have the symptoms, they can be miles apart.  Sounds incredible, but it matches the weird illness that crohns is.  Continue with your doctor, but this, if you can relate, will make you free of crohns if the person will stop the drug.  However, most will not stop, they don’t believe they can affect another person,  in that case, I sever ALL contact with the person and hope that time will sever all our mind connections, because as long as the drug and mind connection continue, so does crohns. Joshua, I’d like to see you well, sometimes a mother could be on an anti-depressant and not think it important enough to  tell her children, so ask EVERYONE.  When it comes to health, shyness will get one nowhere. I.m well known on the group, but don’t wish to post generally, until ALL my symptoms are gone, as the son of a bitch that is on anti-depressants  whom I used to talk to every day for five years when he was on tranquillizers and said he would never take anti-depressants decided to take them when we had a disagreement, and I didn’t want him to call me anymore.  He doesn’t believe the theory, but he said he will hurt me, and he IS. Wishing you well, Gail Michael Chicago

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I thought Kim’s response was excellent. I’ve had Crohn’s for about 10 years. Along the way I had a number of flareups and one hospitalization. I was not able to tolerate Asacol, which works well for some people. Imuran kept me in remission for a number of years, but finally even that did not do the trick. Prednisone at high doses works, but the cure is often worse than the disease. In addition to the intestinal flareups, most Crohn’s sufferers encounter other side effects as a result of either the disease or medications. These include joint pain, eye infections, skin irritations, fistualas, sometimes even respiratory problems.  I have often suspected that the biblical references to Job’s disease are probably describing Crohn’s Disease. Two years ago, after my last flareup, and after being told that I had precancerous displasia (Crohn’s carries with it an elevated risk for colon cancer), I opted for surgery — an ileosomy. Although the surgery was no picnic, and although I still run the risk of a flare higher up in my digestive tract, it was the best decision I ever made. I feel wonderful. My activities are not restricted in any way. I can eat what I want to eat. My advice to you is to find a really good gastroenterologist. This person is going to be one of the most important people in your life — pick him or her well. There are a whole host of medications that may or may not work for you. Imuran is one with relatively few side effects, although it takes awhile to kick in. There also are new medications coming out all of the time. If surgery is suggested by your GI as an option, don’t rule it out. Of the many people I know who have  had an ileostomy, the most common post-surgical reaction is — why didn’t I have this done sooner? If you consider surgery, either drop me a note or join the alt.support.ostomy newsgroup for some tips on things you should do prior to surgery. If you are a smoker, stop smoking. It probably will aggravate your condition. Join the Crohn’s Colitis Foundation of America. It has a lot of good publications on the subject, including People, Not Patients, plus some of your dues and contributions will go towards fighting this disease. Also, get involved in your local CCFA chapter. Many have good meetings and support groups. Remain active in this newsgroup. You will find answers to many questions, discover that there are people who, although they are suffering more than you, remain upbeat and optimistic about life. This newsgroup also allows people to vent their frustrations, which you will feel often — especially during flareups. Develop a sense of humor. You will need it. If you have health coverage or life insurance, try not to lose it. You will have difficulty getting new coverage. Don’t think of this as a death sentence. Odds are overwhelming that you will live to an old age and die from something else. My sympathies are with you, but not my pity. There is life after a Crohn’s diagnosis. Trust me.

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ight now I’m hoping that I’ve found a drug that will work to keep me in something close to a remission

Hi Kim! i wonder what the drug is that is helping you? i’ve had terrific success with Imuran.. agreeing with you that for me anyway…it was a very benign drug. For pain, i’ve found that the drug Vioxx helps me a bit…at least takes the edge off of the pain. Thanks for your letter here… how true the contents were!! The disease is  so unusual and unpredictable…as are the the various reactions to the medicinal therapies that we try! This is certainly a good place to share what we’ve learned, tho….it is so helpful to all of us!   debbie

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Hello     I just found this newsgroup and was wondering if anyone could help me? Last week my doctor told me I might have crohns. This was the first time I had ever heard of it.  To be sure I need to have a colonoscopy.  Here is where my questions start. How painful is this?  Also how is this disease going to effect my life?  Will it make a difference in the things I do? Everyone tells me that its not a big deal, but anything with disease at the end of it scares the hell out of me.  Any advise you can give would be appreciated.  thanks

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Lots of times you can find information to common questions if you search the archives of this newsgroup.  For example, I’m sure you can read about the prep for the colonoscopy which I think everyone agrees is the worst part, to your hearts content.  Of course make sure they are going to use a sedative/pain combination similar to versed/demerol. Anyway I’d first like to ask who tells you it’s not a big deal?  I think that the answer is, it depends on your treatment, your reaction to it and how lucky you are regarding the course the disease takes.  For most people it takes many attempts to find the correct medicine to keep things under control.  Unfortunately while we’re trying to figure out what works we’re often getting worse, causing permanent damage that cannot be undone except for surgery.  If I had any advice for you it would be to treat it as aggressively as you should.  By this I mean don’t wait a year feeling bad taking one of the relatively benign drugs like asacol or pentasa until you decide it’s not working and you need to try an immunosupressant drug like immuran or 6-mp.  Prednisone has it’s use for a quick "get the flare under control" purposes but it should not be used long term.  The side effects are enough for most people not to want to take this drug too long.  I’ve been diagnosed since 1997 and have had surgery this year.  I have had lots of pain on a daily basis.  Sometimes I find my life seriously interrupted by this disease, though for the most part you find ways to get on with it. Right now I’m hoping that I’ve found a drug that will work to keep me in something close to a remission.  I’m not a doctor, this is just what I’ve learned over the past three years, and what I wished I had known sooner. Also, if it gets to the point that you are in serious pain every day and the meds don’t seem to be working don’t hesitate too long to consider surgery. Most people recommend that you do everything you can first, of course once again I don’t believe that this means the same thing that doesn’t work for a years time…  Many of us, me for sure, am sorry I didn’t do it sooner. Really I think I figured out surgery would be required to get rid of my pain far before any doctor actually recommended it.  You can always take it out later but you can’t put it back being their philosophy. It’s not a death sentence it just means you may have some bad days along with the good.  Maybe your disease will be easily controlled and you will have little/no problems.  Good luck. P.S. make sure you ask about fleets phosphasoda if your doctor trys to recommend golytely or something else that you have to drink a gallon of.  I would absolutely flat-out refuse to do the golytely prep ever again! -Kim – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello    I just found this newsgroup and was wondering if anyone could help me? Last week my doctor told me I might have crohns. This was the first time I had ever heard of it.  To be sure I need to have a colonoscopy.  Here is where my questions start. How painful is this?  Also how is this disease going to effect my life?  Will it make a difference in the things I do? Everyone tells me that its not a big deal, but anything with disease at the end of it scares the hell out of me.  Any advise you can give would be appreciated.  thanks

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joshua, you are heading down a long road of learning every person reacts differently cd can effect any part of digestion from mouth to rectum unfortunatly each flare up does not return the disease to the same spot it can return to same spot but no guarantees I am 28 and have been getting treatment since 1990 I have had 2 surgerys I am currently haveing a flare and will do anything to avoid surgery I can only advise to you this get as informed as possible it helps to know all options and treatments and get a second oppinion if you want…no one says you must believe the first md that looks inside you. keep up with support either on line or local even if you do not talk just reading about others helps to remember that you are not alone . you diserve to feel good I think we all do! the pains will come and they will go some times it will be long peroids /b/ pain and flare ups and then seem so much worse then ever b/4 I think our minds play tricks on us I think we forget just how bad we felt I try to be really productive and active on good days cuz I never know when a bad day is gonna be at my door  I hope you get as much from this group as I have some days I just lurk around listening it helps me jolly

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello     I just found this newsgroup and was wondering if anyone could help me? Last week my doctor told me I might have crohns. This was the first time I had ever heard of it.  To be sure I need to have a colonoscopy.  Here is where my questions start. How painful is this?  Also how is this disease going to effect my life?  Will it make a difference in the things I do? Everyone tells me that its not a big deal, but anything with disease at the end of it scares the hell out of me.  Any advise you can give would be appreciated.  thanks

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I dont know about the other stuff, but I know that when you have black looking stools, it usually means intestinal/rectal bleeding. You should go to the doctor.

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Paula, I mentioned that my GI allowed me to continue my medication regime despite elevated liver enzymes because further testing done indicated that the amount of the medication I was taking was way below the threshold of what my body was capable of absorbing.  It was only because of this additional test that he allows it and I trust that he will cut me off when appropriate as we continue to monitor me monthly.  Prior to the additional testing my GI would lower my dosage if my LFT values reached double normal.   I would ask your GI specifically what he/she would do for your in your circumstances as each individual is different as is the combination of medications they are taking.   :)  mgbio – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – A few questions: I read that people with IBD can have a deficiency in the enzyme lipase. In my case, due to med however my blood test result has me nearly double the normal high value. A high value indicates if I understood correctly, a possible pancreatic problem. Has anyone’s pancreas been damaged due to their medications? I read here that GI’s let you have elevated liver enzymes when on meds. Can someone give me an idea as to where a person needs to be told to stop the meds and let the liver recoup? the word "elevated" can mean many tings; double normal high, triple?? what. Please give ranges and measurement in your answer when possibily appropriate; they vary from place to place; my lab: ALT normal range is 1 – 40 U/L         GGT normal range 8 – 35 U/L         lipase normal range 0 – 60 U/L  The 0 value does not jive with what I read re decreased enzymes; anyone who can help with proper medical data? Values for blood transfusions tossed around here were in the 70’s??? what is the measurement for that, and is this figure right? and where can I find where that compares to umol/L Last, is it normal to have black looking stools after taking pepto-bismal ( pink stuff) for heartburn/ indigestion type pains. Thanks for any answers to the above you can give.

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A few questions: I read that people with IBD can have a deficiency in the enzyme lipase. In my case, due to med however my blood test result has me nearly double the normal high value. A high value indicates if I understood correctly, a possible pancreatic problem. Has anyone’s pancreas been damaged due to their medications? I read here that GI’s let you have elevated liver enzymes when on meds. Can someone give me an idea as to where a person needs to be told to stop the meds and let the liver recoup? the word "elevated" can mean many tings; double normal high, triple?? what. Please give ranges and measurement in your answer when possibily appropriate; they vary from place to place; my lab: ALT normal range is 1 – 40 U/L         GGT normal range 8 – 35 U/L         lipase normal range 0 – 60 U/L  The 0 value does not jive with what I read re decreased enzymes; anyone who can help with proper medical data? Values for blood transfusions tossed around here were in the 70’s??? what is the measurement for that, and is this figure right? and where can I find where that compares to umol/L Last, is it normal to have black looking stools after taking pepto-bismal ( pink stuff) for heartburn/ indigestion type pains. Thanks for any answers to the above you can give.

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writes: RA can affect the joints near the nail also

Let’s face it folks, arthritis can affect damn near anything it wants in any of several forms.  Just like J.R.R. Tolkien’s famous character Golum would say, "Nassssssty, Arthritisssss.  Yessssss, nasssssty it is,  precioussss. golooom." Best, Larry "A smile today could ease pain tomorrow."

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Hi Lynette – I have RA in all 8 of the joints next to the fingernails.  All of my toe joints too.  I really believe that RA can pop up in ANY soft tissue in the body.  Although it hasn’t happened to me, some people have it in the outer ear! -g- Kitty

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<<Let’s face it folks, arthritis can affect damn near anything it wants in any of several forms. And d*mn if I can get my joints to read the text books…I just call ‘em achy… Warm regards, Angela "Formerly, when religion was strong and science weak, men mistook magic for medicine; now, when science is strong and religion weak, men mistake medicine for magic." –Thomas Szasz

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Diana, Thanks for explaining.  You don’t have to apologize for confusing me; it is actually enlightening to realize that things aren’t always black and white. The only finger I have that is very bad is the one next to the thumb, so that doesn’t agree with what you heard either. I’m just beginning to realize how much variation there can be in RA. Lynette   – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Okay, Lady Andy and Diana, You guys just raised three million more questions for me.  My ortho surgeon and RD have always made a clear distinction for me as to which arthritis is causing which knuckles to curl. It sounds like it’s not all that simple. I can’t see your joints- I am not on Enbrel(yet) and even if I could, I’d not be able to tell oa from ra.  3 of my joints are drifted to the left and both little fingers are bent forard toward my palm.  The one little finger has been that way from the very early days of RA.  I am not saying that I am typical though.  I’ve been told thet the finger next to the thumb is seldom involved in RA and I have large second joints on that finger on each hand.  My Rd did tell the other doctors that sometimes RA causes problems with the fingernails.  I have ridges in my nails..  Sorry if I confused you, bt I didn’t want anyone to think they cant hare RA because their first joint was involved.

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Okay, Lady Andy and Diana, You guys just raised three million more questions for me.  My ortho surgeon and RD have always made a clear distinction for me as to which arthritis is causing which knuckles to curl. It sounds like it’s not all that simple.  

I can’t see your joints- I am not on Enbrel(yet) and even if I could, I’d not be able to tell oa from ra.  3 of my joints are drifted to the left and both little fingers are bent forard toward my palm.  The one little finger has been that way from the very early days of RA.  I am not saying that I am typical though.  I’ve been told thet the finger next to the thumb is seldom involved in RA and I have large second joints on that finger on each hand.  My Rd did tell the other doctors that sometimes RA causes problems with the fingernails.  I have ridges in my nails..  Sorry if I confused you, bt I didn’t want anyone to think they cant hare RA because their first joint was involved. idydal-Diana Remove nospam from email address.

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Hi MaryBeth, My rheumatoid arthritis came on sort of the way you describe. I had one badly swollen joint in my hand for about three months, and no one could figure out what was wrong with it or what was going on. Then one of my knees swelled up. At that point I went to see a rheumatologist, who ran the usual initial battery of tests and didn’t find anythi specific. For a while that was all that happened, and then, over the course of about a month, most of my major joints swelled up one by one. By the time I saw the RD again he was ready to diagnose RA. You asked about SAMe. I tried it for about a month and didn’t seem to have any results either for better or for worse. The only drawback of it is the expense, as far as I can see – it may be worth a try. Hope this helps, Robin — Robin Mayhall Community Manager for Physical Conditions drkoop.com http://www.drkoop.com

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Thanks for your reply, Robin.  I know we get run down just like anybody but the last thing I would want to do it step up my system.  I am glad you didn’t have any problems with it because I thought you would to be honest about it. Harv Houston,Tx – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi MaryBeth, My rheumatoid arthritis came on sort of the way you describe. I had one badly swollen joint in my hand for about three months, and no one could figure out what was wrong with it or what was going on. Then one of my knees swelled up. At that point I went to see a rheumatologist, who ran the usual initial battery of tests and didn’t find anythi specific. For a while that was all that happened, and then, over the course of about a month, most of my major joints swelled up one by one. By the time I saw the RD again he was ready to diagnose RA. You asked about SAMe. I tried it for about a month and didn’t seem to have any results either for better or for worse. The only drawback of it is the expense, as far as I can see – it may be worth a try. Hope this helps, Robin — Robin Mayhall Community Manager for Physical Conditions drkoop.com http://www.drkoop.com

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My ortho surgeon and RD have always made a clear distinction for me as to which arthritis is causing which knuckles to curl. It sounds like it’s not all that simple.  

Well, of course they are the experts, and we are not even looking… I’d listen to them, but then nothing is ever really simple, either. I had an older sister with RA and her hands were curled tight.  My other sister has curly knuckles near her fingernails and complains that her hands sometimes lock (one at a time) into a fist and she has to struggle to open her hands again.  Does that, in combination with the curled knuckles near the nail, sound like it could be PA?

Sounds like it could be either.  The distinction of tending to hit the distal tufts of the finger joints for PA is just one of the first "markers" used to figure out what kind of arthritis one has.  It is not that easy… of course :)    That’s why the specialists get the big bucks.  If your sister has no other signs, like having a history of psoriasis, or signs of characteristic tiny pits in the fingernails, I wouldn’t think first of PA, especially with a family history of RA. The locking can be either, too… certain positions or physical work can make my hands lock, too.   Best regards,

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Okay, Lady Andy and Diana, You guys just raised three million more questions for me.  My ortho surgeon and RD have always made a clear distinction for me as to which arthritis is causing which knuckles to curl. It sounds like it’s not all that simple.   I had an older sister with RA and her hands were curled tight.  My other sister has curly knuckles near her fingernails and complains that her hands sometimes lock (one at a time) into a fist and she has to struggle to open her hands again.  Does that, in combination with the curled knuckles near the nail, sound like it could be PA? Lynette – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I have both, and osteoarthritis affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail, RA affects the joints in the middle of the finger and adjoining the hand. Just a passing comment here… PA also affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail (the "distal tufts"). Best regards, RA can affect the joints near the nail also – I have five examples. Idydal-Diana

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I have both, and osteoarthritis affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail, RA affects the joints in the middle of the finger and adjoining the hand.

Just a passing comment here… PA also affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail (the "distal tufts"). Best regards,

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I have both, and osteoarthritis affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail, RA affects the joints in the middle of the finger and adjoining the hand. Just a passing comment here… PA also affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail (the "distal tufts"). Best regards,

RA can affect the joints near the nail also – I have five examples. Idydal-Diana

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writes: RA can affect the joints near the nail also

Let’s face it folks, arthritis can affect damn near anything it wants in any of several forms.  Just like J.R.R. Tolkien’s famous character Golum would say, "Nassssssty, Arthritisssss.  Yessssss, nasssssty it is,  precioussss. golooom." Best, Larry "A smile today could ease pain tomorrow."

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Hi Lynette – I have RA in all 8 of the joints next to the fingernails.  All of my toe joints too.  I really believe that RA can pop up in ANY soft tissue in the body.  Although it hasn’t happened to me, some people have it in the outer ear! -g- Kitty

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<<Let’s face it folks, arthritis can affect damn near anything it wants in any of several forms. And d*mn if I can get my joints to read the text books…I just call ‘em achy… Warm regards, Angela "Formerly, when religion was strong and science weak, men mistook magic for medicine; now, when science is strong and religion weak, men mistake medicine for magic." –Thomas Szasz

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Diana, Thanks for explaining.  You don’t have to apologize for confusing me; it is actually enlightening to realize that things aren’t always black and white. The only finger I have that is very bad is the one next to the thumb, so that doesn’t agree with what you heard either. I’m just beginning to realize how much variation there can be in RA. Lynette   – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Okay, Lady Andy and Diana, You guys just raised three million more questions for me.  My ortho surgeon and RD have always made a clear distinction for me as to which arthritis is causing which knuckles to curl. It sounds like it’s not all that simple. I can’t see your joints- I am not on Enbrel(yet) and even if I could, I’d not be able to tell oa from ra.  3 of my joints are drifted to the left and both little fingers are bent forard toward my palm.  The one little finger has been that way from the very early days of RA.  I am not saying that I am typical though.  I’ve been told thet the finger next to the thumb is seldom involved in RA and I have large second joints on that finger on each hand.  My Rd did tell the other doctors that sometimes RA causes problems with the fingernails.  I have ridges in my nails..  Sorry if I confused you, bt I didn’t want anyone to think they cant hare RA because their first joint was involved.

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Okay, Lady Andy and Diana, You guys just raised three million more questions for me.  My ortho surgeon and RD have always made a clear distinction for me as to which arthritis is causing which knuckles to curl. It sounds like it’s not all that simple.  

I can’t see your joints- I am not on Enbrel(yet) and even if I could, I’d not be able to tell oa from ra.  3 of my joints are drifted to the left and both little fingers are bent forard toward my palm.  The one little finger has been that way from the very early days of RA.  I am not saying that I am typical though.  I’ve been told thet the finger next to the thumb is seldom involved in RA and I have large second joints on that finger on each hand.  My Rd did tell the other doctors that sometimes RA causes problems with the fingernails.  I have ridges in my nails..  Sorry if I confused you, bt I didn’t want anyone to think they cant hare RA because their first joint was involved. idydal-Diana Remove nospam from email address.

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Hi MaryBeth, My rheumatoid arthritis came on sort of the way you describe. I had one badly swollen joint in my hand for about three months, and no one could figure out what was wrong with it or what was going on. Then one of my knees swelled up. At that point I went to see a rheumatologist, who ran the usual initial battery of tests and didn’t find anythi specific. For a while that was all that happened, and then, over the course of about a month, most of my major joints swelled up one by one. By the time I saw the RD again he was ready to diagnose RA. You asked about SAMe. I tried it for about a month and didn’t seem to have any results either for better or for worse. The only drawback of it is the expense, as far as I can see – it may be worth a try. Hope this helps, Robin — Robin Mayhall Community Manager for Physical Conditions drkoop.com http://www.drkoop.com

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Thanks for your reply, Robin.  I know we get run down just like anybody but the last thing I would want to do it step up my system.  I am glad you didn’t have any problems with it because I thought you would to be honest about it. Harv Houston,Tx – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi MaryBeth, My rheumatoid arthritis came on sort of the way you describe. I had one badly swollen joint in my hand for about three months, and no one could figure out what was wrong with it or what was going on. Then one of my knees swelled up. At that point I went to see a rheumatologist, who ran the usual initial battery of tests and didn’t find anythi specific. For a while that was all that happened, and then, over the course of about a month, most of my major joints swelled up one by one. By the time I saw the RD again he was ready to diagnose RA. You asked about SAMe. I tried it for about a month and didn’t seem to have any results either for better or for worse. The only drawback of it is the expense, as far as I can see – it may be worth a try. Hope this helps, Robin — Robin Mayhall Community Manager for Physical Conditions drkoop.com http://www.drkoop.com

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My ortho surgeon and RD have always made a clear distinction for me as to which arthritis is causing which knuckles to curl. It sounds like it’s not all that simple.  

Well, of course they are the experts, and we are not even looking… I’d listen to them, but then nothing is ever really simple, either. I had an older sister with RA and her hands were curled tight.  My other sister has curly knuckles near her fingernails and complains that her hands sometimes lock (one at a time) into a fist and she has to struggle to open her hands again.  Does that, in combination with the curled knuckles near the nail, sound like it could be PA?

Sounds like it could be either.  The distinction of tending to hit the distal tufts of the finger joints for PA is just one of the first "markers" used to figure out what kind of arthritis one has.  It is not that easy… of course :)    That’s why the specialists get the big bucks.  If your sister has no other signs, like having a history of psoriasis, or signs of characteristic tiny pits in the fingernails, I wouldn’t think first of PA, especially with a family history of RA. The locking can be either, too… certain positions or physical work can make my hands lock, too.   Best regards,

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Okay, Lady Andy and Diana, You guys just raised three million more questions for me.  My ortho surgeon and RD have always made a clear distinction for me as to which arthritis is causing which knuckles to curl. It sounds like it’s not all that simple.   I had an older sister with RA and her hands were curled tight.  My other sister has curly knuckles near her fingernails and complains that her hands sometimes lock (one at a time) into a fist and she has to struggle to open her hands again.  Does that, in combination with the curled knuckles near the nail, sound like it could be PA? Lynette – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I have both, and osteoarthritis affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail, RA affects the joints in the middle of the finger and adjoining the hand. Just a passing comment here… PA also affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail (the "distal tufts"). Best regards, RA can affect the joints near the nail also – I have five examples. Idydal-Diana

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I have both, and osteoarthritis affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail, RA affects the joints in the middle of the finger and adjoining the hand.

Just a passing comment here… PA also affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail (the "distal tufts"). Best regards,

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I have both, and osteoarthritis affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail, RA affects the joints in the middle of the finger and adjoining the hand. Just a passing comment here… PA also affects the joints near the end of the finger by the nail (the "distal tufts"). Best regards,

RA can affect the joints near the nail also – I have five examples. Idydal-Diana

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hello, hope you are recovering well from surgery. I have had two operations from cd.  1st in 91 send in 94.  Currently doing everything possible to avoid third operation. Hopefully surgery has helped you and you will feel better.  With the right meds you can live a somewhat normal life, with minor changes in diet.  It takes alot of getting use to.  There may me times when you hate every healthy person. With the support of family and friends it gets better. GOOD LUCK, MAY THE NEW YEAR BRING YOU GGOD HEALTH

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I’ve was diagnosed with Crohn’s in 1984, but I’m positive it started to rear it’s ugly head in 1980 when my first child was born (I was 19). I have to agree with Mary Ann. You can let it control your life or you can control your life with it. You never have complete control over it (Crohn’s… and life for that matter). I have managed to find a doctor who helps me control the symptoms. I control my attitude. I think that has been my number one treatment. I decided early on that I was not going to let this thing get the best of me. I surf (in the ocean and on the net). I play racquetball once a week. I work full time and I still feel like I’m 18. Sure I have my bad days with pain, bleeding, nausea, etc. But I also have good days. While groups like this are very good and helpful. When a newbie comes in for the first time, he or she will read all the posts that talk about Surgery, FM, Bleeding, Pain, Cramps and it gets kinda scary. But remember, when we are feeling good, we tend not to have time to post here, because we are out living our lives. Crohn’s is not a death sentence. For me, it is a blessing and a curse. I have met some wonderful people and experienced some wonderful things in my life that I know I would not have experienced had I not had Crohn’s. I’ve had some pretty rough times too. The moral of this story is this: Crohn’s is like a rollercoaster… you can sit in the back seat with your eyes closed, terrified, wishing you had never boarded the train. Or… you can sit in the front seat with your eyes wide open, hands over your head, laughing and screaming in both terror AND exhilaration, and enjoy the ride. I choose the latter. Remember… you must be this tall to ride. SDB

Hi Steve!! It is nice to "meet" someone with the same attitude as me…You worded it better than I could!!!  I, too, have met amazing, incredibly loving people…I have been "taught compassion"..I can "see the pain" in others…crohns and my other auto immune diseases have made me more "aware"…for the past 29 years!!!  In a way…it is a blessing…it has made me a "better person"..a "stronger person"…a more loving person!!!  I also agree with the other Steve….my heart aches sooooooo much for the children who suffer with, not only crohns…but with any disease or disfigurement!  Having vitiligo and alopecia (diffuse…I am not bald…just some thinning that I manage to cover)…being a "little different"..having things that are "visible"…having been chosen "prettiest girl in my high school class"..and then years later, having white spots and thinning hair…these things attacked my self esteem…they also made me "more aware of how it feels to be different"…and guess what????? it hurts…people are cruel,,with their sideways stares…their sympathy faces….I "make eye contact" with people in wheelchairs and smile and say HI!!!! because very few people do!!!  think about it!!!!!  we look "past" these people THAT IS NOT have feelings too….let’s change the world…at least the world around us…..sorry to get on a soapbox…things like this bother me!!!  Love to you all…Mary Ann B

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Crohn’s is like a rollercoaster… you can sit in the back seat with your eyes closed, terrified, wishing you had never boarded the train. Or… you can sit in the front seat with your eyes wide open, hands over your head, laughing and screaming in both terror AND exhilaration, and enjoy the ride. I choose the latter. Remember… you must be this tall to ride.

Wow …  that’s a terrific post.  Such is true with just about every situation in life…  attitude is everything.   I’m sure you’ve encouraged a lot of people today ! Jan…  

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The moral of this story is this: Crohn’s is like a rollercoaster… you can sit in the back seat with your eyes closed, terrified, wishing you had never boarded the train. Or… you can sit in the front seat with your eyes wide open, hands over your head, laughing and screaming in both terror AND exhilaration, and enjoy the ride. I choose the latter. Remember… you must be this tall to ride. SDB

The sad part is you don’t have to be this tall to ride — IBD, like most diseases, does not discriminate on the basis of age, sex, size, color of skin, hair or eyes, sexual orientation, etc. The statistics may show a little preference here and there, but that’s about it. Isn’t it interesting that diseases don’t discriminate so much, but people do? But for all our little ones out there suffering with IBD, let’s remember that these diseases are hard enough to cope with when you are an adult with adult experiences, coping mechanisms and support systems. How much harder must it be for a child? love, steve preferred e-mail address: without the "SPAM," of course! HOME: http://www.digdat.com/~psyche0/index.html ASCC: http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/Falls/3298/

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Great point of view!!  I know many think I have lost it since I tend to laugh at a lot of what we have to endure with Crohn’s.  But at that point I just usually ask them, "What are my options here??"  I choose to have control by not letting all the terror and strife of Crohn’s control what I may decide to do. Afterall:   Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become!! Paula – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -The moral of this story is this: Crohn’s is like a rollercoaster… you can sit in the back seat with your eyes closed, terrified, wishing you had never boarded the train. Or… you can sit in the front seat with your eyes wide open, hands over your head, laughing and screaming in both terror AND exhilaration, and enjoy the ride. I choose the latter. Remember… you must be this tall to ride. SDB

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I’ve was diagnosed with Crohn’s in 1984, but I’m positive it started to rear it’s ugly head in 1980 when my first child was born (I was 19). I have to agree with Mary Ann. You can let it control your life or you can control your life with it. You never have complete control over it (Crohn’s… and life for that matter). I have managed to find a doctor who helps me control the symptoms. I control my attitude. I think that has been my number one treatment. I decided early on that I was not going to let this thing get the best of me. I surf (in the ocean and on the net). I play racquetball once a week. I work full time and I still feel like I’m 18. Sure I have my bad days with pain, bleeding, nausea, etc. But I also have good days. While groups like this are very good and helpful. When a newbie comes in for the first time, he or she will read all the posts that talk about Surgery, FM, Bleeding, Pain, Cramps and it gets kinda scary. But remember, when we are feeling good, we tend not to have time to post here, because we are out living our lives. Crohn’s is not a death sentence. For me, it is a blessing and a curse. I have met some wonderful people and experienced some wonderful things in my life that I know I would not have experienced had I not had Crohn’s. I’ve had some pretty rough times too. The moral of this story is this: Crohn’s is like a rollercoaster… you can sit in the back seat with your eyes closed, terrified, wishing you had never boarded the train. Or… you can sit in the front seat with your eyes wide open, hands over your head, laughing and screaming in both terror AND exhilaration, and enjoy the ride. I choose the latter. Remember… you must be this tall to ride. SDB

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi, Don I’m a newbie, too.  I was diagnosed with Crohn’s in the middle of November, spent ten days in hospital (no surgery), and am scheduled to return to work in January.  I’m on Prednisone and Salofalk and am recuperating really well. What does it mean to my life?  I’ve spent a lot of time since getting home researching on the ‘net, and devouring all the literature we could find on inflammatory bowel diseases.  The oddest thing to me is redefining myself as someone with a chronic disease.  Who, me?  But I’m the super healthy one!  I bike ride, I sail, I walk miles everyday. I saw a poster for fund raising for a Crohn’s/Colitis foundation and realized I was, for the first time, designated as being on the receiving end of the giving, rather than on the giving end. After much internal debate, I’m just getting on with daily living, while paying very careful attention to getting very good nourishment for body and soul.  And looking forward to a great sailing season next summer, even though there is a windchill today of minus 23….. Cathryn Hello,        I just found this place.  I just got diagnosed with crohns on Dec. 1. Two weeks latter I was being rushed into surgery.  I have been sitting around tring to figure things out, like what this means to the rest of my life.  I am on Prednisone and Pentasa.  My sister also has cd, she had an operation about 3 years ago.        O well, hello everyone,        Don

Hi Don (& Cathy, too)       I have had crohns for over 25 years..although I didn’t get officially diagnosed until 8 years ago…I am like Cathy….I love to dance..and although I have a myriad of auto-immune diseases, including crohns…I try hard not to let it control me…I love to dance….I taught dancing…and I still dance at least twice a week…sometimes more…I used to dance 5 nights a week…I have arthritis…(my toes are starting to "turn up"..they are injecting them with prednisone…OUCH!!!!)…they told me 13 years ago..that I would end up in a wheelchair and be lucky if I could "dress and feed myself"…I left a 31 year marriage to a controlling man…I left ..sick..with no job…and I still dance…(I’m the one with the big smile on her face on the dancefloor…I’m the one who "refuses" to sit down in a damn wheelchair..they will take me kicking and screaming"!!!!!  Don’t let this disease control you….be strong…be positive, be informed..be a fighter..this is my best advice…Welcome to the group….Love, Mary Ann B

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Hello,    I just found this place.  I just got diagnosed with crohns on Dec. 1. Two weeks latter I was being rushed into surgery.  I have been sitting around tring to figure things out, like what this means to the rest of my life.  I am on Prednisone and Pentasa.  My sister also has cd, she had an operation about 3 years ago.    O well, hello everyone,    Don

Welcome to the group, Don! I know this sounds trite, but the reason it does is because there is a certain amount of truth to it — a good deal of what this means to the rest of your life depends upon what you choose to allow it to mean to the rest of your life. Attitude plays a big factor. And yes, I am the same guy who has been whining and wailing about the damn disease coming back after my first three month remission in years and mood swings caused by the prednisone! Hey, we all have our bad moments! And this is one of mine! My point is that CD has changed my life drastically. I cannot work any longer after 15 years of nearly continuous disease activity and all the steroid use. I have some real limits on my physical abilities in general. And it plays havoc with the emotions — especially with steroids to help give them a push! But I haven’t given up — not by a long shot. I cannot be a professional counselor anymore, but I can reach out to people with IBD and help them learn to cope, and learn from them as well — as it happens! I can still fight IBD by participating in studies for new drugs — which is what led to my all-too-brief remission. I can still make friends — and I have made several lifetime’s worth here. And I can still be a man with my lover, and when you’ve got great friends, someone who loves you and the ability to help others, you got a whole helluva lot! And just think, we here are the hard-core crohnies — I’m told that there are a whole world of crohnies out there who manage to live reasonably normal lives with long and frequent remissions. I even have a close friend with UC who lives that way, and has for years! What does it mean to the rest of your life? It means you got a chronic condition that may require treatment and special needs at times for the rest of your life. Kind of like life itself, wouldn’t you say? love & well-wishes, steve preferred e-mail address: without the "SPAM," of course! HOME: http://www.digdat.com/~psyche0/index.html ASCC: http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/Falls/3298/

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Hello,         I just found this place.  I just got diagnosed with crohns on Dec. 1. Two weeks latter I was being rushed into surgery.  I have been sitting around tring to figure things out, like what this means to the rest of my life.  I am on Prednisone and Pentasa.  My sister also has cd, she had an operation about 3 years ago.         O well, hello everyone,         Don

Hello Don!!! I am glad you found us!!!  You have just met a wonderful bunch of people who are willine to "listen and help"..and who truly "understand how you feel"!!!!  Tell us more about yourself!!!  I live in northeastern Pennsylvania…I have had crohns for 29 years..along with many auto immune diseases….I don’t let it stop me…I went dancing tonight!   I taught dancing for about 5 years and now I dance for my own pleasure about 3 nites a week…east coast swing, west coast swing, country..whatever…I also applied for disability…I couldn’t sustain employment…I am battling obstruction problems at the moment…I had diarrhea for 28 years and constipation the past year…I also was diagnosed with narrowing in three spots last December!!!  Everyone with crohns disease presents different symptoms…so don’t be "freaked out" by what you read here..some crohns patients have one or two flares and then nothing…no symptoms…everyone is different!!!!…Welcome and Happy Holidays!!!!  Mary Ann B

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O well, hello everyone,    Don

Hello Don and welcome to the group! Jan…  

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After much internal debate, I’m just getting on with daily living, while paying very careful attention to getting very good nourishment for body and soul. And looking forward to a great sailing season next summer, even though there is a windchill today of minus 23…..

Cathryn, what a wonderful outlook you have, God bless you. Jan…  

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Hi, Don I’m a newbie, too.  I was diagnosed with Crohn’s in the middle of November, spent ten days in hospital (no surgery), and am scheduled to return to work in January.  I’m on Prednisone and Salofalk and am recuperating really well. What does it mean to my life?  I’ve spent a lot of time since getting home researching on the ‘net, and devouring all the literature we could find on inflammatory bowel diseases.  The oddest thing to me is redefining myself as someone with a chronic disease.  Who, me?  But I’m the super healthy one!  I bike ride, I sail, I walk miles everyday. I saw a poster for fund raising for a Crohn’s/Colitis foundation and realized I was, for the first time, designated as being on the receiving end of the giving, rather than on the giving end. After much internal debate, I’m just getting on with daily living, while paying very careful attention to getting very good nourishment for body and soul.  And looking forward to a great sailing season next summer, even though there is a windchill today of minus 23….. Cathryn – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Hello,        I just found this place.  I just got diagnosed with crohns on Dec. 1. Two weeks latter I was being rushed into surgery.  I have been sitting around tring to figure things out, like what this means to the rest of my life.  I am on Prednisone and Pentasa.  My sister also has cd, she had an operation about 3 years ago.        O well, hello everyone,        Don

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Hello,         I just found this place.  I just got diagnosed with crohns on Dec. 1. Two weeks latter I was being rushed into surgery.  I have been sitting around tring to figure things out, like what this means to the rest of my life.  I am on Prednisone and Pentasa.  My sister also has cd, she had an operation about 3 years ago.         O well, hello everyone,         Don

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Hi Don Ask your doc for any info on the crohns foundation, etc.  Join!  There is a quarterly letter that always has good info in it.  Also, the ccfa can give you info to get books on the ibds which are invaluable resources for info.  I have several and they get read and re read.  Many answers and explanations available. You very possible can get this episode under control and go into remission. You could go many yrs without any meds at all.  Crohn’s is a unique "animal".. Hard to say it will be thus and so for you.  So many variables.  Each person has to deal separately. What works for one may not for another. You can work until the ripe old age of ?? Not to get up tight about this – See what you really are dealing with first. This comes in all shapes, sizes, ages and degree of difficulty. Common ense is a great asset.  You will find that you can eat what someone else cannot, etc. I am 64yr grandmother visually diagnosed 5+ yrs ago via emergency surgery. Reobstructed and resection90 days later. Havehad colonscopy about 4 yrs ago. There is ulcerations is colon but I am maintained well on Pentasa and Quesran ( Ques – so I can be "socially acceptable" HaHa!) We have our own print business and I work every day.  Do have some fatifue but have learned that I do what I can and the rest just has to wait.  Gut is not giving me any problems other that the diarrhea which is helped by the aforementione questran.   Hopefully, you will be able to quit the prednisone before long and just coast with the Pentasa.  Good Luck

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I’m new here. -Guiltgal. &&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&& I like e-mail, so e-mail me!

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Hi there, and welcome to the bipolar club. Pay no attention to the bona fide loonies that no medication will help (Sam Moser being among them) or who refuse to seek treatment (see prior comment). Next thing you need to do is fix your address. As it stands right now, you will inevitably get a lot of junk mail. Scramble your address that you post with (you should be able to do that in Properties under your newsreader) or get a valid address with Hotmail that you don’t mind giving up. Otherwise you’ll be spammed, simply by virtue of posting. Once you’ve done all that, on behalf of us bipolar folks, welcome to the ahh…club…and we hope you’ll be able to find solace, healing, and friendship. — <<  Too much spam – no more regular email <<  Reply To: lscarberry at hotmail dot com    Lumber Cartel Member # 1571               <<

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LOVE YOUR NAME, This is the most idiotic of all forums that I can imagine…. if you are bored, insomniac, or want to pause from lengthy searches on topics of much more substance, you have found the place! Go Girl! LOL

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Once you’ve done all that, on behalf of us bipolar folks, welcome to the ahh…club…and we hope you’ll be able to find solace, healing, and friendship. —

CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT GUILTGAL?  THE AGE OF "HAL" IS HERE!  ALL WRAPPED INSIDE OF THIS TINY BOX ON THE DESK…. LOOK NO FURTHER!

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I also think it’s a cool name. Shiite, look at the moniker I chose <G !! Welcome to the show Guiltgal! P/H/L to all BPBoy

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hi, i have UC and so does my dad. while i take azthioprine, my dad takes sulphasalazine and his GI told him it can make you infertile while you take it, although this stops when you stop taking it. hope that helps Robert

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Thanks!  :) Angela

Start here which is the Crohn’s colitis foundation http://www.ccfa.org/ http://www.rxlist.com/cgi/generic/sulfasal_pi.htm  This has all sorts of links about his medication.  Or if you would like the main link for this site is  http://www.rxlist.com/

http://www.medbroadcast.com/health_topics/health_conditions/inflammat… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – el/index.shtml?gas_i_whatis.html  This should help you get started understanding the disease.  UM MOM Susan

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Your welcome!  I have Crohn’s disease but I am sure others will be along who have UC that can help you more than I have.  The main thing is to educate yourself because you will learn a lot.  I did and still do.  UM MOM Susan

Thanks!  :) Angela Start here which is the Crohn’s colitis foundation http://www.ccfa.org/ http://www.rxlist.com/cgi/generic/sulfasal_pi.htm  This has all sorts of links about his medication.  Or if you would like the main link for this site is  http://www.rxlist.com/

http://www.medbroadcast.com/health_topics/health_conditions/inflammat… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – el/index.shtml?gas_i_whatis.html  This should help you get started understanding the disease.  UM MOM Susan

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My husband had his colonoscopy done on Friday.  The doc’s nurse called back today (specialist) with the results of his biopsies and everything is considered "normal" whatever that means.  That’s good news. We talked about the medication and she is going to talk to the doctor about maybe switching him to something different while we are trying to get pregnant.  Will let you guys know how that turns out.  In the meantime I’m going to continue to read up and perhaps look forward to hearing other experiences that are similar to what we are going through. Thank You! :) Angela

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Your welcome!  I have Crohn’s disease but I am sure others will be along who have UC that can help you more than I have.  The main thing is to educate yourself because you will learn a lot.  I did and still do.  UM MOM Susan

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Ok . . . I found a web site for the medication that I was referring to: http://www.sulfasalazine.com/  . We are trying to get pregnant and this is what this particular web says: "Although side effects from sulfasalazine are not common, they can occur. Sulfasalazine causes temporary infertility in males. Fertility returns when the medicine is stopped. It can also cause your urine or skin to turn yellowish-orange; this effect is harmless." Has anybody out there dealt with having to be on the medicine permanently and successfully conceived a child? If so, what is your story and how did you handle this particular side effect? Thank you for your answers and your patience with me. We are learning about this and appreciate your comments. Sincerely, Angela

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Start here which is the Crohn’s colitis foundation http://www.ccfa.org/ http://www.rxlist.com/cgi/generic/sulfasal_pi.htm  This has all sorts of links about his medication.  Or if you would like the main link for this site is  http://www.rxlist.com/ http://www.medbroadcast.com/health_topics/health_conditions/inflammat… el/index.shtml?gas_i_whatis.html  This should help you get started understanding the disease.  UM MOM Susan

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am new to this group but trying to find out as much information as I can about ulcerative colitis.  I have joined several groups and noted that there weren’t too many links to go on so I opted to search out the messages in hope of additional information. My husband recently had a colonoscopy done.  To make a long story short he was told that he had to take Sulfasalazine:  http://www.sulfasalazine.com/ for the rest of his life.  I was told that they did not find any polyps, growths, or blockage, but that he has inflammation.  They took a biopsy of the inflammation and we should be getting the results back in a couple of days. I do not know much about ulcerative colitis so I did ask the doctor what would happen if he didn’t take the meds and the doctor told me that he could lose his colon.  That sort of put things into perspective for me.  Is there anybody out there that is experiencing ulcerative colitis with these types of conditions?  The only thing that had alerted my husband he might be having problems is that he had been experiencing some bleeding.  The medication seems to be helping. Another thing that my doctor said is that one of the side effects from the medication is that it lowers sperm count. Has anybody out there experienced the knowledge of this fact?  I am having difficulties finding information that support this theory. Thank you for your patience . . . I have much to learn. I’m looking forward to your responses. Merry CHRISTmas!

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I am new to this group but trying to find out as much information as I can about ulcerative colitis.  I have joined several groups and noted that there weren’t too many links to go on so I opted to search out the messages in hope of additional information. My husband recently had a colonoscopy done.  To make a long story short he was told that he had to take Sulfasalazine:  http://www.sulfasalazine.com/ for the rest of his life.  I was told that they did not find any polyps, growths, or blockage, but that he has inflammation.  They took a biopsy of the inflammation and we should be getting the results back in a couple of days. I do not know much about ulcerative colitis so I did ask the doctor what would happen if he didn’t take the meds and the doctor told me that he could lose his colon.  That sort of put things into perspective for me.  Is there anybody out there that is experiencing ulcerative colitis with these types of conditions?  The only thing that had alerted my husband he might be having problems is that he had been experiencing some bleeding.  The medication seems to be helping. Another thing that my doctor said is that one of the side effects from the medication is that it lowers sperm count. Has anybody out there experienced the knowledge of this fact?  I am having difficulties finding information that support this theory. Thank you for your patience . . . I have much to learn. I’m looking forward to your responses. Merry CHRISTmas!

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I perceive cigarettes as ennabling. Anyone. Kristy of Mark and Kristy

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Yes, Those are a few moments of high quality reflection.  As a student/apprentice writer and someone who is always thinking, those moments are clear, focused, and calming. I believe that is key.  That was quite an insight. Thank you, Kristy – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Well, they make you stop to take a moment to think.  But they really don’t enable you to do anything.  They really don’t help you express anything. All you get from a cigarette is a few minutes of time to yourself to reflect.  Learn to take those few minutes without a smoke.  It isn’t easy but it is possible. wombat OF

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I perceive cigarettes as ennabling.

Well, they make you stop to take a moment to think.  But they really don’t enable you to do anything.  They really don’t help you express anything. All you get from a cigarette is a few minutes of time to yourself to reflect.  Learn to take those few minutes without a smoke.  It isn’t easy but it is possible. wombat OF

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Well, they make you stop to take a moment to think.  But they really don’t enable you to do anything.  They really don’t help you express anything. All you get from a cigarette is a few minutes of time to yourself to reflect.  Learn to take those few minutes without a smoke.  It isn’t easy but it is possible.

Never thought of it in that way, Wombat….I’ve always needed time for "me"…..moms’ quiet time….and cigs were part of that for 34 years. Now it’s like they don’t exist….my "quiet time" is just that….time for myself…no time for cigs…. Sally 1M3W6D+ – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -wombat OF

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Wombat, I havnt been tested yet, but I am pretty confident that I suffer ADD. Frequently disorganized and in need of "regrouping".  and a smoke break usually did that for me….afforded the few minutes it takes to rethink the next few upcoming events of the day and plan for handling them.  I used that need as an excuse to excuse myself and smoke.  Talk about symbiotic!  I don’t get the smoke break anymore, but I still grab a few moments of privacy to organize. Thanks for pointing this out. Jack

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Enabling what? If you post this type of question to be thought provoking, you are way off the mark. It’s about as deep as a puddle. Let’s try forming complete thoughts, eh?  -spiff Three weeks, two days, 8 hours, 47 minutes and 59 seconds. 467 cigarettes not smoked, saving $81.78. Life saved: 1 day, 14 hours, 55 minutes. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I perceive cigarettes as ennabling. Anyone. Kristy of Mark and Kristy

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We’ve heard that a million monkeys at a million keyboards could produce the Complete Works of Shakespeare; now, thanks to the Internet, we know that this is simply not true — Robert Wilensky, University of California – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Enabling what? If you post this type of question to be thought provoking, you are way off the mark. It’s about as deep as a puddle. Let’s try forming complete thoughts, eh? -spiff Three weeks, two days, 8 hours, 47 minutes and 59 seconds. 467 cigarettes not smoked, saving $81.78. Life saved: 1 day, 14 hours, 55 minutes. I perceive cigarettes as ennabling. Anyone. Kristy of Mark and Kristy

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Cigarettes are the drug. The enabler(s) would be the person(s) who makes it "okay" for you to smoke them. I would say that the long list of rationalizations that any one of us used to have at the ready were enabling… I’m not ready to quit, the time isn’t right. I’m still young, got plenty of time to quit. There’s just too much stress right now. How could I possibly when everyone around me is smoking? How could I possibly… I’m the last die-hard smoker there is! I still ‘love’ smoking. I tried, it’s just too hard. I love being a smoker, I meet really fun people at these smoking breaks. I learned my entirely laughable list from other smokers, and shared it whenever possible, thus enabling others, and enabling myself to continue in that false aura of camaraderie, and youth, and belonging, and rebellion. I was my own best "enabler." I finally just had to tell myself to shut up, so I could get on with this. MaryO In article < I perceive cigarettes as ennabling. Anyone. Kristy of Mark and Kristy

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Great quote and sooooo true.  -spiff – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – We’ve heard that a million monkeys at a million keyboards could produce the Complete Works of Shakespeare; now, thanks to the Internet, we know that this is simply not true — Robert Wilensky, University of California Enabling what? If you post this type of question to be thought provoking, you are way off the mark. It’s about as deep as a puddle. Let’s try forming complete thoughts, eh? -spiff Three weeks, two days, 8 hours, 47 minutes and 59 seconds. 467 cigarettes not smoked, saving $81.78. Life saved: 1 day, 14 hours, 55 minutes. I perceive cigarettes as ennabling. Anyone. Kristy of Mark and Kristy

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LOL!  :)(:  ! Kristy

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Hi Tim! Welcome aboard!  This is a great place and I think you’ll enjoy yourself!  We’re all pretty friendly (we do have a few twits) and if you get a chance – join a GGC — it’s really great! Gayle On 10 May 2001, Tim Meyer – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My name is Tim. I am from California and live in Columbia (SC). I love cruising with my wife and daughter which is now 6 years old. I also like ocean liners and their historys. – Tim Meyer

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Hi Jerek — or whoever you are pretending to be today! Gotcha!

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Karen, Who is Jerek and what’s this all about.  Sorry, but I have been away for a couple of months and lost track of what’s up in rtc. Dale – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Jerek — or whoever you are pretending to be today! Gotcha! Yup, Peek is right.  Jerek’s easy to spot. Karen                 __ /7__/7__/7__  ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::…       http://www.cupcaked.com/reviews (…and leave off the "potatoes" to e-mail)

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Well Karen, many thanks for the heads up notice. I created a group today and Ill watch out for him. usnuclearmissle is his screen name, yes? – Robert L. Macagno.

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usnuclearmissle is his screen name, yes?

That, and others… He apparantly changes them daily… Pam : ) Imagination 3/00 Ecstasy 9/00 Majesty OTS 10/00 Triumph 12/00 Radiance OTS 3/26/01 & 3/29/01 Crown Odyssey 6/24/01 Spirit  11/11/01 Sensation GGC 1/13/02 Sovereign OTS 3/24/02 Pride 11/2/02 Nordic Empress 6/93 Emerald Seas 6/83

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He’s also formed Yahoogroups for HAL, NCI, RCI, Seabourn, "The Navy" and probably many more.

He claimed (before being asked to leave) to belong to 102 groups.  I can’t see how it can be possible to keep up with that many groups!! Bernadette Inspiration 4/97 Sensation 9/98, 8/01,1/02 (The Official GGC2002) http://www.ggc2002.com Destiny 5/00 (The "Un-Cruise") Fascination 10/01 Pride 11/02 http://members.nbci.com/Liv2cruise/pride.htm

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This person seems…well I am not going to say since there are minors here Im sure. – Robert L. Macagno.

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My name is Tim. I am from California and live in Columbia (SC). I love cruising with my wife and daughter which is now 6 years old. I also like ocean liners and their historys. – Tim Meyer

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Hi Tim, Welcome to rec.travel.cruises.  Have you taken any cruises? Ermalee – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My name is Tim. I am from California and live in Columbia (SC). I love cruising with my wife and daughter which is now 6 years old. I also like ocean liners and their historys. – Tim Meyer

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Welcome.  What ships have you been on.  Which were your favorites. –Tom <—- who’s favorites include Galaxy, Ocean Princess, Century and Dawn Princess – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My name is Tim. I am from California and live in Columbia (SC). I love cruising with my wife and daughter which is now 6 years old. I also like ocean liners and their historys. – Tim Meyer

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I’d say this daughter hit the lucky jackpot with parents who love cruising.

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Ermalee, I have taken 9 cruises. 7 aboard Carnival and 2 on NCL – Norway. – Tim Meyer

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Great, Tim.  That’s a lot of cruise experience for such a ‘young’ guy.  Has your child gone on any of these?  What is your favorite ship so far?   Ermalee <—has a favorite or two – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Ermalee, I have taken 9 cruises. 7 aboard Carnival and 2 on NCL – Norway. – Tim Meyer

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I perceive cigarettes as ennabling. Anyone. Kristy of Mark and Kristy

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Yes, Those are a few moments of high quality reflection.  As a student/apprentice writer and someone who is always thinking, those moments are clear, focused, and calming. I believe that is key.  That was quite an insight. Thank you, Kristy – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Well, they make you stop to take a moment to think.  But they really don’t enable you to do anything.  They really don’t help you express anything. All you get from a cigarette is a few minutes of time to yourself to reflect.  Learn to take those few minutes without a smoke.  It isn’t easy but it is possible. wombat OF

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I perceive cigarettes as ennabling.

Well, they make you stop to take a moment to think.  But they really don’t enable you to do anything.  They really don’t help you express anything. All you get from a cigarette is a few minutes of time to yourself to reflect.  Learn to take those few minutes without a smoke.  It isn’t easy but it is possible. wombat OF

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Well, they make you stop to take a moment to think.  But they really don’t enable you to do anything.  They really don’t help you express anything. All you get from a cigarette is a few minutes of time to yourself to reflect.  Learn to take those few minutes without a smoke.  It isn’t easy but it is possible.

Never thought of it in that way, Wombat….I’ve always needed time for "me"…..moms’ quiet time….and cigs were part of that for 34 years. Now it’s like they don’t exist….my "quiet time" is just that….time for myself…no time for cigs…. Sally 1M3W6D+ – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -wombat OF

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Wombat, I havnt been tested yet, but I am pretty confident that I suffer ADD. Frequently disorganized and in need of "regrouping".  and a smoke break usually did that for me….afforded the few minutes it takes to rethink the next few upcoming events of the day and plan for handling them.  I used that need as an excuse to excuse myself and smoke.  Talk about symbiotic!  I don’t get the smoke break anymore, but I still grab a few moments of privacy to organize. Thanks for pointing this out. Jack

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I perceive cigarettes as ennabling. Well, they make you stop to take a moment to think.  But they really don’t enable you to do anything.  They really don’t help you express anything. All you get from a cigarette is a few minutes of time to yourself to reflect.  Learn to take those few minutes without a smoke.  It isn’t easy but it is possible. wombat OF

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Enabling what? If you post this type of question to be thought provoking, you are way off the mark. It’s about as deep as a puddle. Let’s try forming complete thoughts, eh?  -spiff Three weeks, two days, 8 hours, 47 minutes and 59 seconds. 467 cigarettes not smoked, saving $81.78. Life saved: 1 day, 14 hours, 55 minutes. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I perceive cigarettes as ennabling. Anyone. Kristy of Mark and Kristy

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We’ve heard that a million monkeys at a million keyboards could produce the Complete Works of Shakespeare; now, thanks to the Internet, we know that this is simply not true — Robert Wilensky, University of California – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Enabling what? If you post this type of question to be thought provoking, you are way off the mark. It’s about as deep as a puddle. Let’s try forming complete thoughts, eh? -spiff Three weeks, two days, 8 hours, 47 minutes and 59 seconds. 467 cigarettes not smoked, saving $81.78. Life saved: 1 day, 14 hours, 55 minutes. I perceive cigarettes as ennabling. Anyone. Kristy of Mark and Kristy

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Cigarettes are the drug. The enabler(s) would be the person(s) who makes it "okay" for you to smoke them. I would say that the long list of rationalizations that any one of us used to have at the ready were enabling… I’m not ready to quit, the time isn’t right. I’m still young, got plenty of time to quit. There’s just too much stress right now. How could I possibly when everyone around me is smoking? How could I possibly… I’m the last die-hard smoker there is! I still ‘love’ smoking. I tried, it’s just too hard. I love being a smoker, I meet really fun people at these smoking breaks. I learned my entirely laughable list from other smokers, and shared it whenever possible, thus enabling others, and enabling myself to continue in that false aura of camaraderie, and youth, and belonging, and rebellion. I was my own best "enabler." I finally just had to tell myself to shut up, so I could get on with this. MaryO In article < I perceive cigarettes as ennabling. Anyone. Kristy of Mark and Kristy

Before you buy.

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Great quote and sooooo true.  -spiff – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – We’ve heard that a million monkeys at a million keyboards could produce the Complete Works of Shakespeare; now, thanks to the Internet, we know that this is simply not true — Robert Wilensky, University of California Enabling what? If you post this type of question to be thought provoking, you are way off the mark. It’s about as deep as a puddle. Let’s try forming complete thoughts, eh? -spiff Three weeks, two days, 8 hours, 47 minutes and 59 seconds. 467 cigarettes not smoked, saving $81.78. Life saved: 1 day, 14 hours, 55 minutes. I perceive cigarettes as ennabling. Anyone. Kristy of Mark and Kristy

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LOL!  :)(:  ! Kristy

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Great quote and sooooo true.  -spiff

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Hi Tim! Welcome aboard!  This is a great place and I think you’ll enjoy yourself!  We’re all pretty friendly (we do have a few twits) and if you get a chance – join a GGC — it’s really great! Gayle On 10 May 2001, Tim Meyer – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My name is Tim. I am from California and live in Columbia (SC). I love cruising with my wife and daughter which is now 6 years old. I also like ocean liners and their historys. – Tim Meyer

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Hi Jerek — or whoever you are pretending to be today! Gotcha!

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Karen, Who is Jerek and what’s this all about.  Sorry, but I have been away for a couple of months and lost track of what’s up in rtc. Dale – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Jerek — or whoever you are pretending to be today! Gotcha! Yup, Peek is right.  Jerek’s easy to spot. Karen                 __ /7__/7__/7__  ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::…       http://www.cupcaked.com/reviews (…and leave off the "potatoes" to e-mail)

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Well Karen, many thanks for the heads up notice. I created a group today and Ill watch out for him. usnuclearmissle is his screen name, yes? – Robert L. Macagno.

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usnuclearmissle is his screen name, yes?

That, and others… He apparantly changes them daily… Pam : ) Imagination 3/00 Ecstasy 9/00 Majesty OTS 10/00 Triumph 12/00 Radiance OTS 3/26/01 & 3/29/01 Crown Odyssey 6/24/01 Spirit  11/11/01 Sensation GGC 1/13/02 Sovereign OTS 3/24/02 Pride 11/2/02 Nordic Empress 6/93 Emerald Seas 6/83

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He’s also formed Yahoogroups for HAL, NCI, RCI, Seabourn, "The Navy" and probably many more.

He claimed (before being asked to leave) to belong to 102 groups.  I can’t see how it can be possible to keep up with that many groups!! Bernadette Inspiration 4/97 Sensation 9/98, 8/01,1/02 (The Official GGC2002) http://www.ggc2002.com Destiny 5/00 (The "Un-Cruise") Fascination 10/01 Pride 11/02 http://members.nbci.com/Liv2cruise/pride.htm

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This person seems…well I am not going to say since there are minors here Im sure. – Robert L. Macagno.

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My name is Tim. I am from California and live in Columbia (SC). I love cruising with my wife and daughter which is now 6 years old. I also like ocean liners and their historys. – Tim Meyer

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Hi Tim, Welcome to rec.travel.cruises.  Have you taken any cruises? Ermalee – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My name is Tim. I am from California and live in Columbia (SC). I love cruising with my wife and daughter which is now 6 years old. I also like ocean liners and their historys. – Tim Meyer

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Welcome.  What ships have you been on.  Which were your favorites. –Tom <—- who’s favorites include Galaxy, Ocean Princess, Century and Dawn Princess – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My name is Tim. I am from California and live in Columbia (SC). I love cruising with my wife and daughter which is now 6 years old. I also like ocean liners and their historys. – Tim Meyer

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I’d say this daughter hit the lucky jackpot with parents who love cruising.

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Ermalee, I have taken 9 cruises. 7 aboard Carnival and 2 on NCL – Norway. – Tim Meyer

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Great, Tim.  That’s a lot of cruise experience for such a ‘young’ guy.  Has your child gone on any of these?  What is your favorite ship so far?   Ermalee <—has a favorite or two – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Ermalee, I have taken 9 cruises. 7 aboard Carnival and 2 on NCL – Norway. – Tim Meyer

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Support and understanding with Crohn`s

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Hi Sylvie, I also have Crohn’s … I also have a 10 year old daughter, and I have had Crohn’s since before she was born.  I have also been a single parent from the time she was born, up until 3 years ago when my husband and I got together. I had to have a resection when my daughter was 2 years old.  It was very tough on her and tough on me.  Lucky for me I had her Mammie and Pappy (who aren’t blood related but have treated both of us better than my family ever has). Anyway, she is now 10 and couldn’t be more supportive of me and what goes on with me.  I have however from the get go, if i am having a flare up … I tell her I am having one … i have also told her that it is not her fault that I don’t feel so good. The suggestion that you see if there is a support group for you and fiancee’ and daughter to go to with you is a good one.  The other suggestion for you fiancee to read this NG himself and then perhaps post questions he may have was also a good one. I’ve never gotten the take a walk spiel though, although I think my husband would know the answer he’d get. Don’t feel like such a complainer … you didn’t ask to have Crohn’s and it is very draining, physically, mentally and emotionally.  The NG here is a good way to get what you’re feeling out and there are many of us that wouldn’t mind if you emailed us personally just to chat.  And I’m sure if you Fiancee’ would need a man to talk to that lives with a female that has Crohn’s my husband would be more than willing to talk with him.  ;0) Take care Robin – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi, This is my first time posting a message.  I was diagnosed with Crohn`s 1 year ago.  My fiance and my daughter have been very supportive, but now when I`m in pain, I feel so alone.  They sort of ignore me. (I can understand that it is normal, but still adds more stress to the situation).   I`m tired of seeing doctors.  I`m scared sometimes and cry non stop.   I also have an irretable colon, which they can`t do anything about that.  I work 3 days a week and the other 2 days I`m on disability.  I am very tired after a work day, but no one seems to understand that I really do not have the energy physically and mentally to do stuff after work. Ex:  Oh – a little walk won`t hurt you!  I feel like such a complainer. Can anyone give me advice? Thanks in advance. Sylvie

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Hi, My name is Cathy and I have crohn’s.When I was diagnosed just like so mny people, I did not know what the doctor was talking about. How do you even spell Crohn’s I remember thinking to myself. I f people hear you have diabetes , heart problems, asthma, cancer, you have their attention.Crohn’s and uc are disabling diseases, they are extremely painful and even embarassing . But we are very strong people in our minds, our way o thinking, is to go on with it. People do not understand this disease, because honestly, they never heard of it.Then the drugs mask the way you feel, prednisone will make you look seemingly healthy, meanwhile You are exhausted from it.The chemo drugs being used today 6mp methatrixate, cyclosrporine etc also knock you for a loop, adding more weight thick stomachs, you look healthy enough, but are feeling so sick ,so tired ,so weak, so  lonely.When you start excepting your disease your family will also, you must remember they are more  ignornat about this than you are. Crohn’s and uc are a learning process disease, every day you learn something else . We are all here for you and any one of us will help any way we can, let your fiance read some of what is posted let them see what is going on. My daughter read some and stopped at the 6 yr. old in terrible pain post. She wants to help. she wants to make the public aware of a dreadful problem, share this information  with her. Pleasecontact the Crohn’s Colitis Foundation at 386 Park Ave. South,17th floor New York New york 10016 or 800-932-2423 or God Bless and best to you Cathy      

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Hi Sylvie, Sounds like you have gotten some good advise so far.  I just wanted to write and encourage you to hang in there.  It is tough at first for the family to adjust but over time they should.  I had a similar problem when I was diagnosed 7 yrs ago with UC.  Had a bad flare due to wrong medication (long story) and was in the bathroom  allot and in pain, not to mention the tiredness, plus had a husband and a very active one yr old to care for.  My husband did not understand and would get frustrated cause I was "on the pot" so much but you wouldn’t know it now cause they (husband and now 4 kids) understand when mom is in pain and has to use the bathroom allot.  It’s just a regular part of their lives now.  My husband is very supportive and understanding now.  I mean sure he has a cranky day every once in awhile but I don’t take it personally.  I think it is always an adjustment and takes time when a family member is diagnosed with a disease. Tracy – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Can anyone give me advice? Thanks in advance. Sylvie

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Hi, This is my first time posting a message.  I was diagnosed with Crohn`s 1 year ago.  My fiance and my daughter have been very supportive, but now when I`m in pain, I feel so alone.  They sort of ignore me. (I can understand that it is normal, but still adds more stress to the situation).   I`m tired of seeing doctors.  I`m scared sometimes and cry non stop.   I also have an irretable colon, which they can`t do anything about that.  I work 3 days a week and the other 2 days I`m on disability.  I am very tired after a work day, but no one seems to understand that I really do not have the energy physically and mentally to do stuff after work. Ex:  Oh – a little walk won`t hurt you!  I feel like such a complainer. Can anyone give me advice? Thanks in advance. Sylvie

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benefits

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Angela, I can only tell you my experience. In august of 1997 I got very sick (my second experience) I went to the hospital and it was then that I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease. After about two months my Gi finally got it under control (temporarilly) I could not work I then applied for disability. I filled out all their paperwork and all I could do was wait.  One day I got tired of waiting and called them.  To my surprise  I was approved for SSD. Keep the faith. Lots of Luck to you! Donna

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Nick I was approved for SSD in January this year.  I don’t know what the magic words were when Disability called my GI but my GI told me that SSD asked him if I was really sick and my GI told him we HONESTLY do not have this under control.  Keep the faith and Lots of Luck!  Donna

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Robin don’t ever give up this is what they want. You are not fighting a lost cause I have Crohns and I was recently approved for SSD How many bussinesses do you know that will hire a Crohnie with all the time we spend in the hospital we have enough to worry about fight them! We deserve it!  Be well and Keep the faith.    Donna

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Ditto, to Donna"s reply, a crohnie cannot possibly work.Today, an employer is not interested in health problems, and would never go along with on going absenteeism. FIGHT! cathy

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Beware signing anything! I was laidoff after UC surgery and my disability insurance (paid for for 12 yrs) was simply cancelled upon termination of job. When I tried to discuss this withj a hospital social worker, he said I should look into hospice plans since I’d obviously never work again.  This advice was a crock, but it seemed to be the norm!  I was NOT dying–they just wanted to shuffle me off when there was a threat that my insurance would end (which it di with my layoff). JC

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It is my understanding that CCFA does not want Crohns defined as a disability.  Has anyone else heard this?         Ken – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – hi! i was wondering, if you don’t care that i ask? are you recieving anything from social security? (money wise). because i had applied for social security benefits. i am waiting to see if i approve. but a few people told me that it will be hard for me to be approved. because they say that crohn’s isn’t considered a disability. i don’t know if they just didn’t want me to apply, or they are afaid i might get approved. and that will make them look like fools. if you can write back it will be well appreciated.                           Sincerely,                             Angela

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I was turned down twice, also, but I hired an attorney, who did all of the leg work. Keep track of your doctors visits, who/what/where/when, type of stuff. The more paperwork you provide, the better. After a Social Security court date, if you can prove disability, Crohn’s or Colitis, then the judge "should" grant you SSI disability. :hi! i was wondering, if you don’t care that i ask? are you recieving :anything from social security? (money wise). because i had applied for :social security benefits. i am waiting to see if i approve. but a few :people told me that it will be hard for me to be approved. because :they say that crohn’s isn’t considered a disability. i don’t know if :they just didn’t want me to apply, or they are afaid i might get :approved. and that will make them look like fools. if you can write :back it will be well appreciated. : : :                          Sincerely, :                            Angela

I to am having a great deal of difficulty Getting SSI to Assist me.  I have filled out the 100 pages of forms and questioniers so far.  My dotors are on my side on this one,,, my Chrohns is coming out of remission and the government doesnt want to hear it.  I am hurting both Physically  and now mentally.  I just cant win. Can any one tell me of their success story on how or what the magic words should be, in the doctors reports, to help us along. In Pain, Nick

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writes: I’ve given up on SSI.  I was denied twice now, and tired of fighting for it. Robin

That’s what they want — for you to die or give up.  Don’t let them screw you. Kathi

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hi! i was wondering, if you don’t care that i ask? are you recieving anything from social security? (money wise). because i had applied for social security benefits. i am waiting to see if i approve. but a few people told me that it will be hard for me to be approved. because they say that crohn’s isn’t considered a disability. i don’t know if they just didn’t want me to apply, or they are afaid i might get approved. and that will make them look like fools. if you can write back it will be well appreciated.                           Sincerely,                             Angela

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hi! i was wondering, if you don’t care that i ask? are you recieving anything from social security? (money wise). because i had applied for social security benefits. i am waiting to see if i approve. but a few people told me that it will be hard for me to be approved. because they say that crohn’s isn’t considered a disability. i don’t know if they just didn’t want me to apply, or they are afaid i might get approved. and that will make them look like fools. if you can write back it will be well appreciated.                           Sincerely,                             Angela

Social Security is quite a process in some cases you may have to get a lawyer! But don’t give up! You have a debilitating disease and they will take care of you if you can prove that you are TOTALLY disabled. This may be a problem for us with this disease but not an impossibility! David Liedtke

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I’ve given up on SSI.  I was denied twice now, and tired of fighting for it. Robin – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – hi! i was wondering, if you don’t care that i ask? are you recieving anything from social security? (money wise). because i had applied for social security benefits. i am waiting to see if i approve. but a few people told me that it will be hard for me to be approved. because they say that crohn’s isn’t considered a disability. i don’t know if they just didn’t want me to apply, or they are afaid i might get approved. and that will make them look like fools. if you can write back it will be well appreciated.                           Sincerely,                             Angela

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I have heard of a program offered by Proctor and Gamble where they will provide medication for up to one year . this requires the help of your doctor to fill out the required forms etc. This is for asacol users.

has anyone with crohn’s or colitis recieved any type of help ? for example like money to help with medicine or anything else? having difficult financial .                           Sincerely,                             Angela

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I do not know what your income is, however, I was in a terrible mess, I went to the local clinic, there I could receive medicines, while I went there I had applied for social security disability, and general help from social service, when I had o be hospitalized SLH(state local hospitalization) took care of that bill.Once I was approved for disability (getting approved and getting money are two different things) I then received medicaid until s.s. award, with that came Healthkeepers plus ,that is still through social service you must be proven disabled. They take care of it all, thank god, my one prescrption is $420.a mo. I was in the middle of a divorce, and money was a myth, so call your local clnic, they can send you in some direction. Yes Crohn’s is quite expensive. If that does not work try the Crohn’s Colitis Foundation in N.Y.. Be well, we have enough to contend with , without           wondering how we can afford to be sick. Cathy

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Have you tried to see if you are eligible for Medicaid? Know the feeling, I have gone without my pentasa for about 2 weeks now. Robin – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – has anyone with crohn’s or colitis recieved any type of help ? for example like money to help with medicine or anything else? having difficult financial .                           Sincerely,                             Angela

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has anyone with crohn’s or colitis recieved any type of help ? for example like money to help with medicine or anything else? having difficult financial .                           Sincerely,                             Angela

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I just woke up. I never got dressed today. Well, I did, but then got undressed. I wasn’t fooling anyone — not me. I was never going to go out. I’m wasting another summer of my shortening life hiding indoors like a mole. Only to dream of you, the one I love. And the one I can’t have. — For more information about this service, send e-mail to:

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Hi Falcon. Have you been lurking here for a while, or did you find our group recently? Falcon’s a promising nick. GreyAdagio (posted & emailed) I just woke up. I never got dressed today. Well, I did, but then got undressed. I wasn’t fooling anyone — not me. I was never going to go out. I’m wasting another summer of my shortening life hiding indoors like a mole. Only to dream of you, the one I love. And the one I can’t have.

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writes: I just woke up. I never got dressed today. Well, I did, but then got undressed. I wasn’t fooling anyone — not me. I was never going to go out. I’m wasting another summer of my shortening life hiding indoors like a mole. Only to dream of you, the one I love. And the one I can’t have.

Hi Falcon, Haven’t seen you here before…so welcome!!!..you’ll like it here, we’re a great group….. Cece    /–”"–/_,,,,,,,___,,        /)         .(_Y_.)//’  ._   )  `._ `. “-..-’ (());-”  (())-,’     {{{.-’           Le Chat X-no archive: yes in headers

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Hi Falcon. Have you been lurking here for a while, or did you find our group recently? Falcon’s a promising nick.

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Hi Howard,  Welcome in, have a seat and let us hear from you when you are ready.                  Penny – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi everybody! Howard — "x-no-archive: yes" followed by a blank line: tells some newsgroup archiving websites like DejaNews to not archive posts. This statement at the top of the post helps to protect people’s privacy.

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I’m back.  A little worse for wear.   It’s been rough.  But just in cause some of you all missed me,  I’m back. in faith,   Cyndi When God sends the dawn – He sends it for all. – Cervantes     Faith in the future begets power in the present. – Max Lucado

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Well, hello Cyncyn. Good to see you back (where you belong). GreyAdagio I’m back.  A little worse for wear.   It’s been rough.  But just in cause some of you all missed me,  I’m back. in faith,  Cyndi When God sends the dawn – He sends it for all. – Cervantes     Faith in the future begets power in the present. – Max Lucado

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Yes Cyndi, I missed you very much, hope things are a little better now, and that you can stay awhile now. And if you like pitt has a truckload of M&Ms if you want some.                  Penny – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I’m back.  A little worse for wear.   It’s been rough.  But just in cause some of you all missed me,  I’m back. in faith,   Cyndi When God sends the dawn – He sends it for all. – Cervantes     Faith in the future begets power in the present. – Max Lucado

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I’m back.  A little worse for wear.   It’s been rough.  But just in cause some of you all missed me,  I’m back. in faith,  Cyndi

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I’m back.  A little worse for wear.   It’s been rough.  But just in cause some of you all missed me,  I’m back. in faith,   Cyndi When God sends the dawn – He sends it for all. – Cervantes Faith in the future begets power in the present. – Max Lucado

I missed you Cyndi, and I was worried. Thank you for posting this…. Love ya, Ann xx

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About what? Asthma?

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ROFLMAO!!!  Made me laugh so hard I coughed!!! -Joopie

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife was diagnosed as asthmatic in 1996 and started the slippery slope of one inhaler becoming four, and one puff becoming likewise.  In the spring of this year she started attending the Chi Centre in London, UK and has not looked back.  They specialise in authentic Chinese treatments – attacking the cause rather than the symptoms.  By brewing up varying concoctions (combinations of herbs, twigs and so on) one creates a tea which is imbibed a set number of times per day/week. My wife no longer regularly uses an inhaler and is currently "being weened off" the tea.  She is happier and brighter than she has been for years. The cost of the treatment is also not prohibited and they are members of the various regulatory associations. If there is a similar establishment near to your niece she may wish to check it out.  The tea’s pretty disgusting to start with but the effects are staggering.

I gather your wife had a specially prescribed tea made up of herbs selected for the particular types of imbalance/disharmonies her body had. I have not had this, but I have heard folks say that the effects can be pretty amazing, in spite of the disgusting taste. :) It is just hard to find someone who has the ability to prescribe in this manner. The idea in traditional chinese medicine is that each person is unique so their treatment (ie. the tea) needs to be unique. Common formulas may help some folks somewhat and not help others. "Side effects" are the result of a treatment that is not well suited to your needs. This is one area that western med does not address well…they pretty much view folks as the same and interchangeable. How long was it until they realized that they needed to do studies on women because women can differ from men in their reaction to some treatments? ..diane

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My wife was diagnosed as asthmatic in 1996 and started the slippery slope of one inhaler becoming four, and one puff becoming likewise.  In the spring of this year she started attending the Chi Centre in London, UK and has not looked back.  They specialise in authentic Chinese treatments – attacking the cause rather than the symptoms.  By brewing up varying concoctions (combinations of herbs, twigs and so on) one creates a tea which is imbibed a set number of times per day/week.

I would advise that anybody contemplating using Chinese herbal remedies do some very carefull checking into what drugs are in the herbs.  Not only do Chinese herbal remedies rely on powerfull stimulants for thier effects, but many of them are adulterated with prescription drugs. Last year the Chinese herb ‘ephedra’ killed 47 and hospitalised over 800 people in the US.  You have to remember that herbs are drugs – and share all the dangers of drugs that have not been trested for safety and are prescribed by people not trained in thier dangers.

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My wife was diagnosed as asthmatic in 1996 and started the slippery slope of one inhaler becoming four, and one puff becoming likewise.  In the spring of this year she started attending the Chi Centre in London, UK and has not looked back.  They specialise in authentic Chinese treatments – attacking the cause rather than the symptoms.  By brewing up varying concoctions (combinations of herbs, twigs and so on) one creates a tea which is imbibed a set number of times per day/week. My wife no longer regularly uses an inhaler and is currently "being weened off" the tea.  She is happier and brighter than she has been for years. The cost of the treatment is also not prohibited and they are members of the various regulatory associations. If there is a similar establishment near to your niece she may wish to check it out.  The tea’s pretty disgusting to start with but the effects are staggering. Best of luck – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Is this a support group for asthmatic people? I have a niece who have asthma. Are there any alternative therapies beside the usual prescribed medications given by MDs? Thanks.

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If you read my message (and included the full message rather than only part of it), it is pretty evident as my reply was self-explanatory. ..diane – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – CBI, M.D. I have been reading this ng for several months and I have read very few, if any, people claiming to cure asthma. You are not paying attention  – <and bickering. The most alternative (non-med/surgery) things drs prescribe is improving diet, increasing exercise, and stop smoking, drinking, etc. The above is a unfounded claim…which is what the writer was warning you to beware of. <Bicker The major rule about any kind of treatment, conventional or alternative, is "Buyer Beware". Forever yours in bickering ..diane

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I have been reading this ng for several months and I have read very few, if any, people claiming to cure asthma. You are not paying attention  – <and bickering. The most alternative (non-med/surgery) things drs prescribe is improving diet, increasing exercise, and stop smoking, drinking, etc. The above is a unfounded claim…which is what the writer was warning you to beware of. <Bicker The major rule about any kind of treatment, conventional or alternative, is "Buyer Beware". Forever yours in bickering ..diane

It believe that falsely appending someone’s name to something they did not write constitutes forgery, especially when it is done intentionally. And if someone will "stoop so low" as to forge another’s name on something, demonstrating falseness and intent to mislead, why should we believe anything they say and do? ..diane

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— CBI, M.D. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I have been reading this ng for several months and I have read very few, if any, people claiming to cure asthma. You are not paying attention  – <and bickering. The most alternative (non-med/surgery) things drs prescribe is improving diet, increasing exercise, and stop smoking, drinking, etc. The above is a unfounded claim…which is what the writer was warning you to beware of. <Bicker The major rule about any kind of treatment, conventional or alternative, is "Buyer Beware". Forever yours in bickering ..diane

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Actually, it is considered good etiquette to only repeat the part of the message to which you are referring. It saves space, download time, and is less confusing. I did read your message. It is not self evident. — Good Luck, CBI, M.D.

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I have been reading this ng for several months and I have read very few, if any, people claiming to cure asthma.

You are not paying attention  – <and bickering. The most alternative (non-med/surgery) things drs prescribe is improving diet, increasing exercise, and stop smoking, drinking, etc. The above is a unfounded claim…which is what the writer was warning you to beware of.

<Bicker The major rule about any kind of treatment, conventional or alternative, is "Buyer Beware".

Forever yours in bickering ..diane

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Is this a support group for asthmatic people? I have a niece who have asthma. Are there any alternative therapies beside the usual prescribed medications given by MDs? Thanks. Yes this is a support group.  If you are looking for advice, support and information here is the place to be. As for ‘alternative’ treatments: We have: People who claim to cure you by reducing your breathing. People who claim to cure you by feeding you seeds. People who claim to cure you by drinking water. People who claim to cure you by sticking needles in you. People who claim to cure you by announcing that "it is all in your head." People who claim to cure you by exposing you to a harmfull gas (ozone). People who claim to cure you by giving you herbs (many of which are dangerous).

I have been reading this ng for several months and I have read very few, if any, people claiming to cure asthma. One thing to consider – everything your doctor does is nothing more than ‘alternative’ treatments that have been demonstrated to be both safe and effective.

The most alternative (non-med/surgery) things drs prescribe is improving diet, increasing exercise, and stop smoking, drinking, etc. The above is a unfounded claim…which is what the writer was warning you to beware of. Anything that _works_ gets adopted by real doctors.

Maybe, if they know about it and they accept it. The major rule about ‘alternative’ medicine is: "Buyer Beware."

The major rule about any kind of treatment, conventional or alternative, is "Buyer Beware". ..diane

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Is this a support group for asthmatic people? I have a niece who have asthma. Are there any alternative therapies beside the usual prescribed medications given by MDs? Thanks.

You might check out the book "Winning the War Against Asthma and Allergies" by Ellen Cutler, DC. Her book website is http://www.thomson.com/allergy/index.html There are a lot of good asthma links there as well. Dr Cutler uses a technique called NAET (Nambudripad Allergy Elimination Technique) as the key part of her program to address allergies and asthma. NAET seems to clear your allergies, so that substances (ie. dust, smoke, perfume, etc) no longer trigger reactions…such as asthma attacks. The book contains a large section on NAET. With NAET you can also be tested and treated for things like cold, viruses, yeast, chemicals, perfumes, smoke, *your* air, *your* mold, etc. Some folks on the NAET list have mentioned that with NAET their need for medication (inhalers, etc) has been reduced. Someone mentioned that they no longer get an asthma attack when they get a cold. ..diane

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Is this a support group for asthmatic people? I have a niece who have asthma. Are there any alternative therapies beside the usual prescribed medications given by MDs? Thanks.

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Is this a support group for asthmatic people? I have a niece who have asthma. Are there any alternative therapies beside the usual prescribed medications given by MDs? Thanks.

Yes this is a support group.  If you are looking for advice, support and information here is the place to be. As for ‘alternative’ treatments: We have: People who claim to cure you by reducing your breathing. People who claim to cure you by feeding you seeds. People who claim to cure you by drinking water. People who claim to cure you by sticking needles in you. People who claim to cure you by announcing that "it is all in your head." People who claim to cure you by exposing you to a harmfull gas (ozone). People who claim to cure you by giving you herbs (many of which are dangerous). One thing to consider – everything your doctor does is nothing more than ‘alternative’ treatments that have been demonstrated to be both safe and effective.  Anything that _works_ gets adopted by real doctors. The major rule about ‘alternative’ medicine is: "Buyer Beware."

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It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve posted. I’ve been having alot of trouble with my leg swelling and paining and I thought it was due to edema. Carol urged me to go to the doctor which I did but he said it was just a skin infection and sent me home with an antibiotic. Well, the leg kept on swelling and hurting untill I could hardly stand it anymore so off to the ER. They did an ultrsound on my leg and found a blood clot in the back of the leg. I spent 5 days in that dreaded hospital. I have been so upset with the doctor for not taking precautions but they seem to know everything so it’s like "patient shut up, you don’t know anything". Just don’t know if it will do any good to find another doctor either. I’m mad at them all right now. There’s no need to take chances with a persons life and I feel this is what my doctor did.   Wondering if anybody here takes Coumadin?  I will have to take this med for atleast 6 months. Do they ever do surgey for blood clots in the leg? I hate to think that this clot will stauy in my leg until it dissolves. Barbara

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Damn! Barbara.  That was mighty bad luck. Mom had clots in her legs and has been on Coumadin for quite some time.  FWIU, surgery is an option, but it is usually riskier than drug therapies.  During surgery the clot may dislodge.  I am not a medical professional, so take my words without much weight. This site might help you to understand the benefits and risks of Coumadin, and the precautions you should be taking:         http://www.coumadin.com/ Before I close I want to talk about your relationship with your doctor.  A GP (General Practitioner) is just that.  A Jack-of-All-Trades. They should be looking out for problems and referring you to the appropriate specialist.  He/she just blew it this time.  That doesn’t mean they are a bad doctor. Only you can decide whether you have lost the trust.  But now that you know you have cardio-vascular problems you’ll have to widen your medical team to include a specialist.  Here is a great link about building your medical team, and taking the responsibility for being the head of that team:         http://www.neuropathy-trust.org/ellis1.htm I wish you all the best health.  Keep us updated! Jude —         Crouch Enterprises – Telecom, Internet & Unix Consulting       Oak Park, IL  708-848-0134  URL: http://www.pobox.com/~jcrouch

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Barbara I have not had the experience but I have a friend who is on coumadin which i a blood thinner.  I dont believe that they operate on blood clots they dissolve them with medication.  and that is probably why they gave you the coumain.  She has a heart problem and a valve problem so she has to be on it so that the blood goes through the arteries. I swear doctos know crap about things.  All they know is from what they learned but they tell you one thing and you have another. Hope your leg gets better soon Loretta

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hi barbara my name is christine i had two large blood clots in my lungs after surgery spent 2weeks in icu i was on comudin for 6 months or more you have to very careful if you get cut because it thins your blood so much you have to keep getting it checked i am doing fine now i go tomorrow for blood work for diabetes i hope it comes out ok i hope you are feeling better take care of yourself christine i am new but i have met some nice people talk to you later christine

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It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve posted. I’ve been having alot of trouble with my leg swelling and paining and I thought it was due to edema. Carol urged me to go to the doctor which I did but he said it was just a skin infection and sent me home with an antibiotic. Well, the leg kept on swelling and hurting untill I could hardly stand it anymore so off to the ER. They did an ultrsound on my leg and found a blood clot in the back of the leg. I spent 5 days in that dreaded hospital. I have been so upset with the doctor for not taking precautions but they seem to know everything so it’s like "patient shut up, you don’t know anything". Just don’t know if it will do any good to find another doctor either.

I’m so very sorry I was right. But here’s the thing like I told you before. With this kind of thing it takes a while for the doctor to catch on. More than anything you want to find the right doctor and stick with him/her. Once you start developing these clots its becomes a chronic thing. From now on NEVER disregard any hint of redness or infection, keep everything very clean.  My husband is very sure he gets better early care from female doctors. However, once we have a doctor who is exposed to the history we get good emergency care from them all. We have on two occasions had to retrain new staff at the clinic or hospital. In those instances you end up getting delayed intervention and then zap into the hospital. Be very very agressive about getting immediate care. By that I mean such as when we were with Dr. Cameron and later Dr. Gale we could call and say "its infected" and we’d get an appointment that day (after some training of the receptionist who wasn’t too cooperative the first couple of times.)   Later with Dr. Gale we were supposed to phone and say we were on our way to the emergency room. Then with Dr. Agy we were supposed to get there and have them phone. Now we’re at the point where we don’t call because we have the ER team trained mostly, although the last time we went in I told the nurse we were in the wrong ER room because we always get put in the seizure room. And then she had a trainee phlebotamist (sp?) who set about 20 glass tubes on Doug’s legs and I had to keep telling him that wasn’t a good idea to do with a seizure patient. But usually its best. And now too, when I run in with him I tell them he’s in the computer and not to believe what he tells them because he’s likely hallucinating and to please put him in the seizure room. And after I park the car then I tell them we will only deal with Ivy Home Infusions on the first floor and we don’t want IV home infusions from the 5th floor etc. You get used to it. I’m mad at them all right now. There’s no need to take chances with a persons life and I feel this is what my doctor did.   Wondering if anybody here takes Coumadin?  

Yes my husband has been on Coumadin for mny years. I will have to take this med for atleast 6 months. Do they ever do surgey for blood clots in the leg?

Yes but you don’t want that if you can avoid it. I hate to think that this clot will stauy in my leg until it dissolves. Barbara

One of Doug’s clots has been there for almost 40 years. After a while your leg will build alternate blood paths around the clot. Please feel free to write me privately. My husband Doug says he’ll be glad to write to you.  Like I said before, he’s been dealing with this since before our son was born and Josh is 21 now. Carol

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Finding a Dr is a lot like dating people.  Except you get fewer chances to get it right.  When I was last looking, I talked to the nurses – in a conversation, you can glean a lot about how the Dr/Office handles patients.  Then I made an appointment to meet the Doctor and just talk about how to handle me.  I found that was a good experience and called the Ins Co to change my PCP from the parking lot.  If I hadn’t of felt comfortable, I would have kept looking. Also – talk to your Dad’s doctor and ask for a referal.  "Doc, I know you aren’t taking new patients, but you’ve helped my Dad for years and I want to find somebody who will help me the same way." —–Burton

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Hi, and welcome to the group noone wants to be in. Just know that stress can raise your bgs  I am from the Big Apple and know noone in Pa.  Just wanted to know that you can count on us for information and support Loretta

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Thanks to all who replied!  I’m pretty sure it’s the stress thing factoring in… I tend to "find" extra things to eat when I’m stressing – and Adam just had a birthday (chocolate peanut butter cake with dark chocolate icing!) then he’s been out running .. and it was just sitting there – calling my name <sigh.    This am’s reading was a nice 110 (I don’t do readings at work) and I won’t do another reading until 2 hours (or so!) after I have supper.  Much better then the 200 and up am’s all last week! Nice to know that I have found a place to talk about this stuff! My Dad is also Diabetic (his doctor is NOT taking new patients – he wants to retire also!) But he has had 2 triple by-passes which makes his meds a nightmare. He finally is off insulin and is taking Glacophage instead (he also lost over 150 pounds in the last 5 years!).  He told me to de-stress and keep testing, before I make it worse worrying about it.                     Talk to you later                             Cindy

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Thanks to all who replied!  I’m pretty sure it’s the stress thing factoring in… I tend to "find" extra things to eat when I’m stressing – and Adam just had a birthday (chocolate peanut butter cake with dark chocolate icing!) then he’s been out running .. and it was just sitting there – calling my name <sigh.    This am’s reading was a nice 110 (I don’t do readings at work) and I won’t do another reading until 2 hours (or so!) after I have supper.  Much better then the 200 and up am’s all last week! Nice to know that I have found a place to talk about this stuff! My Dad is also Diabetic (his doctor is NOT taking new patients – he wants to retire also!) But he has had 2 triple by-passes which makes his meds a nightmare. He finally is off insulin and is taking Glacophage instead (he also lost over 150 pounds in the last 5 years!).  He told me to de-stress and keep testing, before I make it worse worrying about it.

The best recommendations we can get for new doctors are not the old doctors, but the nurses who work from them, or those who work in emergency rooms.   Don’t be afraid to ask.  The appropriate question is "If I didn’t visit your doctor, what doctor do you think would be best (for my particular situation)". Nurses know who is qualified, better they have a situation that gives them a chance to compare.  I haven’t had a problem *ever* in nurses giving very good advice (as long as you rule out their employer). All the Best. Jude —         Crouch Enterprises – Telecom, Internet & Unix Consulting       Oak Park, IL  708-848-0134  URL: http://www.pobox.com/~jcrouch

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Jude, that is some of the best advice I’ve ever heard on this situation. Very smooth. — Just Plain ‘O Bonita, an Irish wit (twit?) NIDDM for 3 yrs., quit denying since 2/00 Actos 45 mgs. & Glucotrol 5 mgs. X2 daily

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Thanks to all who replied!  I’m pretty sure it’s the stress thing factoring in… I tend to "find" extra things to eat when I’m stressing – and Adam just had a birthday (chocolate peanut butter cake with dark chocolate icing!) then he’s been out running .. and it was just sitting there – calling my name <sigh.    This am’s reading was a nice 110 (I don’t do readings at work) and I won’t do another reading until 2 hours (or so!) after I have supper. Much better then the 200 and up am’s all last week! Nice to know that I have found a place to talk about this stuff! My Dad is also Diabetic (his doctor is NOT taking new patients – he wants to retire also!) But he has had 2 triple by-passes which makes his meds a nightmare. He finally is off insulin and is taking Glacophage instead (he also lost over 150 pounds in the last 5 years!).  He told me to de-stress and keep testing, before I make it worse worrying about it. The best recommendations we can get for new doctors are not the old doctors, but the nurses who work from them, or those who work in emergency rooms.   Don’t be afraid to ask.  The appropriate question is "If I didn’t visit your doctor, what doctor do you think would be best (for my particular situation)". Nurses know who is qualified, better they have a situation that gives them a chance to compare.  I haven’t had a problem *ever* in nurses giving very good advice (as long as you rule out their employer). All the Best. Jude —         Crouch Enterprises – Telecom, Internet & Unix Consulting       Oak Park, IL  708-848-0134  URL: http://www.pobox.com/~jcrouch

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Hi everyone,    I’ve been lurking for a week or two, but I need to ask a question or    two today.  I was diagnosed 6 years ago but have been able to keep under control with diet and exercise.  But this month has been really rough. My son (19) got stopped for drinking (thank God he wasn’t intoxicated – but he still had a beer in my van.)  And DH and I have been fighting , mainly over finances and household chores… and I hate to admit it but my One-step informs me that my sugars are running in the 200’s…    My family doctor retired and I don’t trust the new doctor I was    assigned to (I can change – but have to find one who knows about Diabetics.)  Do any of you have recommendations for the York PA area?  I did call the hotline (1-800-diabete) and they gave me one listing. A Dr. Rita El-hajj   , but they didn’t know anything other then she was in the directory.    Any suggestions, gratefully accepted.                        Cindy

Hi welcome to the group.  Stress can make the BGs go up. Have you gotten of the diet plan recently? — Tower-O-Power

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi everyone, I’ve been lurking for a week or two, but I need to ask a question or two today. I was diagnosed 6 years ago but have been able to keep under control with diet and exercise. But this month has been really rough. My son (19) got stopped for drinking (thank God he wasn’t intoxicated – but he still had a beer in my van.) And DH and I have been fighting , mainly over finances and household chores… and I hate to admit it but my One-step informs me that my sugars are running in the 200’s… My family doctor retired and I don’t trust the new doctor I was assigned to (I can change – but have to find one who knows about Diabetics.) Do any of you have recommendations for the York PA area? I did call the hotline (1-800-diabete) and they gave me one listing. A Dr. Rita El-hajj , but they didn’t know anything other then she was in the directory. Any suggestions, gratefully accepted. Cindy Cindy,

Welcome aboard! I’m not in your area, so I can’t answer your direct question. I would like to address the stress issue, though. Reducing stress goes a long way toward controlling your glucose levels, as I’m sure you know. Have you considered some sort of counciling? Or some activity to take your mind off of your stress? I find that just a few extra minutes of exercise can do wonders for me when my stress level sends my BG level up. Just my two cents. Too Sweet For My Own Good Before you buy.

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Hi Cindy, welcome aboard. Good luck finding a doc sorry I can’t help but I’m not from the area. Stress can cause your sugar level jump to very high levels. Don’t get too concerned with it until you see the Dr. and make sure you continue to stay on your diet and exercise. I think once you talk to your Dr. and things calm down a little at home your sugar will drop back to a more resonable level. Type II — glucophage 500mg Take Total Responsibility * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi everyone,     I’ve been lurking for a week or two, but I need to ask a question or two today.  I was diagnosed 6 years ago but have been able to keep under control with diet and exercise.  But this month has been really rough. My son (19) got stopped for drinking (thank God he wasn’t intoxicated – but he still had a beer in my van.)  And DH and I have been fighting , mainly over finances and household chores… and I hate to admit it but my One-step informs me that my sugars are running in the 200’s…     My family doctor retired and I don’t trust the new doctor I was assigned to (I can change – but have to find one who knows about Diabetics.)  Do any of you have recommendations for the York PA area?  I did call the hotline (1-800-diabete) and they gave me one listing. A Dr. Rita El-hajj    , but they didn’t know anything other then she was in the directory.     Any suggestions, gratefully accepted.                         Cindy

Cindy I’m a Dr. bigot. In general I prefer females because they listen better, and they have to be twice as good to get respect from their peers even in these modern times. My husband is a female doctor bigot because it feels they are more aggressive in treating pain. As for the El-hajj if its a married name it means nothing but if it indicates shes foreign I’ve never been treated by a doctor with citizenship elsewhere that wasn’t truly excellent.  So I’ve hung out my prejudices here. But the thing I would do is, contact your nearest ADA and see if anybody there has an opinion, and also call the Dr.s office and ask questions of the receptionist. They can usually answer things like where did the doctor go to school, h;w long has the doctor been in practice, what percentage of her patients are diabetic or whatever concerns you. Carol

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Hi everyone,     I’ve been lurking for a week or two, but I need to ask a question or two today.  I was diagnosed 6 years ago but have been able to keep under control with diet and exercise.  But this month has been really rough. My son (19) got stopped for drinking (thank God he wasn’t intoxicated – but he still had a beer in my van.)  And DH and I have been fighting , mainly over finances and household chores… and I hate to admit it but my One-step informs me that my sugars are running in the 200’s…     My family doctor retired and I don’t trust the new doctor I was assigned to (I can change – but have to find one who knows about Diabetics.)  Do any of you have recommendations for the York PA area?  I did call the hotline (1-800-diabete) and they gave me one listing. A Dr. Rita El-hajj    , but they didn’t know anything other then she was in the directory.

I live in Texas and don’t have any suggestions for finding a Dr. in PA but wanted to welcome you anyway. Hopefully you’ll find a good Dr. soon and get those levels down. Denise —–= Posted via Newsfeeds.Com, Uncensored Usenet News =—– http://www.newsfeeds.com – The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! —–==  Over 80,000 Newsgroups – 16 Different Servers! =—–

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Hi everyone,     I’ve been lurking for a week or two, but I need to ask a question or two today.  I was diagnosed 6 years ago but have been able to keep under control with diet and exercise.  But this month has been really rough. My son (19) got stopped for drinking (thank God he wasn’t intoxicated – but he still had a beer in my van.)  And DH and I have been fighting , mainly over finances and household chores… and I hate to admit it but my One-step informs me that my sugars are running in the 200’s…     My family doctor retired and I don’t trust the new doctor I was assigned to (I can change – but have to find one who knows about Diabetics.)  Do any of you have recommendations for the York PA area?  I did call the hotline (1-800-diabete) and they gave me one listing. A Dr. Rita El-hajj    , but they didn’t know anything other then she was in the directory.     Any suggestions, gratefully accepted.                         Cindy

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Hi all Is there anything i should know about a 1984 Buick Le Sabre pat…

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Not a bad car but they only made it one year Jerry – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi all Is there anything i should know about a 1984 Buick Le Sabre pat…

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Main things to know…  Gas makes it go…  Oil keeps it lubricated…  The green stuff in that box with hoses keeps it cool…  Sorry, I just had to be a smart-ass.  I know nothing about them.

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LOL….everyone loves a smart ass!!!!! keep up the good work :)

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Main things to know…  Gas makes it go…  Oil keeps it lubricated… The green stuff in that box with hoses keeps it cool…  Sorry, I just had to be a smart-ass.  I know nothing about them. Hi all Is there anything i should know about a 1984 Buick Le Sabre pat…

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It’s a car. It runs on gas.

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I don’t know a lot about them, but my father had a 1985, and had good luck with it.  The only thing I could say in general for the 80’s GM transmissions (especially the overdrive ones) is they did not hold up too well.  I think the bugs have been fixed over time, and otherwise the Buick is a solid comfortable car. Roy – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi all Is there anything i should know about a 1984 Buick Le Sabre pat…

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Well, if it’s anything like my ‘82 Delta 88 (which it is), then don’t expect too many problems with it (mine has 175,000 miles on it and only needs one of the valves to be decarbonized for it to run like new). Everything on it works (except the switch for the driver’s door power window cuts out intermittently).  But they could definitely use more power- 140 hp (I’m assuming the LeSabre you’re looking at is equipped with the Olds 307 ci V8) is barely enough to keep 2 tons of car moving at a respectable clip. "If you ain’t ever been to the suburbs, don’t ever come to the suburbs, ’cause you wouldn’t understand the suburbs" -Bloodhound Gang

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I guy I knew in high school had one for a long time.  He thrashed the thing relentlessly.  The trans crapped out on it once, but the motor held up.  But again, I stress that John *really* ragged on that old thing… Drive it nice, it probably won’t ever die.  It still rode wonderfully when he sold it. Well, if it’s anything like my ‘82 Delta 88 (which it is), then don’t expect too many problems with it (mine has 175,000 miles on it and only needs one of the valves to be decarbonized for it to run like new). Everything on it works (except the switch for the driver’s door power window cuts out intermittently).  But they could definitely use more power- 140 hp (I’m assuming the LeSabre you’re looking at is equipped with the Olds 307 ci V8) is barely enough to keep 2 tons of car moving at a respectable clip. "If you ain’t ever been to the suburbs, don’t ever come to the suburbs, ’cause you wouldn’t understand the suburbs" -Bloodhound Gang

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That’s cute. Personally, I love my wife.  She’s got better curves.

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Hi Jude,

Hi Linda, England is beautiful.  We sailed with the kids (in their early teens) landing near the White Cliffs of Dover.  What a sight!  But, we drove north the length of England on into Scotland, missing your wonderful

Well at least you have been to one part of England that I haven’t visited. Every year I say "this year I’m going to go to the Edinburgh Festival in Scotland, I never do get there though.  One day! area.  Then we drove back, after 5 weeks of enjoyment,  flying home from London.  Funny you would mention French Mans Creek & Daphne Du Maurier as my husband is French.  He’s sure he was a knight in France & England in other lifetimes (BG).  He feels so comfortable in the cool damp castles along the coastlines.

He could well have been ;-O  Where abouts in France does he come from?  I worked in the south of France for a short while in my late teens, seems so long ago now. The only thing I really remember about it is all the hang overs from the wine that I had. (BG) However, now we thrive only with our air conditioning, much needed in the

sunny Tampa Bay area of Florida.

You wouldn’t hear me complaining, all that lovely sunshine, I can almost feel it.  We didn’t get a very good summer last year, I think we had about 3 or 4 weeks worth of sunshine.  And then this winter England has been hit with the worst flooding in years.  A lot of people lost there homes to flood water, not once but two or three times in as many months.  I am very luck on that score I live at the top of a valley so the water just keeps on running. I too, love the smell of the salt air.  It seems to breath new energy into my lungs revitalizing my whole body.  This is Grammy speaking & sometimes I crave quiet & need that rejuvenation.

You can’t beat salt sea air, especially first thing in the morning, almost as good as coffee for waking you up. ;-) I have 3 grown children & now helping & hugging & loving 3 beautiful granddaughters. One DD & her DD live with us (a divorce after college) & I feel like I’m doing the raising part all over again.  Funny how each one is so different that there are still new situations that raise their heads now & again requiring a different approach then I may have used with my own along the way. Judy

Too true, there are no proven solutions to dealing with children little quirks, you just have to find a solution that works best for that individual child.  But for ten of the bad days there will always be one great one that will always make you forget what has happened.  For instance I awoke this morning to find Rebecca standing by my bed, with my best lipstick in her hand and in the other a picture she had done with it.  I just had to laugh, after I had explained that although her picture was wonderful, I would prefer if she used her own pencils in future.  It wasn’t until I had got up and was having a coffee, that I thought how nice it was to wake up laughing. Well all the best and have a good Monday. Linda. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Jude, That sounds great, but no it’s not quiet like that.  Though I am an artist, but oils and water colours more so than pottery.  But I won’t deny I do live in a very beautiful part of England.  Falmouth is a little fish town, a short way up from French Mans Creek, more famously know in the Daphne De Murrya (I think I’ve spelt that wrong;-)) book, that’s if you know who she is, I’m sure you do.   BG. I live 5minutes from the sea, and love nothing more than walking along the sea front with Rebecca, that is when I’m not in the garden. Falmouth is an inlet and very mild, even in winter, so mild in fact that we have palm trees growing all along the sea front.   The only trouble with were my house is situated, is that when we do get a real gale blowing in from the North Atlantic my garden tends to look more like a fall out.  But that said I wouldn’t swap it for the world.  There’s nothing like waking up in the morning to the view of the and that wonderful smell of salt in the air. So where do you live then Jude? Best regards Linda.    Hi to all out there on parenting. solutions.  I thought I would introduce myself.  My name is Linda, mother to Rebecca who is 3 and a 1/2. We live in Cornwall, England, the supposed home of King Arthur :-)  Anyway I hope to speak to you all soon. Hi Linda & welcome.  I have you pictured in the doorway of a room below a stone tower, sculpting dragons while your wee one plays in the courtyard with her kitten chasing butterflies.  She’s wearing a cotton dress with tiny flowers in a wreath around her head. Hugs, Judy

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I have the same problem, Rebecca doesn’t seem to feel the cold. Best Regards Linda

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –     Congrats!     I wish my daughter were more like you–she’s rarely cold. Otherwise, I would let her teach herself that lesson.     I was a new dad at 44–my wife was 43.  WE ARE FINISHED! Steve I know the feeling, Rebecca said to me this morning, after she was told she couldn’t ware the socks she wanted and was asked to put her tights back on, "there my legs, and I’ll ware what I want to", what can you say 3 1/2 going on 30.  I had to quickly turn away before she noticed I was laughing.  oh, i remember telling my mom something like this when i was 4, getting ready for kindergarten. it was winter in Rochester, NY (ie: very cold & snowy) and we walked a mile to school (really). i *hated* wearing tights, so i told mom i was wearing socks that day. she let me. i never did it again! my legs were so cold!  i wish they had let us wear trousers to school back then. i didn’t get to do that until i was a junior in high school (1971)  BTW, hi, i’m delurking. i’m a first time mom of a currently 6 month old. had him a month before my 46th birthday. :) lee

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Yes we have.  The first morning I came into the living room half asleep & smelled smoke which alerted my senses that something was wrong.  I quickly looked around and said, for anybody who might be awake, "I smell smoke".  Heart pounding, I looked all around me & noticed outside the air was filled with smoke and decided a house was on fire in the neighborhood.  I opened the French doors to the porch & it was so strong I quickly closed them.  Our DD yelled down that it was the Polk County fires & that was the first I had heard.  I couldn’t believe we were experiencing so much from so far away, & immediately checked & closed the damper in the fireplace.  That was where we were getting the smell in the house.   It got better as the day came to an end, but got a slight whiff again the other day.  Those poor people in the midst of the air current of the smoke must be living a miserable existence, not to say the firefighters.  How about you?  Does it blow your way?

I’ve driven through the stuff when in Orlando, but *that* fire hasn’t effected my home area.  There was a fire in Osceola last weekend, though, that had us so badly smoked out that I was convinced it was between us and the St. John’s!  When we went out for a drive that afternoon we had to use lights just so we were more visible to other drivers!  This does not look like it will be a low fire year and we *really* need rain.  I am actually hoping for a few tropical storms, if not Level I hurricanes, to kind of park right over our heads in May and June.  {yeah, I know, hurricane season starts in June…..I can hope, can’t I?] -Aula

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –  BTW, hi, i’m delurking. i’m a first time mom of a  currently 6 month old. had him a month before my 46th birthday. :) lee WOW!!  Glad I was sitting for that one, Lee.  Congratulations & God Bless.  :) i just wasn’t ready to have kids earlier, i guess. now i’ve settled in to raising llamas, veggies & maple syrup production, so i have time to spend with my little one (the llamas really like it when i take him down to the pasture).  we’re considering adopting a sibling in a year or two. i’d have another, but the stress of amnio really bothers me (Brennan grabbed the amnio needle!), & there are kids that need homes.  lee

You sound very blessed.  We have a friend who has a 3 yr old boy & just adopted a little girl from Guatemala.  They get her this week. There was so much paper work & even though they saw her at 4 months, she is now 8 months when they get her.  Our eldest daughter has friend who could not have children & they adopted last year, & a cousin’s SIL, a single 40 yr old,  just adopted a Russian baby.  A very exciting time. Good Luck & God Bless, Judy

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 BTW, hi, i’m delurking. i’m a first time mom of a  currently 6 month old. had him a month before my 46th birthday. :) lee WOW!!  Glad I was sitting for that one, Lee.  Congratulations & God Bless.  

 :) i just wasn’t ready to have kids earlier, i guess. now i’ve settled in to raising llamas, veggies & maple syrup production, so i have time to spend with my little one (the llamas really like it when i take him down to the pasture).  we’re considering adopting a sibling in a year or two. i’d have another, but the stress of amnio really bothers me (Brennan grabbed the amnio needle!), & there are kids that need homes.  lee

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I know the feeling, Rebecca said to me this morning, after she was told she couldn’t ware the socks she wanted and was asked to put her tights back on, "there my legs, and I’ll ware what I want to", what can you say 3 1/2 going on 30.  I had to quickly turn away before she noticed I was laughing.  oh, i remember telling my mom something like this when i was 4, getting ready for kindergarten. it was winter in Rochester, NY (ie: very cold & snowy) and we walked a mile to school (really). i *hated* wearing tights, so i told mom i was wearing socks that day. she let me. i never did it again! my legs were so cold!  i wish they had let us wear trousers to school back then. i didn’t get to do that until i was a junior in high school (1971)  BTW, hi, i’m delurking. i’m a first time mom of a currently 6 month old. had him a month before my 46th birthday. :) Hello Lee and Linda – Nice to see you joining in.  I’m in Fl, with a 5.5 year old old man who was born just before my 39th birthday.  [waving at other "older" mom]. Having a child at this stage in life is very interesting and I wouldn’t trade it for the world, although I must admit that some days when I get home from work all I want to do is collapse.  He is keeping me young <BG. -Aula It’s working Aula.  You look about 25 (BG). Thank you Judy!  I was feeling quite old yesterday while chasing puppy, child, doing the housecleaning and trying to find some jeans that didn’t cut me in half when I bend over!  Got to loose that baby fat!  You getting any smoke effect from that fire in Polk? -Aula

Yes we have.  The first morning I came into the living room half asleep & smelled smoke which alerted my senses that something was wrong.  I quickly looked around and said, for anybody who might be awake, "I smell smoke".  Heart pounding, I looked all around me & noticed outside the air was filled with smoke and decided a house was on fire in the neighborhood.  I opened the French doors to the porch & it was so strong I quickly closed them.  Our DD yelled down that it was the Polk County fires & that was the first I had heard.  I couldn’t believe we were experiencing so much from so far away, & immediately checked & closed the damper in the fireplace.  That was where we were getting the smell in the house.   It got better as the day came to an end, but got a slight whiff again the other day.  Those poor people in the midst of the air current of the smoke must be living a miserable existence, not to say the firefighters.  How about you?  Does it blow your way? Judy

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    Congrats!     I wish my daughter were more like you–she’s rarely cold. Otherwise, I would let her teach herself that lesson.     I was a new dad at 44–my wife was 43.  WE ARE FINISHED! Steve – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I know the feeling, Rebecca said to me this morning, after she was told she couldn’t ware the socks she wanted and was asked to put her tights back on, "there my legs, and I’ll ware what I want to", what can you say 3 1/2 going on 30.  I had to quickly turn away before she noticed I was laughing.  oh, i remember telling my mom something like this when i was 4, getting ready for kindergarten. it was winter in Rochester, NY (ie: very cold & snowy) and we walked a mile to school (really). i *hated* wearing tights, so i told mom i was wearing socks that day. she let me. i never did it again! my legs were so cold!  i wish they had let us wear trousers to school back then. i didn’t get to do that until i was a junior in high school (1971)  BTW, hi, i’m delurking. i’m a first time mom of a currently 6 month old. had him a month before my 46th birthday. :) lee

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Linda–         As I write it is 37 degrees F and rainy.  We’ve had significant snow this winter for the first time since early 1996.  Finally got a chance to go tobagganing in Prospect Park with Lauren–a blast.     Before she moved in with me, my wife lived on Dean St. (corner Bond)–just 3 blocks away from State (other side of Atlantic Ave.) Steve – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Steve, Thank you for your warm welcome.  I’m glad you liked Devon and Cornwall, it’s looking very spring like over here atm, all the daffodils and crocus are out, and it’s starting to warm up. I know the feeling, Rebecca said to me this morning, after she was told she couldn’t ware the socks she wanted and was asked to put her tights back on, "there my legs, and I’ll ware what I want to", what can you say 3 1/2 going on 30.  I had to quickly turn away before she noticed I was laughing. So how’s NY at this time of the year, cold I bet?  I have a very good friend who lives at State St in Brooklyn.  I keep saying I’ll come back over and visit her, but some how never get the time. Any way best regards, and I look forward to talking with you. Linda Hi Linda–     I’m new too.  Have a 4 1/2 y.o. daughter who thinks she’s a teen!     I have fond memories of a bicycle tour in Aug 1980–spent about 2 weeks in Devon and Cornwall.  Long ago and far away.. Steve Bornfeld (Brooklyn, NY)    Hi to all out there on parenting. solutions.  I thought I would introduce myself.  My name is Linda, mother to Rebecca who is 3 and a 1/2.  We live in Cornwall, England, the supposed home of King Arthur :-)  Anyway I hope to speak to you all soon.

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I know the feeling, Rebecca said to me this morning, after she was told she couldn’t ware the socks she wanted and was asked to put her tights back on, "there my legs, and I’ll ware what I want to", what can you say 3 1/2 going on 30.  I had to quickly turn away before she noticed I was laughing.  oh, i remember telling my mom something like this when i was 4, getting ready for kindergarten. it was winter in Rochester, NY (ie: very cold & snowy) and we walked a mile to school (really). i *hated* wearing tights, so i told mom i was wearing socks that day. she let me. i never did it again! my legs were so cold!  i wish they had let us wear trousers to school back then. i didn’t get to do that until i was a junior in high school (1971)  BTW, hi, i’m delurking. i’m a first time mom of a currently 6 month old. had him a month before my 46th birthday. :) Hello Lee and Linda – Nice to see you joining in.  I’m in Fl, with a 5.5 year old old man who was born just before my 39th birthday.  [waving at other "older" mom]. Having a child at this stage in life is very interesting and I wouldn’t trade it for the world, although I must admit that some days when I get home from work all I want to do is collapse.  He is keeping me young <BG. -Aula It’s working Aula.  You look about 25 (BG).

Thank you Judy!  I was feeling quite old yesterday while chasing puppy, child, doing the housecleaning and trying to find some jeans that didn’t cut me in half when I bend over!  Got to loose that baby fat!  You getting any smoke effect from that fire in Polk? -Aula

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I know the feeling, Rebecca said to me this morning, after she was told she couldn’t ware the socks she wanted and was asked to put her tights back on, "there my legs, and I’ll ware what I want to", what can you say 3 1/2 going on 30.  I had to quickly turn away before she noticed I was laughing.  oh, i remember telling my mom something like this when i was 4, getting ready for kindergarten. it was winter in Rochester, NY (ie: very cold & snowy) and we walked a mile to school (really). i *hated* wearing tights, so i told mom i was wearing socks that day. she let me. i never did it again! my legs were so cold!  i wish they had let us wear trousers to school back then. i didn’t get to do that until i was a junior in high school (1971)  BTW, hi, i’m delurking. i’m a first time mom of a currently 6 month old. had him a month before my 46th birthday. :) Hello Lee and Linda – Nice to see you joining in.  I’m in Fl, with a 5.5 year old old man who was born just before my 39th birthday.  [waving at other "older" mom]. Having a child at this stage in life is very interesting and I wouldn’t trade it for the world, although I must admit that some days when I get home from work all I want to do is collapse.  He is keeping me young <BG. -Aula

It’s working Aula.  You look about 25 (BG). Judy

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I know the feeling, Rebecca said to me this morning, after she was told she couldn’t ware the socks she wanted and was asked to put her tights back on, "there my legs, and I’ll ware what I want to", what can you say 3 1/2 going on 30.  I had to quickly turn away before she noticed I was laughing.  oh, i remember telling my mom something like this when i was 4, getting ready for kindergarten. it was winter in Rochester, NY (ie: very cold & snowy) and we walked a mile to school (really). i *hated* wearing tights, so i told mom i was wearing socks that day. she let me. i never did it again! my legs were so cold!  i wish they had let us wear trousers to school back then. i didn’t get to do that until i was a junior in high school (1971)  BTW, hi, i’m delurking. i’m a first time mom of a currently 6 month old. had him a month before my 46th birthday. :) lee

WOW!!  Glad I was sitting for that one, Lee.  Congratulations & God Bless.  I have an aunt who raised 4 boys & when the youngest was 17 a post script arrived.  It was another boy.  Gee, he seemed to grow up fast too.  A big welcome to the group to you also. Judy

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I know the feeling, Rebecca said to me this morning, after she was told she couldn’t ware the socks she wanted and was asked to put her tights back on, "there my legs, and I’ll ware what I want to", what can you say 3 1/2 going on 30.  I had to quickly turn away before she noticed I was laughing.  oh, i remember telling my mom something like this when i was 4, getting ready for kindergarten. it was winter in Rochester, NY (ie: very cold & snowy) and we walked a mile to school (really). i *hated* wearing tights, so i told mom i was wearing socks that day. she let me. i never did it again! my legs were so cold!  i wish they had let us wear trousers to school back then. i didn’t get to do that until i was a junior in high school (1971)  BTW, hi, i’m delurking. i’m a first time mom of a currently 6 month old. had him a month before my 46th birthday. :)

Hello Lee and Linda – Nice to see you joining in.  I’m in Fl, with a 5.5 year old old man who was born just before my 39th birthday.  [waving at other "older" mom].  Having a child at this stage in life is very interesting and I wouldn’t trade it for the world, although I must admit that some days when I get home from work all I want to do is collapse.  He is keeping me young <BG. -Aula

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I know the feeling, Rebecca said to me this morning, after she was told she couldn’t ware the socks she wanted and was asked to put her tights back on, "there my legs, and I’ll ware what I want to", what can you say 3 1/2 going on 30.  I had to quickly turn away before she noticed I was laughing.

 oh, i remember telling my mom something like this when i was 4, getting ready for kindergarten. it was winter in Rochester, NY (ie: very cold & snowy) and we walked a mile to school (really). i *hated* wearing tights, so i told mom i was wearing socks that day. she let me. i never did it again! my legs were so cold!  i wish they had let us wear trousers to school back then. i didn’t get to do that until i was a junior in high school (1971)  BTW, hi, i’m delurking. i’m a first time mom of a currently 6 month old. had him a month before my 46th birthday. :) lee

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Hi Linda, England is beautiful.  We sailed with the kids (in their early teens) landing near the White Cliffs of Dover.  What a sight!  But, we drove north the length of England on into Scotland, missing your wonderful area.  Then we drove back, after 5 weeks of enjoyment,  flying home from London.  Funny you would mention French Mans Creek & Daphne Du Maurier as my husband is French.  He’s sure he was a knight in France & England in other lifetimes (BG).  He feels so comfortable in the cool damp castles along the coastlines.  However, now we thrive only with our air conditioning, much needed in the sunny Tampa Bay area of Florida. I too, love the smell of the salt air.  It seems to breath new energy into my lungs revitalizing my whole body.  This is Grammy speaking & sometimes I crave quiet & need that rejuvenation.  I have 3 grown children & now helping & hugging & loving 3 beautiful granddaughters. One DD & her DD live with us (a divorce after college) & I feel like I’m doing the raising part all over again.  Funny how each one is so different that there are still new situations that raise their heads now & again requiring a different approach then I may have used with my own along the way. Judy

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Jude, That sounds great, but no it’s not quiet like that.  Though I am an artist, but oils and water colours more so than pottery.  But I won’t deny I do live in a very beautiful part of England.  Falmouth is a little fish town, a short way up from French Mans Creek, more famously know in the Daphne De Murrya (I think I’ve spelt that wrong;-)) book, that’s if you know who she is, I’m sure you do.   BG. I live 5minutes from the sea, and love nothing more than walking along the sea front with Rebecca, that is when I’m not in the garden. Falmouth is an inlet and very mild, even in winter, so mild in fact that we have palm trees growing all along the sea front.   The only trouble with were my house is situated, is that when we do get a real gale blowing in from the North Atlantic my garden tends to look more like a fall out.  But that said I wouldn’t swap it for the world.  There’s nothing like waking up in the morning to the view of the and that wonderful smell of salt in the air. So where do you live then Jude? Best regards Linda.    Hi to all out there on parenting. solutions.  I thought I would introduce myself.  My name is Linda, mother to Rebecca who is 3 and a 1/2. We live in Cornwall, England, the supposed home of King Arthur :-)  Anyway I hope to speak to you all soon. Hi Linda & welcome.  I have you pictured in the doorway of a room below a stone tower, sculpting dragons while your wee one plays in the courtyard with her kitten chasing butterflies.  She’s wearing a cotton dress with tiny flowers in a wreath around her head. Hugs, Judy

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Hi Steve, Thank you for your warm welcome.  I’m glad you liked Devon and Cornwall, it’s looking very spring like over here atm, all the daffodils and crocus are out, and it’s starting to warm up. I know the feeling, Rebecca said to me this morning, after she was told she couldn’t ware the socks she wanted and was asked to put her tights back on, "there my legs, and I’ll ware what I want to", what can you say 3 1/2 going on 30.  I had to quickly turn away before she noticed I was laughing. So how’s NY at this time of the year, cold I bet?  I have a very good friend who lives at State St in Brooklyn.  I keep saying I’ll come back over and visit her, but some how never get the time. Any way best regards, and I look forward to talking with you. Linda

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Linda–     I’m new too.  Have a 4 1/2 y.o. daughter who thinks she’s a teen!     I have fond memories of a bicycle tour in Aug 1980–spent about 2 weeks in Devon and Cornwall.  Long ago and far away.. Steve Bornfeld (Brooklyn, NY)    Hi to all out there on parenting. solutions.  I thought I would introduce myself.  My name is Linda, mother to Rebecca who is 3 and a 1/2.  We live in Cornwall, England, the supposed home of King Arthur :-)  Anyway I hope to speak to you all soon.

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Hi Jude, That sounds great, but no it’s not quiet like that.  Though I am an artist, but oils and water colours more so than pottery.  But I won’t deny I do live in a very beautiful part of England.  Falmouth is a little fish town, a short way up from French Mans Creek, more famously know in the Daphne De Murrya (I think I’ve spelt that wrong;-)) book, that’s if you know who she is, I’m sure you do.   BG. I live 5minutes from the sea, and love nothing more than walking along the sea front with Rebecca, that is when I’m not in the garden.  Falmouth is an inlet and very mild, even in winter, so mild in fact that we have palm trees growing all along the sea front.   The only trouble with were my house is situated, is that when we do get a real gale blowing in from the North Atlantic my garden tends to look more like a fall out.  But that said I wouldn’t swap it for the world.  There’s nothing like waking up in the morning to the view of the and that wonderful smell of salt in the air. So where do you live then Jude? Best regards Linda.

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Hi Linda–     I’m new too.  Have a 4 1/2 y.o. daughter who thinks she’s a teen!     I have fond memories of a bicycle tour in Aug 1980–spent about 2 weeks in Devon and Cornwall.  Long ago and far away.. Steve Bornfeld (Brooklyn, NY) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –    Hi to all out there on parenting. solutions.  I thought I would introduce myself.  My name is Linda, mother to Rebecca who is 3 and a 1/2.  We live in Cornwall, England, the supposed home of King Arthur :-)  Anyway I hope to speak to you all soon.

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Hi Rose, Thank you for the welcome, and I look forward to talking with you. All the best Linda.

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Thank you mElmo, it’s certainly lively in in.  I’m quite new to this so if I do anything I’m not supposed to, tell me.  I noticed a message awhile ago about someone using rich text and noticed I was also, so quickly amended it, not that I really understand why.  I think it’s something to do with everyone not being able to read it, am I right? Anyway thank you for you welcome, Linda.

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   Hi to all out there on parenting. solutions.  I thought I would introduce myself.  My name is Linda, mother to Rebecca who is 3 and a 1/2.  We live in Cornwall, England, the supposed home of King Arthur :-)  Anyway I hope to speak to you all soon.

Hi Linda & welcome.  I have you pictured in the doorway of a room below a stone tower, sculpting dragons while your wee one plays in the courtyard with her kitten chasing butterflies.  She’s wearing a cotton dress with tiny flowers in a wreath around her head. Hugs, Judy

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Hi Traci, Thank you for the warm welcome, I look forward to talking with you. Best regards, Linda.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Welcome to the group Linda and thanks for the intro.  :-)  I have a 19 month old myself, a SAHM.  Look forward to talking with ya. Traci Come Join the Fun at… http://www.parenthoodweb.com Log Directly into Chat at… http://phw2.parenthoodweb.com:4080/chat/world/html/login.html

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Welcome to the group Linda and thanks for the intro.  :-)  I have a 19 month old myself, a SAHM.  Look forward to talking with ya. Traci Come Join the Fun at… http://www.parenthoodweb.com Log Directly into Chat at… http://phw2.parenthoodweb.com:4080/chat/world/html/login.html

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Hi Linda!  I am also new to parenting.solutions.  I just wanted to welcome you in!  :-) Rose

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –    Hi to all out there on parenting. solutions.  I thought I would introduce myself.  My name is Linda, mother to Rebecca who is 3 and a 1/2.  We live in Cornwall, England, the supposed home of King Arthur :-)  Anyway I hope to speak to you all soon.

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Welcome to the fray.  Enjoy.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –    Hi to all out there on parenting. solutions.  I thought I would introduce myself.  My name is Linda, mother to Rebecca who is 3 and a 1/2.  We live in Cornwall, England, the supposed home of King Arthur :-)  Anyway I hope to speak to you all soon.

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   Hi to all out there on parenting. solutions.  I thought I would introduce myself.  My name is Linda, mother to Rebecca who is 3 and a 1/2.  We live in Cornwall, England, the supposed home of King Arthur :-)  Anyway I hope to speak to you all soon.

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Hi Bobette,     Nice to meet you!  Hope you stay with us – sometimes there are a few little squabbles here, but there is a lot of great advice given and a lot of amusing threads to read.  Take care and God bless! Smiles, Meg

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Welcome :) always nice to get a fresh opinion! –what are herps?  gotta ask. Krystal "Life isn’t measured by how many breaths we take but by how many moments that take our breath away" Eat the "treat" in my address to e-mail me.

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There’s one in every crowd.  LOL. AJPDLA

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – writes: I just wanted to say Hi as I am a new poster to the group.  I am a SAHM of 4 kids ages 7-21 months. You had four kids in 14 months? WOW! Mark Probert A vote for Pat Buchanan is a vote for America’s First Fuhrer!

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I just wanted to say Hi as I am a new poster to the group.  I am a SAHM of 4 kids ages 7-21 months.

You had four kids in 14 months? WOW! Mark Probert A vote for Pat Buchanan is a vote for America’s First Fuhrer!

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-I just wanted to say Hi as I am a new poster to the group.  I am a SAHM of 4 kids ages 7-21 months.  The 3 oldest are boys and I finally got my baby girl! lol  Hope to be able to share my experience and opinions with you all and learn from you too.  Thanks- Have you Hugged Your Herps Today? Before you buy.

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English)

Welcome, looks like quite a trio.  There are quite a few people with budgies here so you should have a good time.  We have 4, all but one are rescues. they tend to get overshadowed in my posts by the bigger guys, but are wonderful birds, full of personality, spunk and above all energy.  Had budgies been our first birds, i doubt if we every would have gotten anything else. — TA FAW "Hope is a feathered thing      that perches in the soul"  Emily Dickinson My Web Pages (which desperately need updating) http://www2.netcom.com/~faw/Geobass/plot.html Photo Albus of all the Critters http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=14203

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Welcome to the group Holly.  Hope you stick around! Gloria – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know

      No sh**, Shaggy!!!!       Yes, I do have a bird.

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I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too! Andee

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I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the

of course it’s in operations, notice the hundreds of posts… =S olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too!

seems to me like that’d be quite limited. consider books and the like, perhaps? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Andee

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Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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What a beautiful view from your house!! I am so jealous!! Pretty bird too. N – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English)

Welcome, looks like quite a trio.  There are quite a few people with budgies here so you should have a good time.  We have 4, all but one are rescues. they tend to get overshadowed in my posts by the bigger guys, but are wonderful birds, full of personality, spunk and above all energy.  Had budgies been our first birds, i doubt if we every would have gotten anything else. — TA FAW "Hope is a feathered thing      that perches in the soul"  Emily Dickinson My Web Pages (which desperately need updating) http://www2.netcom.com/~faw/Geobass/plot.html Photo Albus of all the Critters http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=14203

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Welcome to the group Holly.  Hope you stick around! Gloria – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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My  BH must be related to Chris : ~ )                       Gale – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall…

LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion. — Always be kind to animals, Morning, Noon and Night. For animals have feelings, too- and furthermore, they bite!  John Gardner

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Hey Kellie, Glad you are finally getting your summer! ;-) Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… ~~k30~~ http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html                 pictures courtesy of Jan, Pond Goddess.

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Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion.

Sort of figured you were busy. This being your "ponding" season. ;o) ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ jan/Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7 Remove Z to e-mail See my ponds: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html

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this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know

      No sh**, Shaggy!!!!       Yes, I do have a bird.

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too! Andee

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the

of course it’s in operations, notice the hundreds of posts… =S olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too!

seems to me like that’d be quite limited. consider books and the like, perhaps? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Andee

Response:

Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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What a beautiful view from your house!! I am so jealous!! Pretty bird too. N – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English)

Welcome, looks like quite a trio.  There are quite a few people with budgies here so you should have a good time.  We have 4, all but one are rescues. they tend to get overshadowed in my posts by the bigger guys, but are wonderful birds, full of personality, spunk and above all energy.  Had budgies been our first birds, i doubt if we every would have gotten anything else. — TA FAW "Hope is a feathered thing      that perches in the soul"  Emily Dickinson My Web Pages (which desperately need updating) http://www2.netcom.com/~faw/Geobass/plot.html Photo Albus of all the Critters http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=14203

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Welcome to the group Holly.  Hope you stick around! Gloria – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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My  BH must be related to Chris : ~ )                       Gale – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall…

LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion. — Always be kind to animals, Morning, Noon and Night. For animals have feelings, too- and furthermore, they bite!  John Gardner

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Hey Kellie, Glad you are finally getting your summer! ;-) Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… ~~k30~~ http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html                 pictures courtesy of Jan, Pond Goddess.

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Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion.

Sort of figured you were busy. This being your "ponding" season. ;o) ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ jan/Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7 Remove Z to e-mail See my ponds: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html

Response:

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know

      No sh**, Shaggy!!!!       Yes, I do have a bird.

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too! Andee

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the

of course it’s in operations, notice the hundreds of posts… =S olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too!

seems to me like that’d be quite limited. consider books and the like, perhaps? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Andee

Response:

Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

What a beautiful view from your house!! I am so jealous!! Pretty bird too. N – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English)

Welcome, looks like quite a trio.  There are quite a few people with budgies here so you should have a good time.  We have 4, all but one are rescues. they tend to get overshadowed in my posts by the bigger guys, but are wonderful birds, full of personality, spunk and above all energy.  Had budgies been our first birds, i doubt if we every would have gotten anything else. — TA FAW "Hope is a feathered thing      that perches in the soul"  Emily Dickinson My Web Pages (which desperately need updating) http://www2.netcom.com/~faw/Geobass/plot.html Photo Albus of all the Critters http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=14203

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Welcome to the group Holly.  Hope you stick around! Gloria – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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My  BH must be related to Chris : ~ )                       Gale – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall…

LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

Response:

Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion. — Always be kind to animals, Morning, Noon and Night. For animals have feelings, too- and furthermore, they bite!  John Gardner

Response:

Hey Kellie, Glad you are finally getting your summer! ;-) Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… ~~k30~~ http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html                 pictures courtesy of Jan, Pond Goddess.

Response:

Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion.

Sort of figured you were busy. This being your "ponding" season. ;o) ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ jan/Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7 Remove Z to e-mail See my ponds: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html

Response:

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know

      No sh**, Shaggy!!!!       Yes, I do have a bird.

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too! Andee

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the

of course it’s in operations, notice the hundreds of posts… =S olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too!

seems to me like that’d be quite limited. consider books and the like, perhaps? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Andee

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Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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What a beautiful view from your house!! I am so jealous!! Pretty bird too. N – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English)

Welcome, looks like quite a trio.  There are quite a few people with budgies here so you should have a good time.  We have 4, all but one are rescues. they tend to get overshadowed in my posts by the bigger guys, but are wonderful birds, full of personality, spunk and above all energy.  Had budgies been our first birds, i doubt if we every would have gotten anything else. — TA FAW "Hope is a feathered thing      that perches in the soul"  Emily Dickinson My Web Pages (which desperately need updating) http://www2.netcom.com/~faw/Geobass/plot.html Photo Albus of all the Critters http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=14203

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Welcome to the group Holly.  Hope you stick around! Gloria – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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My  BH must be related to Chris : ~ )                       Gale – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall…

LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion. — Always be kind to animals, Morning, Noon and Night. For animals have feelings, too- and furthermore, they bite!  John Gardner

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Hey Kellie, Glad you are finally getting your summer! ;-) Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… ~~k30~~ http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html                 pictures courtesy of Jan, Pond Goddess.

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Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion.

Sort of figured you were busy. This being your "ponding" season. ;o) ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ jan/Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7 Remove Z to e-mail See my ponds: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html

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this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know

      No sh**, Shaggy!!!!       Yes, I do have a bird.

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too! Andee

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the

of course it’s in operations, notice the hundreds of posts… =S olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too!

seems to me like that’d be quite limited. consider books and the like, perhaps? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Andee

Response:

Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

What a beautiful view from your house!! I am so jealous!! Pretty bird too. N – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

Response:

Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English)

Welcome, looks like quite a trio.  There are quite a few people with budgies here so you should have a good time.  We have 4, all but one are rescues. they tend to get overshadowed in my posts by the bigger guys, but are wonderful birds, full of personality, spunk and above all energy.  Had budgies been our first birds, i doubt if we every would have gotten anything else. — TA FAW "Hope is a feathered thing      that perches in the soul"  Emily Dickinson My Web Pages (which desperately need updating) http://www2.netcom.com/~faw/Geobass/plot.html Photo Albus of all the Critters http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=14203

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Welcome to the group Holly.  Hope you stick around! Gloria – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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My  BH must be related to Chris : ~ )                       Gale – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall…

LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

Response:

Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion. — Always be kind to animals, Morning, Noon and Night. For animals have feelings, too- and furthermore, they bite!  John Gardner

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Hey Kellie, Glad you are finally getting your summer! ;-) Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… ~~k30~~ http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html                 pictures courtesy of Jan, Pond Goddess.

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Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion.

Sort of figured you were busy. This being your "ponding" season. ;o) ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ jan/Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7 Remove Z to e-mail See my ponds: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html

Response:

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know

      No sh**, Shaggy!!!!       Yes, I do have a bird.

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too! Andee

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the

of course it’s in operations, notice the hundreds of posts… =S olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too!

seems to me like that’d be quite limited. consider books and the like, perhaps? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Andee

Response:

Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

What a beautiful view from your house!! I am so jealous!! Pretty bird too. N – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English)

Welcome, looks like quite a trio.  There are quite a few people with budgies here so you should have a good time.  We have 4, all but one are rescues. they tend to get overshadowed in my posts by the bigger guys, but are wonderful birds, full of personality, spunk and above all energy.  Had budgies been our first birds, i doubt if we every would have gotten anything else. — TA FAW "Hope is a feathered thing      that perches in the soul"  Emily Dickinson My Web Pages (which desperately need updating) http://www2.netcom.com/~faw/Geobass/plot.html Photo Albus of all the Critters http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=14203

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Welcome to the group Holly.  Hope you stick around! Gloria – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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My  BH must be related to Chris : ~ )                       Gale – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall…

LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

Response:

Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion. — Always be kind to animals, Morning, Noon and Night. For animals have feelings, too- and furthermore, they bite!  John Gardner

Response:

Hey Kellie, Glad you are finally getting your summer! ;-) Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… ~~k30~~ http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html                 pictures courtesy of Jan, Pond Goddess.

Response:

Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion.

Sort of figured you were busy. This being your "ponding" season. ;o) ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ jan/Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7 Remove Z to e-mail See my ponds: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html

Response:

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know

      No sh**, Shaggy!!!!       Yes, I do have a bird.

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too! Andee

Response:

I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the

of course it’s in operations, notice the hundreds of posts… =S olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too!

seems to me like that’d be quite limited. consider books and the like, perhaps? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Andee

Response:

Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

Response:

What a beautiful view from your house!! I am so jealous!! Pretty bird too. N – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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I’m new here so, try not to get angry at how nieve I am.  And If I come around at all, you’ll get used to my poor use of grammar.  But anyway, I’m going to be a new cat owner.  I’ve read just about everything I can get my hands on.  I was wondering if anyone had any advice that would be helpful or benefical. Thanx in advance –EsperWizard

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Esper, Be prepaired for anything and everything, especially if it is a kitten.  Books don’t always tell it like it is. Cats have their own personality and they let you know that immediatley. The best of luck!! ^..^

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Hi, Try web site http://www.io.com/~tittle/cat-faqs/ . It is filled with great information about cat care, behaviour, training, health etc… Enjoy your new kitty. One of the wonderful things about our very much loved pets is that they don’t give a hoot whether we are having a bad hair day or even a bad grammar day and they surely could not care less about how naive we are… Welcome, Monica

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -I’m new here so, try not to get angry at how nieve I am.  And If I come around at all, you’ll get used to my poor use of grammar.  But anyway, I’m going to be a new cat owner.  I’ve read just about everything I can get my hands on.  I was wondering if anyone had any advice that would be helpful or benefical. Thanx in advance –EsperWizard

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I’m new here so, try not to get angry at how nieve I am.  And If I come around at all, you’ll get used to my poor use of grammar.  But anyway, I’m going to be a new cat owner.  I’ve read just about everything I can get my hands on.  I was wondering if anyone had any advice that would be helpful or benefical.

welcome new cat owner…. my advice, asdie from the usual, that is getting it’s shots, spayed/nuetered, etc is simple…. give it all the love you can…and he/she will reward yuo many many time over…. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Thanx in advance –EsperWizard

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English)

Welcome, looks like quite a trio.  There are quite a few people with budgies here so you should have a good time.  We have 4, all but one are rescues. they tend to get overshadowed in my posts by the bigger guys, but are wonderful birds, full of personality, spunk and above all energy.  Had budgies been our first birds, i doubt if we every would have gotten anything else. — TA FAW "Hope is a feathered thing      that perches in the soul"  Emily Dickinson My Web Pages (which desperately need updating) http://www2.netcom.com/~faw/Geobass/plot.html Photo Albus of all the Critters http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=14203

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Welcome to the group Holly.  Hope you stick around! Gloria – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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My  BH must be related to Chris : ~ )                       Gale – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall…

LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion. — Always be kind to animals, Morning, Noon and Night. For animals have feelings, too- and furthermore, they bite!  John Gardner

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Hey Kellie, Glad you are finally getting your summer! ;-) Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… ~~k30~~ http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html                 pictures courtesy of Jan, Pond Goddess.

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Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion.

Sort of figured you were busy. This being your "ponding" season. ;o) ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ jan/Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7 Remove Z to e-mail See my ponds: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html

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this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know

      No sh**, Shaggy!!!!       Yes, I do have a bird.

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I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too! Andee

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I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the

of course it’s in operations, notice the hundreds of posts… =S olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too!

seems to me like that’d be quite limited. consider books and the like, perhaps? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Andee

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Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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What a beautiful view from your house!! I am so jealous!! Pretty bird too. N – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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Hi Gloria. Welcome. I am also from Ontario. My P always flares every winter as does most everyones.  Make sure you use lots of moisturizer after bathing and any other time you feel dry.  They say it is probably an autoimmune disease and that usually someone in your family has had it. (Mine was a great aunt) Your children have a 30% chance of getting this disease. Also, when bathing don’t scrub, this makes it worse and try not using any soap etc. except under arms etc. Good Luck!                                                  Lauriegay – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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I wonder if it has anything to do with weather and your diet.  I am living in Canada which is very dry at here.  I consider myself have a good diet most of the time.  Just want to know the survey.

I find mine is very responsive to diet. I don’t tolerate regular consumption of about any beverage other than water (alcohol, coffee, tea, carbonated beverages, juices), and I need to keep the fat/oil consumption low, which seems to entail eating mostly small amounts of a variety of different meats and minimizing dairy. I find a varied diet works best; I tend to eat more rice than wheat or potatoes. The oils in coldwater fish, such as salmon and tuna, may actually be a benefit. I’ve had trouble with vitamin C and multiple vitamins, but I think there is some benefit to B-12/folic acid and grape seed extract, an anti-oxident, of which I take 50 mg. per day. Best wishes, Terry — To e-mail me replace "spamsucks" with "azstarnet.com"

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – This is a multi-part message in MIME format. Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Hi everyone, I recently discovered that I have P. on my legs after seeing a doctor in early December.  I, at first, thought it is because I have dry skin.  I do notice that it get worst whenever I try a new body gel.  It get worst when I used Jergen shower gel.  It gets better after I swith back to use Colgate shower gel.  I also use Aveeno as a body lotion.  My doctor prescribed Betamethasone Val creme to me.  I got better at the 1st day I put it on.  Guess what?  I still have no clue how does this happen.  The only explaination from my doctor who said it is because of my metabolism is faster than normal, that’s why I have it.  It is still so vague to me.  Is this a some kind of genetic disease. I also use P&S shampoo to control my flaky scalp.  It seems ok. I wonder if it has anything to do with weather and your diet.  I am living in Canada which is very dry at here.  I consider myself have a good diet most of the time.  Just want to know the survey.

Hi Gloria- OK, it works like this as far as P is understood right now (it’s not fully understood yet). P is a disease of the autoimmune system that shows itself on the skin. There are two parts to showing symptoms. First is a genetic fault that leaves you susceptible to showing symptoms. This may or may not be inherited (there’s only a known family history for some cases). But you could have this genetic fault and never know it without part 2 -the trigger that brings the disease into the active phase where symptoms show. There are a wide variety of things that seem to act as triggers for people, with different ones operating for different people. Diet and climate are among the things people have identified as triggers, along with stress, certain infections, skin irritants, and more. As you can see, not only do triggers vary from person to person, but also in the sorts of things that act as triggers. When P is triggered into showing symptoms, the skin is tricked into attacking itself in the form of growing new skin cells at a much faster rate than normal. From beginning to flaking off, at about the rate your body normally only uses to heal a wound -i.e.4-7 days vs the 28-30 days it takes for most people. These cells don’t get properly formed because they’re growing too fast and build up, leading to the redness (inflammation) and flakes that we see as P. So it’s not really your metabolism that’s out of kilter, but one of your body’s ‘healing’ processes. With both a genetic and environmental aspect to it. In your case, maybe the new soap was enough of an irritant to set it off. Sometimes it can be tough to identify what really triggered it. -Kim

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Hi everyone, I recently discovered that I have P. on my legs after seeing a doctor in early December.  I, at first, thought it is because I have dry skin.  I do notice that it get worst whenever I try a new body gel.  It get worst when I used Jergen shower gel.  It gets better after I swith back to use Colgate shower gel.  I also use Aveeno as a body lotion.  My doctor prescribed Betamethasone Val creme to me.  I got better at the 1st day I put it on.  Guess what?  I still have no clue how does this happen.  The only explaination from my doctor who said it is because of my metabolism is faster than normal, that’s why I have it.  It is still so vague to me.  Is this a some kind of genetic disease. I also use P&S shampoo to control my flaky scalp.  It seems ok. I wonder if it has anything to do with weather and your diet.  I am living in Canada which is very dry at here.  I consider myself have a good diet most of the time.  Just want to know the survey. Good luck to all of us! Gloria

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Hi,   I think I might have P.   have three spots plus both elbows have tiny spots.   I am seeing a doctor on April 4th.   I have been lurking, and since reading this NG I have been trying to sunbathe my spots.   Thanks for all the help/encouragement. Norma

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 I think I might have P.   have three spots plus both elbows have tiny spots.   I am seeing a doctor on April 4th.   I have been lurking, and since reading this NG I have been trying to sunbathe my spots.   Thanks for all the help/encouragement.

Best wishes, and let us know what the doctor suggests. J.

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Hi, Norma… welcome to the group!  Is the doctor you are seeing a dermatologist?  Let us know how the appointment goes! Good luck… Best regards,

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   Hi, My name is Sally. I’m new to all this, but I thought I would say hello! If you have a moment, please look at my new Website – I’ve added some nice Christmas decorations to it! http://www.xtreme.net/users/home/ssmith/home.htm Thanks, Sally.

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My name is Sally. I’m new to all this, but I thought I would say hello!

Hi Sally A vet’s advice would be welcome here.   I have a question – do you declaw cats? Alley Cat

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I’m new here so, try not to get angry at how nieve I am.  And If I come around at all, you’ll get used to my poor use of grammar.  But anyway, I’m going to be a new cat owner.  I’ve read just about everything I can get my hands on.  I was wondering if anyone had any advice that would be helpful or benefical. Thanx in advance –EsperWizard

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Esper, Be prepaired for anything and everything, especially if it is a kitten.  Books don’t always tell it like it is. Cats have their own personality and they let you know that immediatley. The best of luck!! ^..^

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Hi, Try web site http://www.io.com/~tittle/cat-faqs/ . It is filled with great information about cat care, behaviour, training, health etc… Enjoy your new kitty. One of the wonderful things about our very much loved pets is that they don’t give a hoot whether we are having a bad hair day or even a bad grammar day and they surely could not care less about how naive we are… Welcome, Monica

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -I’m new here so, try not to get angry at how nieve I am.  And If I come around at all, you’ll get used to my poor use of grammar.  But anyway, I’m going to be a new cat owner.  I’ve read just about everything I can get my hands on.  I was wondering if anyone had any advice that would be helpful or benefical. Thanx in advance –EsperWizard

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I’m new here so, try not to get angry at how nieve I am.  And If I come around at all, you’ll get used to my poor use of grammar.  But anyway, I’m going to be a new cat owner.  I’ve read just about everything I can get my hands on.  I was wondering if anyone had any advice that would be helpful or benefical.

welcome new cat owner…. my advice, asdie from the usual, that is getting it’s shots, spayed/nuetered, etc is simple…. give it all the love you can…and he/she will reward yuo many many time over…. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Thanx in advance –EsperWizard

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English)

Welcome, looks like quite a trio.  There are quite a few people with budgies here so you should have a good time.  We have 4, all but one are rescues. they tend to get overshadowed in my posts by the bigger guys, but are wonderful birds, full of personality, spunk and above all energy.  Had budgies been our first birds, i doubt if we every would have gotten anything else. — TA FAW "Hope is a feathered thing      that perches in the soul"  Emily Dickinson My Web Pages (which desperately need updating) http://www2.netcom.com/~faw/Geobass/plot.html Photo Albus of all the Critters http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=14203

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Welcome to the group Holly.  Hope you stick around! Gloria – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi I am new here. Just discovered this newsgroup and got all excited. I have three budgies (one English) and the amount of posts on budgies made me really happy. Thats not to say that the posts about other types of birds aren’t interesting… My boyfriend and I dream of having a sulfur crested cockatoo someday. With respect to Ken’s post asking about Budgie music, I don’t know where he can find real budgie music. My budgies love Jazz, especially Antonio Carlos Jobim. I don’t know why. They just all get really happy and tweet for hours. I play that for them when I leave for class each day. If anyone would like a view of my budgies, they have their own homepages at http://www.ews.uiuc.edu/~trytten/zoo.html :) HT              "Listen to the MUSN’TS, child, Listen to the DON’TS,               Listen to the SHOULDN’TS The IMPOSSIBLES, the WON’TS               Listen to the NEVER HAVES Then listen close to me-               Anything can happen, child, ANYTHING can be."                                                 -Shel Silverstein

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My  BH must be related to Chris : ~ )                       Gale – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall…

LOL! I made Kris read that, cause I told him if he wakes up to this smell in the morning he doesn’t need to freak. He told me he didn’t think it was right or good that the above occurs. I said it was a normal every year thing. So when I saw your post, I made him READ it. HA! ~ jan

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Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion. — Always be kind to animals, Morning, Noon and Night. For animals have feelings, too- and furthermore, they bite!  John Gardner

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Hey Kellie, Glad you are finally getting your summer! ;-) Twas 36 degrees at 6am here, brrrrr! Turned on the heat – love that burnt dust smell that comes with it the first time the furnace turns on in the fall… ~~k30~~ http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html                 pictures courtesy of Jan, Pond Goddess.

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Haven’t been around for a while-  been busy-  but I wanted to report that the weather has cooled off-  it’s now only in the mid-80s by day and the 60s at night.  Not too bad, eh?  I’m even working on the ponds on occassion.

Sort of figured you were busy. This being your "ponding" season. ;o) ~Keep ‘em Wet!~ jan/Tri-Cities WA    Zone 7 Remove Z to e-mail See my ponds: http://home.earthlink.net/~alanjordan1/jjspond/index.html

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this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know

      No sh**, Shaggy!!!!       Yes, I do have a bird.

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I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too! Andee

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I forgot about this email address.  I am checking to see if it

this is not email, it is a newsgroup… just so you know still is in operation.  This is how we used to send e mail in the

of course it’s in operations, notice the hundreds of posts… =S olden days.  I can’t believe we did most research from here, too!

seems to me like that’d be quite limited. consider books and the like, perhaps? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Andee

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Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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What a beautiful view from your house!! I am so jealous!! Pretty bird too. N – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Goffins has a web site at http://www.jwaggoner.com/baby. Any thing you want, feel free. john waggoner Hi bird lovers, I’m currently setting up a website and if any one would like to send me some of there bird pics and some true stories about there birds, and anything else on birds and pets in particular I will be more than happy. Could u also please include you’re e-mail or website so I can give u credit Thanks

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Hi Gloria. Welcome. I am also from Ontario. My P always flares every winter as does most everyones.  Make sure you use lots of moisturizer after bathing and any other time you feel dry.  They say it is probably an autoimmune disease and that usually someone in your family has had it. (Mine was a great aunt) Your children have a 30% chance of getting this disease. Also, when bathing don’t scrub, this makes it worse and try not using any soap etc. except under arms etc. Good Luck!                                                  Lauriegay – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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I wonder if it has anything to do with weather and your diet.  I am living in Canada which is very dry at here.  I consider myself have a good diet most of the time.  Just want to know the survey.

I find mine is very responsive to diet. I don’t tolerate regular consumption of about any beverage other than water (alcohol, coffee, tea, carbonated beverages, juices), and I need to keep the fat/oil consumption low, which seems to entail eating mostly small amounts of a variety of different meats and minimizing dairy. I find a varied diet works best; I tend to eat more rice than wheat or potatoes. The oils in coldwater fish, such as salmon and tuna, may actually be a benefit. I’ve had trouble with vitamin C and multiple vitamins, but I think there is some benefit to B-12/folic acid and grape seed extract, an anti-oxident, of which I take 50 mg. per day. Best wishes, Terry — To e-mail me replace "spamsucks" with "azstarnet.com"

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – This is a multi-part message in MIME format. Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Hi everyone, I recently discovered that I have P. on my legs after seeing a doctor in early December.  I, at first, thought it is because I have dry skin.  I do notice that it get worst whenever I try a new body gel.  It get worst when I used Jergen shower gel.  It gets better after I swith back to use Colgate shower gel.  I also use Aveeno as a body lotion.  My doctor prescribed Betamethasone Val creme to me.  I got better at the 1st day I put it on.  Guess what?  I still have no clue how does this happen.  The only explaination from my doctor who said it is because of my metabolism is faster than normal, that’s why I have it.  It is still so vague to me.  Is this a some kind of genetic disease. I also use P&S shampoo to control my flaky scalp.  It seems ok. I wonder if it has anything to do with weather and your diet.  I am living in Canada which is very dry at here.  I consider myself have a good diet most of the time.  Just want to know the survey.

Hi Gloria- OK, it works like this as far as P is understood right now (it’s not fully understood yet). P is a disease of the autoimmune system that shows itself on the skin. There are two parts to showing symptoms. First is a genetic fault that leaves you susceptible to showing symptoms. This may or may not be inherited (there’s only a known family history for some cases). But you could have this genetic fault and never know it without part 2 -the trigger that brings the disease into the active phase where symptoms show. There are a wide variety of things that seem to act as triggers for people, with different ones operating for different people. Diet and climate are among the things people have identified as triggers, along with stress, certain infections, skin irritants, and more. As you can see, not only do triggers vary from person to person, but also in the sorts of things that act as triggers. When P is triggered into showing symptoms, the skin is tricked into attacking itself in the form of growing new skin cells at a much faster rate than normal. From beginning to flaking off, at about the rate your body normally only uses to heal a wound -i.e.4-7 days vs the 28-30 days it takes for most people. These cells don’t get properly formed because they’re growing too fast and build up, leading to the redness (inflammation) and flakes that we see as P. So it’s not really your metabolism that’s out of kilter, but one of your body’s ‘healing’ processes. With both a genetic and environmental aspect to it. In your case, maybe the new soap was enough of an irritant to set it off. Sometimes it can be tough to identify what really triggered it. -Kim

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Hi everyone, I recently discovered that I have P. on my legs after seeing a doctor in early December.  I, at first, thought it is because I have dry skin.  I do notice that it get worst whenever I try a new body gel.  It get worst when I used Jergen shower gel.  It gets better after I swith back to use Colgate shower gel.  I also use Aveeno as a body lotion.  My doctor prescribed Betamethasone Val creme to me.  I got better at the 1st day I put it on.  Guess what?  I still have no clue how does this happen.  The only explaination from my doctor who said it is because of my metabolism is faster than normal, that’s why I have it.  It is still so vague to me.  Is this a some kind of genetic disease. I also use P&S shampoo to control my flaky scalp.  It seems ok. I wonder if it has anything to do with weather and your diet.  I am living in Canada which is very dry at here.  I consider myself have a good diet most of the time.  Just want to know the survey. Good luck to all of us! Gloria

  gloria.wong2.vcf

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Hi,   I think I might have P.   have three spots plus both elbows have tiny spots.   I am seeing a doctor on April 4th.   I have been lurking, and since reading this NG I have been trying to sunbathe my spots.   Thanks for all the help/encouragement. Norma

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 I think I might have P.   have three spots plus both elbows have tiny spots.   I am seeing a doctor on April 4th.   I have been lurking, and since reading this NG I have been trying to sunbathe my spots.   Thanks for all the help/encouragement.

Best wishes, and let us know what the doctor suggests. J.

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Hi, Norma… welcome to the group!  Is the doctor you are seeing a dermatologist?  Let us know how the appointment goes! Good luck… Best regards,

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   Hi, My name is Sally. I’m new to all this, but I thought I would say hello! If you have a moment, please look at my new Website – I’ve added some nice Christmas decorations to it! http://www.xtreme.net/users/home/ssmith/home.htm Thanks, Sally.

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My name is Sally. I’m new to all this, but I thought I would say hello!

Hi Sally A vet’s advice would be welcome here.   I have a question – do you declaw cats? Alley Cat

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Hi, I’m on roaccutane and have those dreaded red marks that just won’t go away. After reading about good results with MSM to get those marks to vanish, I ordered some of that MSM. My question is, does MSM contain something which makes it inappropriate to use simultaniously with roaccutane? I read that you shouldn’t use roaccuaten with A vitamines (IE over 50 000). Is it safe for me to use MSM together with my roaccutane or will I mess up my medication process? Any information is obliged. regards //M.P

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Those red marks will go away almost immediately once you’re finished with Accutane.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi, I’m on roaccutane and have those dreaded red marks that just won’t go away. After reading about good results with MSM to get those marks to vanish, I ordered some of that MSM. My question is, does MSM contain something which makes it inappropriate to use simultaniously with roaccutane? I read that you shouldn’t use roaccuaten with A vitamines (IE over 50 000). Is it safe for me to use MSM together with my roaccutane or will I mess up my medication process? Any information is obliged. regards //M.P

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi, I’m on roaccutane and have those dreaded red marks that just won’t go away. After reading about good results with MSM to get those marks to vanish, I ordered some of that MSM. My question is, does MSM contain something which makes it inappropriate to use simultaniously with roaccutane? I read that you shouldn’t use roaccuaten with A vitamines (IE over 50 000). Is it safe for me to use MSM together with my roaccutane or will I mess up my medication process? Any information is obliged. regards //M.P

Since MSM is claimed to be a natural nutrient in all living tissue, plant or animal, it can be considered just food, not medication.  I would be very surprised (unless I have been lied to) if it had any adverse effect on you, just because you are taking Accutane. — John Popelish

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Newbie here; this group is a revelation. I went through my teenage years without spots, just blackheads (cycling to school) It wasn’t until I decided to see my doctor  16 years ago followed by a course of etching fluid (cortozone?) and antibiotics that my true problems started. In hindsight i should have continued with the antibiotics or never started them and should NEVER have started the lotion (dry flaky skin….). Ever since, slow to appear, slow to erupt, slow to go, spots brought on by stress, marmite sessions :-) , extreme spicy foods, beer and bread. learnt not to partake of beer, bread and marmite but stress is rarely optional. Sensible diet helps but still, no STILL, have spots on a continuous basis. This is so debilitating. So often I find myself spending days not socialising. In fact I plan ahead to when my latest eruption will have cleared as if my acne is a prior commitment. Anyway, its good to see I’m not unique, I have ordered some B5 as we speak and hope that soon my diary will be free :-) We are not alone…… David T

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Newbie here; this group is a revelation. I went through my teenage years without spots, just blackheads (cycling to school)

I’m interested how you attribute cycling with blackheads.

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Sweat and humidity. (so it’s not just cycling, but if that’s your sporting activity…)

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I hope you have great success with the B5! –Will

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Newbie here; this group is a revelation. I went through my teenage years without spots, just blackheads (cycling to school) It wasn’t until I decided to see my doctor  16 years ago followed by a course of etching fluid (cortozone?) and antibiotics that my true problems started. In hindsight i should have continued with the antibiotics or never started them and should NEVER have started the lotion (dry flaky skin….). Ever since, slow to appear, slow to erupt, slow to go, spots brought on by stress, marmite sessions :-) , extreme spicy foods, beer and bread. learnt not to partake of beer, bread and marmite but stress is rarely optional. Sensible diet helps but still, no STILL, have spots on a continuous basis. This is so debilitating. So often I find myself spending days not socialising. In fact I plan ahead to when my latest eruption will have cleared as if my acne is a prior commitment. Anyway, its good to see I’m not unique, I have ordered some B5 as we speak and hope that soon my diary will be free :-) We are not alone…… David T

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Hi, I’m on roaccutane and have those dreaded red marks that just won’t go away. After reading about good results with MSM to get those marks to vanish, I ordered some of that MSM. My question is, does MSM contain something which makes it inappropriate to use simultaniously with roaccutane? I read that you shouldn’t use roaccuaten with A vitamines (IE over 50 000). Is it safe for me to use MSM together with my roaccutane or will I mess up my medication process? Any information is obliged. regards //M.P

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Those red marks will go away almost immediately once you’re finished with Accutane.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi, I’m on roaccutane and have those dreaded red marks that just won’t go away. After reading about good results with MSM to get those marks to vanish, I ordered some of that MSM. My question is, does MSM contain something which makes it inappropriate to use simultaniously with roaccutane? I read that you shouldn’t use roaccuaten with A vitamines (IE over 50 000). Is it safe for me to use MSM together with my roaccutane or will I mess up my medication process? Any information is obliged. regards //M.P

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi, I’m on roaccutane and have those dreaded red marks that just won’t go away. After reading about good results with MSM to get those marks to vanish, I ordered some of that MSM. My question is, does MSM contain something which makes it inappropriate to use simultaniously with roaccutane? I read that you shouldn’t use roaccuaten with A vitamines (IE over 50 000). Is it safe for me to use MSM together with my roaccutane or will I mess up my medication process? Any information is obliged. regards //M.P

Since MSM is claimed to be a natural nutrient in all living tissue, plant or animal, it can be considered just food, not medication.  I would be very surprised (unless I have been lied to) if it had any adverse effect on you, just because you are taking Accutane. — John Popelish

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Newbie here; this group is a revelation. I went through my teenage years without spots, just blackheads (cycling to school) It wasn’t until I decided to see my doctor  16 years ago followed by a course of etching fluid (cortozone?) and antibiotics that my true problems started. In hindsight i should have continued with the antibiotics or never started them and should NEVER have started the lotion (dry flaky skin….). Ever since, slow to appear, slow to erupt, slow to go, spots brought on by stress, marmite sessions :-) , extreme spicy foods, beer and bread. learnt not to partake of beer, bread and marmite but stress is rarely optional. Sensible diet helps but still, no STILL, have spots on a continuous basis. This is so debilitating. So often I find myself spending days not socialising. In fact I plan ahead to when my latest eruption will have cleared as if my acne is a prior commitment. Anyway, its good to see I’m not unique, I have ordered some B5 as we speak and hope that soon my diary will be free :-) We are not alone…… David T

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Newbie here; this group is a revelation. I went through my teenage years without spots, just blackheads (cycling to school)

I’m interested how you attribute cycling with blackheads.

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Sweat and humidity. (so it’s not just cycling, but if that’s your sporting activity…)

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Newbie here; this group is a revelation. I went through my teenage years without spots, just blackheads (cycling to school) I’m interested how you attribute cycling with blackheads.

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I hope you have great success with the B5! –Will

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Newbie here; this group is a revelation. I went through my teenage years without spots, just blackheads (cycling to school) It wasn’t until I decided to see my doctor  16 years ago followed by a course of etching fluid (cortozone?) and antibiotics that my true problems started. In hindsight i should have continued with the antibiotics or never started them and should NEVER have started the lotion (dry flaky skin….). Ever since, slow to appear, slow to erupt, slow to go, spots brought on by stress, marmite sessions :-) , extreme spicy foods, beer and bread. learnt not to partake of beer, bread and marmite but stress is rarely optional. Sensible diet helps but still, no STILL, have spots on a continuous basis. This is so debilitating. So often I find myself spending days not socialising. In fact I plan ahead to when my latest eruption will have cleared as if my acne is a prior commitment. Anyway, its good to see I’m not unique, I have ordered some B5 as we speak and hope that soon my diary will be free :-) We are not alone…… David T

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Hey what’s going on?  Is this part of the theraphy? All the subject headings are changing. mux

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It’s the new confusion therapy. You’ll forget what was wrong with you when you first came here. Or something.

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It’s working already.  I’m already very confused. mux

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It’ll keep you on your toes, at least.

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mux doesn’t mind one little bit. Peter (doesn’t mux mean multiplexer?)

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Hi I’m new here, just wanted to let everyone know of my presence…..also has anyone ever heard of the term hypersensitive and could you tell me what that means??? — Teach me and I might forget…..Show me and I might remember……Involve me and I will understand

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Hi Heward, Welcome to ASDM. Hi I’m new here, just wanted to let everyone know of my presence…..also has anyone ever heard of the term hypersensitive and could you tell me what that means??? —

For me, it means that one can be supersensitive in his/her reactions to others. IOW, one may overreact in some situations…to another’s comment or actions. One therefore can easily wind up with having hisI have sent you the FAQs for the ng. Peace,er feelings "hurt." — Lynda

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I wonder if he’s curious if the abusive trolling could get him kicked by his ISP on top of all that other crap. I’m not worried about losing my shit, there is nothing wrong with my geocities site (I am a CL there, I report abuses of the TOS everyday, so I think I’d know) as for my Radio Station, perfectly legal in canada, no different then anyone coming over and listening to my CDs.. He still really needs some professional help. People sometimes wonder why I report so many abusers, mainly because you try and give one a chance to redeem himself and this is his return.  A shame really, oh well. I won’t lose any sleep over it.  Try antipsychotics, Bruce. You have a serious problem with obsession over your perceived enemies! 16 abusive posts in one night!!! No Bruce, you are not the well liked long term member of this newsgroup (not a post), you are the troublemaker who people with more sense than me have killfiled.

– Matthew Cross Kellinjar http://radiokd.hypermart.net http://www.geocities.com/TimesSquare/Ring/8402/ Don’t Reply to my personal mail.  Please reply to the news group. Next time I won’t tell you so nicely. Remove the obvious from my email address if you think you have something worthwhile in sending me.

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read 4/5 statistics  never rush suicide you have the rest of your life to do it

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so…this is your first post..you were a nice person then..seemed you came here for help///what happened? tension? inability to handle explaining a situation to some one  without telling the teacher?   one week in the group and you have run the risk of being busted for piracy, reported along time member of the post(who is liked by enough folks here to bouce in and out),and you have made an ass out of yourself to top it off by reporting a file of a stuffed kangaroo…very good…and i knew your name was mathew..honest…i just called you mark to be even more stupid..report me to my browser for forgetting your name??/go fer it, sunny! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –         Hi, I’m new to the group. Just got here as of this message.  Things have not been good lately, and since their is a history of depression in my family (on my mothers side, her and her mother, and we aren’t sure past that) I thought I’d look into things… according to everything I’ve read I have bipolar disorder, full blown. I’ve had all the main symptum (sp..geez I feel stupid) and every optional symptum going.  I’ve had them for years and just never put it together. My parents thought it was the regular teenage stuff, but 2 years ago my mother finally got sent to the specialist and she is on prozzac now, my grandmother should be, but she’s stubborn, and never would go…  So finally, after alot of ups and downs this year, I admitted I had a problem and did some checking… it’s sunday..and the shrinks office isn’t open.. I’m on the list to see the specialist..but who knows how long it’ll be untill I get in.  So now, I’m wondering what to do..tommorrow I’m going to make some calls to various shrinks and see if I can get in sometime soon.. if it’s not soon I’m not sure what I’ll do..and not like I have that much money to afford it either.. I’m thinking of committing myself.. I’m pretty messed up.. I never thought I could kill myself before, but lately, I’ve looked at the 2 bottles of Tylenol #3s (I have chronic back pain now, I damaged my back permanently over the summer) on top of the fridge..and realized that it wouldn’t be that hard… But I’m fighting the urge pretty well..so far.. Just thought I’d introduce myself, since I’ll probably be reading here for awhile.. — Matthew Cross Kellinjar http://radiokd.hypermart.net http://www.geocities.com/TimesSquare/Ring/8402/

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I have no idea why I typed that, should have been "aware that" not "curious if" I wonder if he’s curious if the abusive trolling could get him kicked by

– Matthew Cross Kellinjar http://radiokd.hypermart.net http://www.geocities.com/TimesSquare/Ring/8402/ Don’t Reply to my personal mail.  Please reply to the news group. Next time I won’t tell you so nicely. Remove the obvious from my email address if you think you have something worthwhile in sending me.

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Good point, I never looked at it that way, thanks!

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I have the same problem. Don’t fit into conventional school. Adb

ood swings and the fact that I was   born with a high IQ (and for some blasted reason, anyone born with an above average IQ has the motivational and work ethics of a odd shaped rock) I didn’t do well.. in high school I scored high 90’s in math..flunked both math classes at uni.. fail a comp science class (I’ve been mind melded with comps since I was 8) I should have passed all 3 with flying colours..but I blew it.. I worked for another year in calgary after that.. (I was living with my uncle at the time) and then after xmas of my second year, my gf and I moved into our first apartment together.. her parents came out in may to visit and she wanted to head back east.. so .. being the loving person I was.. I said ok, and packed everything I had in 3 days and jumped in the back of a saturn.. told no one, and spent 4 days

Al

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Matthew – hi and welcome to the group. I’m glad to hear that you are trying to get help. If you can’t get in to see a pdoc (shrink) soon enough, checking yourself into a hospital may be an option for you. You probably should do this if the suicidal thought get strong enough that you are seriously considering it. I’m looking forward to getting to know you better and hope tht things go well with setting up an appointment. —  Tigger – http://TITAN.SFASU.EDU/~z_woodarddg/ bouncy, trouncy, flouncy, pouncy, fun, fun, fun, fun, FUN!!! Of course mental illness is all in your head, where the HELL else would it be?

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Please read here for awhile.  It has helped me through the roughest time of my life.  These people here are terrific, everyday people.  Join us :) Good Luck and Peace jennifer

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Matthew, Nothing more to add. Just try to make it through today. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Matthew Cross Kellinjar http://radiokd.hypermart.net http://www.geocities.com/TimesSquare/Ring/8402/

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Hi Matthew- I have read thru most of the postings to your original message and as others have said we have been thru it all. I was 19 when I was diagnosed but I can remember back to when I was 5 and had classic symptoms. I didn’t find out until this year(I am 34!)  that my maternal grandmother tried to commit suicide- something my mom refuses to believe.  My Aunt who was there at the time told me this story.  My paternal grandmother was an alcoholic and died many years before I was born and also tried to commit suicide.  I just learned last week that my paternal great-grandmother was in a mental institution for years in Canada. Every time a doctor would ask about my history I always thought it was only me-  but it is hereditary. I am new to this group too- but I needed more support then I get from my family and a few friends that know live 2000 miles away.  I moved form VT to Florida 4 years ago because I was about to kill myself.  If I had to live thru one more winter I would die I was never happier or healthier then when I was in Florida- I even went off meds for 2 years.  Then of course the inevitable happens- I started my typical cycle of mania (euphoric) followed by depression.   I went on meds until the summer when I don’t think I need them any more. Last December I moved again to Texas where we actually get a winter.  I wanted to head off any depression I get so I started back on anti-depressants again.  I have been refusing to take mood stabilizers and haven’t for several years.  But that is another story. Anyway- I just want to write and spill some of my story to let you know you are not alone. -eliza

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi, I’m new to the group. Just got here as of this message.  Things have not been good lately, and since their is a history of depression in my family (on my mothers side, her and her mother, and we aren’t sure past that) I thought I’d look into things… according to everything I’ve read I have bipolar disorder, full blown. I’ve had all the main symptum (sp..geez I feel stupid) and every optional symptum going.  I’ve had them for years and just never put it together. My parents thought it was the regular teenage stuff, but 2 years ago my mother finally got sent to the specialist and she is on prozzac now, my grandmother should be, but she’s stubborn, and never would go…  So finally, after alot of ups and downs this year, I admitted I had a problem and did some checking… it’s sunday..and the shrinks office isn’t open.. I’m on the list to see the specialist..but who knows how long it’ll be untill I get in.  So now, I’m wondering what to do..tommorrow I’m going to make some calls to various shrinks and see if I can get in sometime soon.. if it’s not soon I’m not sure what I’ll do..and not like I have that much money to afford it either.. I’m thinking of committing myself.. I’m pretty messed up.. I never thought I could kill myself before, but lately, I’ve looked at the 2 bottles of Tylenol #3s (I have chronic back pain now, I damaged my back permanently over the summer) on top of the fridge..and realized that it wouldn’t be that hard… But I’m fighting the urge pretty well..so far.. Just thought I’d introduce myself, since I’ll probably be reading here for awhile.. — Matthew Cross Kellinjar http://radiokd.hypermart.net http://www.geocities.com/TimesSquare/Ring/8402/

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Not really.. the only people I know live to far away and I need them at irregular intervals. Oh yeah, I forgot something else I wanted to suggest. Do you have someone you can trust to hold your meds for you? If so, give them all of those pills you mentioned and only keep a days worth (max) at a time. That way you have what you need to live and not what you need to die. —

– Matthew Cross Kellinjar http://radiokd.hypermart.net http://www.geocities.com/TimesSquare/Ring/8402/ Don’t Reply to my personal mail.  Please reply to the news group. Next time I won’t tell you so nicely. Remove the obvious from my email address if you think you have something worthwhile in sending me.

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Oh yeah, I forgot something else I wanted to suggest. Do you have someone you can trust to hold your meds for you? If so, give them all of those pills you mentioned and only keep a days worth (max) at a time. That way you have what you need to live and not what you need to die. —  Tigger – http://TITAN.SFASU.EDU/~z_woodarddg/ bouncy, trouncy, flouncy, pouncy, fun, fun, fun, fun, FUN!!! Of course mental illness is all in your head, where the HELL else would it be?

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Maybe..but I have some naprosyn too… and This is t3 with codene.. the codene would do something..and I have a couple other bottles up there.. a half dozen prescription sleeping pills and some antibiotics.. I just can’t deal with it anymore.. i’ve fought it all I can..and all I do is extend my life one more day for things to get worse and worse.. I just can’t do it…

Ok – here’s a suggestion. Call the er (like someone suggested) and tell them that you don’t have much money, but you are suicidal and need help NOW. You tell them that, and they will tell you where to go and you will get to see a pdoc. Then, you start the lovely process of finding the right med coctail for you. BTW, as someone who is still hurting and healing physically from his last attempt, I encourage you to try to get on a mood stabalizer rather than tearing up your insides overdosing like I did. —  Tigger – http://TITAN.SFASU.EDU/~z_woodarddg/ bouncy, trouncy, flouncy, pouncy, fun, fun, fun, fun, FUN!!! Of course mental illness is all in your head, where the HELL else would it be?

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Hey, you’re doing a great job just trying to get help!  Good for you. It’s normal when you’re depressed to think about ways of killing yourself.  Let me give you some advice on that front, Tylenol is NOT the way to go, all it really takes out is your liver.  Then you spend a week or two in extreme pain dying from lack of a liver.  Yuck yuck yuck. As for help, you might want to try an emergency room.  Even if you called one, they might know somewhere locally for you to go. Just hang in there! Jason Before you buy.

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I wish it were that simple, I’ve lost all will to live..every energy I had is gone.. it was torn from me because of a 4 year relationship that ended, because when I was finally getting help and understanding the problem..she left.. and she won’t even look at me for what I am now..and not for what I was.. at times it seeems like she wants to..but just can’t can’t past what I was before..the asshole I was at times..but now that I’ve started to get a handle on things (and I had improved almost ot a totally different person for about the last 6 months before she left) and then out of the blue, she moved out.. and it’s been very downhill since then.. and it drives me to insanity…because sometimes.. I can just tell she wants to..but she can’t let herself…for fear I might be like I was..or that she can’t forget what I was.. it hurts so bad… Your message hit me hard because it is all so familiar.  I too suffered throughout childhood and my teenage years, never knowing the name of the horrible feelings I harbored.  It wasn’t until last year, at 25 years old, that I was officially diagnosed with bipolar.  Only then did my family confess to a history of depression on my father’s side.  Everyday is a battle and everyone in this group knows your pain.  PLEASE, never feel that your life is not precious. Talk to any of us here, call a friend or do what I do, write all those horrible thoughts down in a journal.  Share the journal with your doctor…it’ll help you both. NicoleDiana

– Matthew Cross Kellinjar

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Maybe..but I have some naprosyn too… and This is t3 with codene.. the codene would do something..and I have a couple other bottles up there.. a half dozen prescription sleeping pills and some antibiotics.. I just can’t deal with it anymore.. i’ve fought it all I can..and all I do is extend my life one more day for things to get worse and worse.. I just can’t do it… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hey, you’re doing a great job just trying to get help!  Good for you. It’s normal when you’re depressed to think about ways of killing yourself.  Let me give you some advice on that front, Tylenol is NOT the way to go, all it really takes out is your liver.  Then you spend a week or two in extreme pain dying from lack of a liver.  Yuck yuck yuck. As for help, you might want to try an emergency room.  Even if you called one, they might know somewhere locally for you to go. Just hang in there! Jason Before you buy.

– Matthew Cross Kellinjar http://radiokd.hypermart.net http://www.geocities.com/TimesSquare/Ring/8402/ Don’t Reply to my personal mail.  Please reply to the news group. Next time I won’t tell you so nicely. Remove the obvious from my email address if you think you have something worthwhile in sending me.

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Dear Matthew, I can certainly empathize with the pain you’re feeling.  I was married for two-and-a-half years and when that ended, I felt devastated!  I’m originally from New Jersey but my time in the U. S. Navy brought me to beautiful San Diego for three years. While stationed there, I met my now ex-wife.  I was 19 and she was 17 and we thought we knew everything!  After four months we decided to get married. Domestic violence was an immediate issue.  I grew up with it being exemplified in my parents and it seemed a very natural expression to me at that time. We were fairly active in the experimental drug scene (pot, acid, crystal meth, coke), as well as being moderate consumers of alcoholic beverages (drinking to excess every weekend, drinking lighter throughout the week). Then I started getting close to age 21, the legal drinking age in California at the time.  I was very excited to be approaching the legal drinking age, but I was seriously put-off by the fact that my then wife would not be legal for 2 more years.  I didn’t want to wait that long to get into a bar, and she wouldn’t tolerate me going out to drink without her.  As my birthday came closer, I got antsy and we separated, then got back together, then separated, then got back together, then separated for the last time. I worked my way back to New Jersey, stopping off in Arizona (dad lives there), then in Missouri (sis lived there) and finally making it back to New Jersey.  I was only in Jersey a month or so and I kept asking her to give us another shot.  Finally, she said if I would come back to San Diego, we’d give it one more try. So, I worked and saved everything I could.  I bought myself a 1969 Dodge Dart for $575 (this was in 1983) and I headed out for San Diego as soon as I had saved what I thought would be enough money.  Well, I ran out of cash just as I got to Arizona, so I stopped off at dad’s place and got another job and saved enough money to get to San Diego and get an apartment. When I got there, she told me, "I changed my mind."  Not vindictive, mind you, just very matter-of-fact.  I was mentally and emotionally disoriented to the point of total desperation.  I felt as if my soul were suddenly ripped to shreds and there was nothing left to live for. It was the first time I had considered taking my own life.  I can still see myself talking to her in the garage at her parent’s house, begging and pleading and crying to please let us have one more try. It didn’t happen. Well, I had started to get turned on to religion just before our final separation so, in my grief, I cried and prayed and cried and prayed ad nauseum, and I came through alive.  Not all-right, mind you, just alive. Since that time I found myself another wife.  We’re married over 13 years now and we have 3 daughters.  My present marriage has had its share of hardship and pain, too, but we’ve managed to stick things out and work through them even amidst the worst circumstances. I look back at my life during my previous marriage and it’s like recalling some idiotic character from a bad novel. I recall the worst times in my present marriage and I’m ashamed of the way I behaved. I look at my present diagnosis of bipolar and I have a mixed reaction. On the one hand, I’m glad it’s more than just my "bad attitude".  On the other hand, I don’t like thinking that my perceptions all these years were jaded by this disorder.  Even so, I realize that knowing what’s the matter is the first step in addressing the problem. Matthew, I guess what I’m trying to say is this: if I can hang on and find fulfillment in life despite such a heavy loss, I believe you can hang on, too, even amidst the pain.  And when you stick it out and come through the other side of the grief, you’ll be set to regain all that you feel is now hopelessly lost. I feel your pain, Matthew, and I believe in you. BiPolarGnu  AKA  Richard

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I guess I should share my full story then.. my ex and I were a blind date when I was 16, and she was 15.  Somehow we hit it off.. (i know, not very likely for blind dates) at the time I was up and down then, but didn’t think anything of it.. I had the hypoinsomnia, the racing thoughts, and various other manic signals.. I had a few depressive points at that time (I ran away from home once, I NEVER got along with my father, told my mother off once, I was 12, never did that again) but of course, I was 16 and no one put things together, because it was normal teenage stuff.  So we went out for awhile later that winter, I cheated on her.. I have no idea why, blows my mind when I think about it, I feel like shit for it, and never did it again, just a one night, spur of the moment, 16 year old thing.  My parents did send me to a supposed child psychologist for a session, but he never put it together either..probably because I didn’t have the big depressive moods then.. just the manic..         I ended up getting so stressed out in junior high that I developed Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS) and it haunts me to this day.  I was a bit of a jerk and an asshole at times to my gf, but there was never any violence, I just couldn’t bring myself to that.. there was yelling now and then, but from what I understood, we didn’t seem to fight anymore or harder then any other relationship.. and I was getting better as time went on, I was 16 and dealing with being in real love.. I didn’t know what to do with that, but I did the best I could, my parents didn’t exactly give me a model to work with..         When I graduated, I moved 4000 km (about 2700 miles for the americans) west..we stayed together..that was the toughest year of my life.. (until now) she came to visit that summer, and moved out the next summer when she graduated.. I went to the University of Calgary..things went okay there..but because of my mood swings and the fact that I was born with a high IQ (and for some blasted reason, anyone born with an above average IQ has the motivational and work ethics of a odd shaped rock) I didn’t do well.. in high school I scored high 90’s in math..flunked both math classes at uni.. fail a comp science class (I’ve been mind melded with comps since I was 8) I should have passed all 3 with flying colours..but I blew it.. I worked for another year in calgary after that.. (I was living with my uncle at the time) and then after xmas of my second year, my gf and I moved into our first apartment together.. her parents came out in may to visit and she wanted to head back east.. so .. being the loving person I was.. I said ok, and packed everything I had in 3 days and jumped in the back of a saturn.. told no one, and spent 4 days driving back across canada to New brunswick.. Talk about classic mania.. I will admit that during february-april.. I had a relapse, hit a depressive low and was a bit of an asshole again..but we talked near the end of april..and I suddenly realized what I was doing and snapped out of it..         We arrived home, much to the delight of my mother, and my father was in shock for about a week after seeing me…I got a job at the local provincial park, she moved into town to work at an old job she had, and I had plans to move up in sept to goto school, get a degree..get a real job..and do something..         I was at work 2 weeks.. lifted a motorized wheel chair and damaged my back.. I’ve been on compensation since.. I went to physio starting in august.. I was in pretty upbeat spirits then..sort of.. my regular doctor, who I had had since I was born..and my parents had before then..retired about 2 days before I got hurt.. so I had to wait 2 weeks for the new guy to show up.. meanwhile I visited the outpatients at the hospital and the doc there didn’t realize what I had wrong with my back.. so my new guy shows up..and he’s a loser..the old doctor..was…well simply amazing, everyone loved the man.he had the largest patient list in the area, and there was a reason, he was simply the best doctor in new brunswick, if not canada.  This new guy..was inexperienced, young and very unsure..he knew he had big shoes to fill..and he wasn’t doing a good job..         I started physio and then moved up here in september.. everything seemed fine.. I was starting to get better.. or so I seemed..then october hit.. I fell down.. did nerve damage to my right leg.. it hasn’t healed right yet.. I wasn’t able to walk for 2 weeks.. I’m incredibly far behind in school..and I haven’t been the same since I fell.. I’ve become a severe hyposomniac.. I need 12 hours sleep and then it takes me 2 hours to awake enough to do anything more then shuffle, and then I’m tired after 8 hours.. halfway through october out of the blue..my gf announces she’s moving out.. I was blown away.. she was pretty much the only thing I had left.. I haven’t been to school in awhile.. I just can’t do it.. I have to leave the house at 8 am, and it’s 10 am before I can even think about going out the door.. and then it’s 4pm and I’m ready for bed again..         So she moved out.. and at first she wanted to work things out.. then she wouldn’t talk to me for 4 days.. then everything was cool, and she wanted to work thigns out..then she ignored me for 3 days..then she was all over me.. then she didn’t want anything to do with me.. I’ve been spinning in circles.. and then blam, she wouldn’t talk to me, answer the phone.. or emails for a week or so.. then she talks to me.. and it seems like she’s trying ot convince herself she doesn’t want to be with me.. and it seems from the tone in her voice..and the way she talks..that if she could just forget what I was before and look at me now.. things would be different..but I Think she’s afraid to be hurt again..         And here I am now.. I tried going to the clubs and things to take my mind off her.. try and meet someone else.. but even though I had a couple promising prospects.. I’ve never been one to attract ladies, even though I’m a fairly smart and I’d say at least average looking guy, of course I’m white and have the rhythm of a slug.. so that doesn’t go over well at the club… I’ve been told I’ve got a good sense of humour and a good personality to boot…but I just have no luck as you can tell..         And to top it off someone sprayed the club with bear repellent the last night I as there, wednesday.. 600 people in there..it was a stampede…They are threatening to take my compensation away.. and I Can’t work.. I couldn’t do it even if I wanted to.. and this is barely scratching the surface.. there are alot of little problems I never mentioned, like how through all this, I ended up $5000 in debt to various people…(people who show up on my credit) I got palettefemoral syndrome in my right knee from the car trip, I have some cysts that are starting to act up, that if I had the surgery to remove them, I Could sit for about..ohh.. 6 weeks and there is a 60% chance or more they will come back.. and to top the shit off I’m breaking out which I haven’t done in months.. and there is nothing good on tv.. and for once in my life.. I actually couldn’t care whether or not I lived..before …no matter how bad I got.. I would never have the guts to kill myself..but now.. these pills are here.. and they look so appealing… <SNIP BiPolarGnu  AKA  Richard

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Your message hit me hard because it is all so familiar.  I too suffered throughout childhood and my teenage years, never knowing the name of the horrible feelings I harbored.  It wasn’t until last year, at 25 years old, that I was officially diagnosed with bipolar.  Only then did my family confess to a history of depression on my father’s side.  Everyday is a battle and everyone in this group knows your pain.  PLEASE, never feel that your life is not precious. Talk to any of us here, call a friend or do what I do, write all those horrible thoughts down in a journal.  Share the journal with your doctor…it’ll help you both. NicoleDiana – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –         Hi, I’m new to the group. Just got here as of this message.  Things have not been good lately, and since their is a history of depression in my family (on my mothers side, her and her mother, and we aren’t sure past that) I thought I’d look into things… according to everything I’ve read I have bipolar disorder, full blown. I’ve had all the main symptum (sp..geez I feel stupid) and every optional symptum going.  I’ve had them for years and just never put it together. My parents thought it was the regular teenage stuff, but 2 years ago my mother finally got sent to the specialist and she is on prozzac now, my grandmother should be, but she’s stubborn, and never would go…  So finally, after alot of ups and downs this year, I admitted I had a problem and did some checking… it’s sunday..and the shrinks office isn’t open.. I’m on the list to see the specialist..but who knows how long it’ll be untill I get in.  So now, I’m wondering what to do..tommorrow I’m going to make some calls to various shrinks and see if I can get in sometime soon.. if it’s not soon I’m not sure what I’ll do..and not like I have that much money to afford it either.. I’m thinking of committing myself.. I’m pretty messed up.. I never thought I could kill myself before, but lately, I’ve looked at the 2 bottles of Tylenol #3s (I have chronic back pain now, I damaged my back permanently over the summer) on top of the fridge..and realized that it wouldn’t be that hard… But I’m fighting the urge pretty well..so far.. Just thought I’d introduce myself, since I’ll probably be reading here for awhile.. — Matthew Cross Kellinjar http://radiokd.hypermart.net http://www.geocities.com/TimesSquare/Ring/8402/

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        Hi, I’m new to the group. Just got here as of this message.  Things have not been good lately, and since their is a history of depression in my family (on my mothers side, her and her mother, and we aren’t sure past that) I thought I’d look into things… according to everything I’ve read I have bipolar disorder, full blown. I’ve had all the main symptum (sp..geez I feel stupid) and every optional symptum going.  I’ve had them for years and just never put it together. My parents thought it was the regular teenage stuff, but 2 years ago my mother finally got sent to the specialist and she is on prozzac now, my grandmother should be, but she’s stubborn, and never would go…  So finally, after alot of ups and downs this year, I admitted I had a problem and did some checking… it’s sunday..and the shrinks office isn’t open.. I’m on the list to see the specialist..but who knows how long it’ll be untill I get in.  So now, I’m wondering what to do..tommorrow I’m going to make some calls to various shrinks and see if I can get in sometime soon.. if it’s not soon I’m not sure what I’ll do..and not like I have that much money to afford it either.. I’m thinking of committing myself.. I’m pretty messed up.. I never thought I could kill myself before, but lately, I’ve looked at the 2 bottles of Tylenol #3s (I have chronic back pain now, I damaged my back permanently over the summer) on top of the fridge..and realized that it wouldn’t be that hard… But I’m fighting the urge pretty well..so far.. Just thought I’d introduce myself, since I’ll probably be reading here for awhile.. — Matthew Cross Kellinjar http://radiokd.hypermart.net http://www.geocities.com/TimesSquare/Ring/8402/

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One medium Gwen (*marinated*) a pint of brandy a dachshund and a stalk of celery for garnish.

Try this :- First kidnap Gwen, then insert a classic shaped Coke bottle in to her vagina to collect the juice from within, when the bottle is full, carrbonate it, to make it fizzy. add sugar to taste. then drink it like 7up. its the taste of a new generation ! Zardos. ( frist posted on s.s.d.m )

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*ding* *ding* *ding*

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – VisKont’s breath is leathel. Ohhh score two

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I even put in ;some ;bad spelling for the antfuckers – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – *ding* *ding* *ding* VisKont’s breath is leathel. Ohhh score two

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Why add sugar?  What blood type is the lady gwen?  Pleas tell me O neg. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – One medium Gwen (*marinated*) a pint of brandy a dachshund and a stalk of celery for garnish. Try this :- First kidnap Gwen, then insert a classic shaped Coke bottle in to her vagina to collect the juice from within, when the bottle is full, carrbonate it, to make it fizzy. add sugar to taste. then drink it like 7up. its the taste of a new generation ! Zardos. ( frist posted on s.s.d.m )

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now wy on aerth woult jou doo dat?

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I even put in ;some ;bad spelling for the antfuckers *ding* *ding* *ding* VisKont’s breath is leathel. Ohhh score two

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cussa its sooo finny ven dey teelll s word is no spell the way it spill – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – now wy on aerth woult jou doo dat? I even put in ;some ;bad spelling for the antfuckers *ding* *ding* *ding* VisKont’s breath is leathel. Ohhh score two

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Hey! Has the old fossil told you about his "resources" yet? I think he’s having delusions again.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – cussa its sooo finny ven dey teelll s word is no spell the way it spill now wy on aerth woult jou doo dat?

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What the fuck is he on about now,   Is he going to have you killed? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hey! Has the old fossil told you about his "resources" yet? I think he’s having delusions again. cussa its sooo finny ven dey teelll s word is no spell the way it spill now wy on aerth woult jou doo dat?

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VisKont’s breath is leathel.  

Ohhh score two his mind is mild.  (whats left of it. You finally found the place eh? Watch out for V

10 Year Old Daughter with UC (very lengthy post)

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I don’t know if anyone has suggested this yet, but when I’m having a really bad flare-up and I have no desire to eat, I try to drink some type of Boost or Ensure drinks.  They are lactose free and they have lots of vitamins in them.  They have lots of different flavors and are actually pretty tasty if they are nice and cold.   I hope your daughter gets to feeling better soon.  I have colitis and totally hate it, but if I watch what I eat, I do O.K.  I’m currently on Asacol.  I’m not feeling too well this morning though.  Something I ate yesterday probably didn’t agree with me.  Hopefully, this flare-up won’t last a week like they usually do.  Not eating for a week is really bad and I lost 10 pounds the last time.  I know exactly how she feels.  No desire to eat or do anything at all!  Try calling the Crohn’s-Colitis Foundation and see if they have a support group in your area.  I’m sorry if I’m repeating things you’ve already been told.  As I said, I’m not doing too well this morning. Good luck and keep us posted.  We have to stick together. Alisha – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -First of all, let me thank all those who wrote to me with such an outpouring of support and suggestions. Thank you! My daughter (10) has UC.  Because of the situation, (she lives most of the year with her mom – I am stepmom – and summers with us) we didn’t always get told exactly what treatment was being given her. We weren’t satisfied with the doctor her mom takes her to as she never even told us just what area of the colon is involved, how much is involved, or even specifically that this is uncurable and pretty much to be considered permanent. We didn’t find all this out until we took L. to our doctor up here at home. He is probably going to refer her this week to another gastointestinal specialist as he says that he has done all he knows to do. She is on Pentasa now (off the damned Prednisone) and it seems to be doing something. She takes 250 mg 4 x a day. He told us that Pentasa hasn’t really been tested too much for children’s use. We seem to notice some slight improvement. She is doing better, but still not well (of course). She can hardly eat ANYTHING. We try everything (of course avoiding wheat and rye and egg white and peanut butter and all the others that the tests indicated she had intolerances to), and still, she cannot really eat. She will take a small bite, and immediately get an attack of stomach pain, or vomit, gag, or both. I am wondering, they say stress relates to this disease, or can aggravate it. We have kept the environment very calm for her and loving. At her mom’s house it is just the opposite-tense to say the least. She told us that it is a relief not to have gramma, grandpa, and mom following her "like ducks" as she puts it, into the bathroom every time she goes. We have sat down and talked with her and explained that she has this condition UC, and what it is, and that it isn’t going to go away, but that in time she should feel much better. We explained about the foods, etc. We told her that her stools would be loose and unless there was blood, or they looked really different from usual, to not worry about it. She will tell us if this occurs. The poor child deserves a miniscule amount of privacy which she hasn’t had up to now. Without going into much more detail, let me say that we have observed something going on here. Whenever she talks to mom on the phone, all we hear from this end is L. saying "okay", "I will", "I know", "yes, I will", "all right", "I will", I will", etc, etc. Her mom gives her instructions on everything. Okay. After a phone call, she gets a stomach ache. After talking at all about foods and what she can eat, she gets a stomach ache. She says "I don’t want to talk about foods anymore". She is so thin. Her base weight is 58 (she’s a tall thin kid) and now she is hovering at 48. She told us that her mom puts the toothpaste onto her toothbrush for her! We are slowly acclimatizing her to independence. We are calmly encouraging her to do more things for herself. She lazes around…she really doesn’t feel well most of the time. The doctor indicates that perhaps counseling is in order. We are looking into this. We will also be hiring an attorney and, even if we lose everything else we own, we will get custody of L. one way or another! The situation at the other house (which isn’t really a home at all) is terrible and we feel, detrimental to her recovery and long term health. So, the question is, and thank you for bearing with me through this…..Do you people who actually have had this for many years really feel that stress can aggravate it? What else can we do besides the counseling and what we are currently doing? L. has told us that she likes it here better because no one "bugs" her all the time about pooping. Poor thing. We feel that 10 is plenty old enough to know what is going on and help with the treatment of her condition, such as knowing what she can and cannot eat, etc. She is really an intelligent and sharp girl. She knows what’s going on. Second question…is there anything else I can do for her? I hate so to see her suffering like this. She has attacks everyday, throughout the entire day, but in between the stomach aches, seems to feel  better. She won’t get up and move around much. Should I be "encouraging/prodding" her gently to do this, i.e., take her outside for a short walk around the yard, etc? Or should I just leave her alone? She’s been pretty much on the couch for 10 days now. She only moves around to bathroom and bedroom and that’s about it. ???? I don’t want to add to the stress by forcing. Yesterday, I said she should go outside and sit on the chaise lounge in the screen-house with her dad to get fresh air. Within a minute or two of that announcement……stomache ache, bad one with much crying and doubling over. I don’t want to make her condition worse. Is it the fear of moving around? Is she anticipating pain from simply moving around? Also, she hesitates to eat now. She acts like she is afraid of the pain she will get from eating. We are concerned about this too. Can this evolve into a genuine eating disorder? Please give me your thoughts, comments and opinions on this. Thank you for reading such a long post. Regards, Natasha at Moonstruck Meadows in the Ogre’s Wood "A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure,program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects."   —Robert A. Heinlein, "Time Enough for Love"— Visit The Ogre’s Wood at http://www.slic.com/volfnat/home.htm You can usually find me at Undernet on IRC as volfsmaid

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Both of my girls have Crohns Disease (ages 8 and 12). When the younger one is having a flare up, she drinks Pediasure (pediatric version of Ensure) exclusively for 6-8 weeks. She drinks about 8 cans a day during these times. Her inflammation drastically decreases and she feels wonderful. It’s when we slowly reintroduce foods that she begins to feel pain and have symptoms again. When she is eating table foods, she also drinks Pediasure as a supplement. I also notice that when she is not feeling well, she will ask for a Pediasure instead of food. Ask your doctor about the possibility of using a treatment such as this to help your daughter. Feel free to E-mail me if you have any questions or comments. Best of luck and I hope your daughter is feeling like her "old self" soon

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Hi: No one can know how someone else’s disease makes them feel.  If she is anemic, that would sap her energy.  Have it checked.  In my case, moving around does not bring on an attack of UC.  In fact, even when I am having diarhhea 10 times a day, I can usually make it for a walk around the neighborhood if I plan it for the right time of day.  Sometimes I have to head for home unexpectedly!   Anorexia (lack of appetite, not the eating disorder) is common with UC. Obviously, what goes in must come out, and we want to keep it to a minimum.   I would say, though, that she might be at risk for anorexia nervosa. If you go for the counseling, I wonder if you would consider family counseling.  A lot of anger comes through in your post.  It could be affecting your step-daughter.  Also, if eating disorder is a concern, family therapy would be most effective.  Look for a family therapist who specializes in this, even if the disorder is merely suspected. I am a dietitian and I have kids.  Feel free to email me if you Good luck, Patsy

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I have Crohn’s Disease and was 17 when diagnosed so was a few years older than your daughter. I hardly ever left the house, my bedroom or the bathroom for the first year I was diagnosed.  I was afraid to leave the house for fear that I would "Have to go" and not be able to make it to a washroom. It got to the point that I wasn’t leaving the house except to go to the doctors office. Then finally, with the help of medications, I got so I could go out and not worry about going to the washroom as much. I just made sure that I knew where there were public washrooms and stayed close. This could be the reason she is reluctant to venture far outside. Another reason could be what some other people have been suggesting. Extreme fatigue.  Since she is not eating properly, of course her energy levels will be down. It’s a double edged sword. Eat

6 – Mercaptipurine (6MP)

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I have had CD for about 12 years now, and I have had 2 resection operations taking about 8 total feet of Small Intestine. During my last reocurrance I was put on this 6MP drug. Does anyone have any information about this drug, on its +/-. I have heard that this is concedered Chemotheripy and it destroys your sperm count. Me and my wife are currently trying to start a family and this fact if its true is not good news. Does anyone have a answer.

I had two children while on 6-MP – I’ve been on it for years for Crohn’s – 50 mg./day – with no evident side effects.  Of course you should study the medical literature to find the probability of any side effect, which of course will vary in each individual case.  Good Health! Robert Silver

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I have had CD for about 12 years now, and I have had 2 resection operations taking about 8 total feet of Small Intestine. During my last reocurrance I was put on this 6MP drug. Does anyone have any information about this drug, on its +/-. I have heard that this is concedered Chemotheripy and it destroys your sperm count. Me and my wife are currently trying to start a family and this fact if its true is not good news. Does anyone have a answer.

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Rob,  there is great info on this drug in the Crohn’s-Colitis Foundation web site.  But, for the record, I have heard that it decreases sperm counts.  It is a drug that should be closely monitored by frequent blood tests by your physician.  Especially when doseage is increased.  There are many serious side effects that can occur.  It can take 3-6 months or more for the drug to begin its work.  I was on the drug for two years, had serious side effects and had to quit.  But, it did allow me to stop using the nasty drug prednisone and I was thankful for that! Good luck! Pat

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     Rob,  I do not know about sperm count.  What I do know is that is

cuts your white blood cell count back to normal.  CD is spread by the white cells trying to fight CD onlynthey wind up spreading the diease…the idea is to cut the white count so your disease will no longer spread.  You’d have to ask your doc about the sperm count.          I was on this drug for about 6 months.  I felt good while on it but I did need a monthly blood test.  The other side effect I had was I developed shingles.  No one will say for sure that is the cause but my doc removed me from the drug. Ralph – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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While I was on it for 2 weeks I had a fever of 104.6 and was in the hospital for 3 days and my dr. said It was a reaction to the 6-mp                                           good-luck  

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I took 6MP along with Prednisone for several years continuously during my 9 yrs of UC.  Monthly blood tests were required to keep dosage high enough without lowering white count too much.  My doc felt that the white count needed to be suppressed somewhat for the dose to be therapeutic.  Frequent blood work is essential.  I didn’t have any problems tolerating the 6MP that I know of but I don’t know that it did any good on the other hand (I ended up with an illeostomy). I see in my ‘Essential guide to prescription drugs’ book that ‘Suppression of sperm production’ is listed under ‘Possible Effects on Sexual Function’, and ‘Decreased sperm counts’ is listed under ‘Possible effects on Laboratory Tests’.  Also, I think you need to take it sometimes for several months before benefit is apparent. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I have had CD for about 12 years now, and I have had 2 resection operations taking about 8 total feet of Small Intestine. During my last reocurrance I was put on this 6MP drug. Does anyone have any information about this drug, on its +/-. I have heard that this is concedered Chemotheripy and it destroys your sperm count. Me and my wife are currently trying to start a family and this fact if its true is not good news. Does anyone have a answer.

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