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BTW, what part of Missouri are you in? I LOVED the drive from Hannibal down to St. Louis! We took a road along the Mississippi and it was just lovely — one of the prettiest places I’ve been. Rebecca
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Julie If you decide on having the surgery …. will you move back down to Florida ??? PLEASE !!! Maryjo, Moving back to Florida would definately be a big consideration. Although I am not too sure my family would like that too mcuh (my mom and dad that is) they have been begging me to move back to Missouri since the day I got down there! I have all faith that I will be back in the sunshine state eventually, though. By the way, I am planning to come down for a vacation sometime soon (would like to come down at least twice a year)….when I am all recovered and stuff. I would love to visit ya! Julie Cd 84
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Julie anytime you want to come down … let me know … the last time we were going to meet was when Bonnie was down … ( by the way have you heard from her .. I worry since I haven’t heard from her in a long time) but my work schedule sucked … I was still in Walmarts in Lake City then instead of a monday thru friday daytime job here in Ocala Maryjo
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Crohn’s Disease and Colitis are very difficult to distinguish from one another, even with biopsies and colonoscopies. If you do, indeed, have colitis, surgery can be a cure and also will eliminate the risk of colon cancer. If you have Crohn’s disease, surgery will substantially reduce the likelihood and/or severity of flareups and also reduce the risk of colon cancer. I have Crohn’s Disease. Two years ago I had an ileostomy done. My only regret is that did not have it done years before. It does not limit my activities in any way. I doubt anyone knows I have it aside from my wife and doctor and people I’ve specifically told. I can eat what I want to eat. I feel healthier than I have in years. I’m not saying that surgery is for you or anyone else — nor am I saying that it’s a picnic. But it can lead to a vast improvement in the quality (and perhaps quantity) of your life. As for Mayo’s and Jewish-named hospitals — the Cleveland Clinic and the University of Chicago both have reknowned gastroenterology departments. The best to you.
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Thank you so much…I really needed some encouragement today. The scope went great, I don’t remember a thing…just as I requested and the doc really liked the smiley faces! :) Maybe it even helped. Anyway, what I can remember is that the disease is all in my rectum and lower 1/3 of the colon the rest looked healthy. The doc seemed to think that was good, because surgery would be a better bet for me. He took a LOT of biopsies and will discuss the results with me at the visit. Right now I am not doing too hot. I always feel worse after a scope. I also ran out of pain meds today…didn’t judge right to make it through the weekend, and will have to wait until Monday to get more….so tomorrow is really, really going to suck. I recieved a good informative article on surgery today. It has helped me to see more that surgery looks like the right thing to do. I am just such a chicken. A guy from the ostomy.support group sent it, so yes to the question did I subscribe to that group as well. Talk to yall soon. Julie CD 84 – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Crohn’s Disease and Colitis are very difficult to distinguish from one another, even with biopsies and colonoscopies. If you do, indeed, have colitis, surgery can be a cure and also will eliminate the risk of colon cancer. If you have Crohn’s disease, surgery will substantially reduce the likelihood and/or severity of flareups and also reduce the risk of colon cancer. I have Crohn’s Disease. Two years ago I had an ileostomy done. My only regret is that did not have it done years before. It does not limit my activities in any way. I doubt anyone knows I have it aside from my wife and doctor and people I’ve specifically told. I can eat what I want to eat. I feel healthier than I have in years. I’m not saying that surgery is for you or anyone else — nor am I saying that it’s a picnic. But it can lead to a vast improvement in the quality (and perhaps quantity) of your life. As for Mayo’s and Jewish-named hospitals — the Cleveland Clinic and the University of Chicago both have reknowned gastroenterology departments. The best to you.
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Julie: Please email if/when you decide to go to Mayo. I’ll need as much notice as you can give so I can arrange after school care for my kids — but I’ll be happy to come visit you — If you need me I’ll be there! I bet Sherry will be too! Just keep us posted. You are very smart to read EVERYTHING you can get your hands on. Have you also posted to alt.support-ostomy. They are a wonderful group of people as well and can give you all sorts of good information. I also know that there is a J-pouch ring thingie (help me out here Howard Sir Link) which could give you some first hand information on that as well. BTW, I was already to have a J-pouch — only here in Wisconsin they give you a *W* pouch — so I guess if you are from Missouri you have to have an *M*. . . <Grin Rebecca
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am going in for the scopes tomorrow morning. I will let you know how everything turns out. I am just hoping that he can get a really clear picture of everything and tell me exactly what is going on. Right now I am going through that really fun prep time. Yippie Skippy. Everyone’s comments and suggestions have been so helpful. I spent all night tuesday on-line looking up as much as I could find. After all that, yes, I do think I am ready for surgery, just very scared of it. And I want to have the right kind…one that will leave me feeling the best longest and living with a better degree of life. For that reason I am not sure that the J-pouch would be the best bet. I really would like to not have to deal with diarrhea ever again. I would absolutely love anyone in the group to come visit me in the hospital at Mayo. I live in Missouri and will need some company and there is nothing like someone else with this dreaded disease to understand what we go through. The thought is much appreciated. :))) Julie CD 84
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Julie If you decide on having the surgery …. will you move back down to Florida ??? PLEASE !!!
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I am going in for the scopes tomorrow morning. I will let you know how everything turns out. I am just hoping that he can get a really clear picture of everything and tell me exactly what is going on. Right now I am going through that really fun prep time. Yippie Skippy. Everyone’s comments and suggestions have been so helpful. I spent all night tuesday on-line looking up as much as I could find. After all that, yes, I do think I am ready for surgery, just very scared of it. And I want to have the right kind…one that will leave me feeling the best longest and living with a better degree of life. For that reason I am not sure that the J-pouch would be the best bet. I really would like to not have to deal with diarrhea ever again. I would absolutely love anyone in the group to come visit me in the hospital at Mayo. I live in Missouri and will need some company and there is nothing like someone else with this dreaded disease to understand what we go through. The thought is much appreciated. :))) Julie CD 84
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Julie If you decide on having the surgery …. will you move back down to Florida ??? PLEASE !!!
Maryjo, Moving back to Florida would definately be a big consideration. Although I am not too sure my family would like that too mcuh (my mom and dad that is) they have been begging me to move back to Missouri since the day I got down there! I have all faith that I will be back in the sunshine state eventually, though. By the way, I am planning to come down for a vacation sometime soon (would like to come down at least twice a year)….when I am all recovered and stuff. I would love to visit ya! Julie Cd 84
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Julie- I wish you luck with your scopes. Please keep us informed of what you plan to do. I live in New Hampshire, so visiting is out of the question ; ) but I would gladly send well wishes via a card if you let me know when, and where, to send it. Good luck with everything!!! Be well- Tracy CD class of ‘98 my homepage: http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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Julie, I had the J-pouch surgery about 2 years ago in 2 steps. I was definitely ready to have it when I did. I really feel like I exhausted the possibilities of other treatments. Up until the moment I made the decision, I was totally against the surgery. But, when you are ready, you know. I had a very good outcome with my surgery. I had very few problems with the temp. ileostomy after I got used to taking care of it. It was very liberating for me not to have to run to the bathroom a gazillion times a day. I had bowel control returned the day of the take-down surgery. I don’t have the pain and urgency I used to have. Right now I go to the bathroom 4-6 times a day. Sometimes, if I am very busy, I only go 3 times! I don’t have any leakage. But the biggest change is that I can go out in the community and not even think about a bathroom! We moved across the country several months ago, so I don’t even know where all the bathrooms are. And now, I can fart with confidence that it is just gas. If you have the time, take it slow and find out as much as you can about the different surgery options to you. The library, on line and even your hospital’s medical library can help. I have a list of questions to ask the surgeon. I have gotten some good input from this group, and I plan on working on it this week to update it. If you would like a copy, E-mail me and I will be happy to give it to you. Sarah UC class of ‘96, J-pouch ‘98
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Well, I went in for a "I’m sick now" appointment today. Talked with the GI a little more about things. It was nice to have some input from you guys to share with him. He thinks I may be a canidate for the J-pouch surgery. Not sure that is really what I want to do though with all the negitave things I have heard about it lately. However, I do already have diarrhea daily…more than 10 times a day and that seems like it should go down to 6 or so, right?
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Julie, I agree with what Midas and Rebecca said. Get a second opinion first. You need to make sure that you are making the right decision. Like Rebecca said if you go to Mayo we can come and visit you. : ) Take Care, Sherry – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I totally agree with Midas on this one. I know you have been dealing with this for a long time (16 years!) — when was the last time you got a second opinion? Are YOU ready for surgery???? Just because your doc is, doesn’t mean you are. If you are, I say "go for it" and get the best doc you can (Mayo isn’t too far — perhaps Sherry and I can come visit you??). Otherwise, there are lots of good suggestions here for things to try. Where are you located? I have a GREAT doctor in Milwaukee who I would be glad to share with you! Rebecca
x-no-archive: yes Doc says he is looking at a diseased organ that he doesn’t see much hopes for treating medically anymore and if there was he would do it To me that means he’s run out of options in *his* arsenal. But that doesn’t necessarily have to mean that you’ve run out of options in *yours*. One refrain we see over and over again on this NG is "Doctors don’t have all the answers." Maybe the time is ripe for you to consult another doctor (i.e. get a "second opinion")… or perhaps to consider exploring what other alternatives are available to you. Then he throws the thought at me that maybe I have UC after all (16 years of after all), even though that was his original diagnosis. If so this surgery would cure me. I really think that is what he is hoping for. But what if it turns out *not* to be UC after you’ve had the surgery? I would want to be darn sure before submitting to surgery – yet another reason for getting a second opinion. Then we talked that if surgery was decided upon that he would like to refer me to Mayo clinic, or some other place with Jewish in the name, for it. That sounded like a good idea to me. If I am going to have a perminant body change it should be done by the best, that really know what they are doing, right? Oh, I absolutely agree! If you’re gonna get cut anyway, go for the best! My husband has to have surgery (for something else, not IBD), and we really did our homework and are actually planning to travel quite a distance for him to be placed in the best possible hands. If you have to have it, you want someone who does a *lot* of this kind of thing and has the best possible success rate. I told him about my mom and husband’s reaction to this surgery thing and he said to drag them along to my office appointment after the tests. He figures he can do a good "sales" job on them. ;-) This is set for the 14th. Hmmm… that gives you almost two whole weeks to become as educated as you can about both the surgery option and your other options. Many people on this newsgroup have offered excellent suggestions. I’ll simply reiterate that, in my own experience, I’ve seen the SCD help the most people. If you decide to give it a try, you have this two week window to get it going. There are no guarantees, but it may at least buy you some more time. — MG
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Hi, Julie — When I was preparing for my own J-pouch surgery three years ago, my "nightmare scenario" was that they would take out my colon and then discover that what I’d had was actually CD. (This would have been highly unlikely in my case, and in fact everything turned out fine. But I did get a roommate in the hospital to whom it actually had happened some years earlier.) One big lesson that I learned along the way was the importance of getting a top-notch second opinion. (And getting a second pathologist to review your biopsy slides.) Especially if they’re talking about changing your diagnosis from CD to UC. The best expert you can find, even if you have to travel some. Good luck with your exams. Sam in Connecticut – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Well, I went in for a "I’m sick now" appointment today. Talked with the GI a little more about things. It was nice to have some input from you guys to share with him. He thinks I may be a canidate for the J-pouch surgery. Not sure that is really what I want to do though with all the negitave things I have heard about it lately. However, I do already have diarrhea daily…more than 10 times a day and that seems like it should go down to 6 or so, right? Doc says he is looking at a diseased organ that he doesn’t see much hopes for treating medically anymore and if there was he would do it…which i already knew. I just think that it basicly isn’t functioning hardly at all anymore from all the scar tissue and now active disease. I am having scopes done on Friday. Both kind. Yippie. Then a upper GI series done on Monday. This is all to tell if the disease is all in my colon or not. He wants to make sure he gets a good look at my small intestine and take biopsies. I say he better give me lots of drugs. I DON’T want to feel all this. Then he throws the thought at me that maybe I have UC after all (16 years of after all), even though that was his original diagnosis. If so this surgery would cure me. I really think that is what he is hoping for. Then we talked that if surgery was decided upon that he would like to refer me to Mayo clinic, or some other place with Jewish in the name, for it. That sounded like a good idea to me. If I am going to have a perminant body change it should be done by the best, that really know what they are doing, right? I told him about my mom and husband’s reaction to this surgery thing and he said to drag them along to my office appointment after the tests. This is set for the 14th. Told my mom about all this today and she wasn’t happy AT ALL. Hubby seemed to take it better, but then again he doesn’t usually vocalize his feelings. Thanks everyone for your input and support. I really am going to be needing it no matter what happens! I am still praying for yet another miracle to drag me out of this mess. Julie CD 84
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I totally agree with Midas on this one. I know you have been dealing with this for a long time (16 years!) — when was the last time you got a second opinion? Are YOU ready for surgery???? Just because your doc is, doesn’t mean you are. If you are, I say "go for it" and get the best doc you can (Mayo isn’t too far — perhaps Sherry and I can come visit you??). Otherwise, there are lots of good suggestions here for things to try. Where are you located? I have a GREAT doctor in Milwaukee who I would be glad to share with you! Rebecca
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – x-no-archive: yes Doc says he is looking at a diseased organ that he doesn’t see much hopes for treating medically anymore and if there was he would do it To me that means he’s run out of options in *his* arsenal. But that doesn’t necessarily have to mean that you’ve run out of options in *yours*. One refrain we see over and over again on this NG is "Doctors don’t have all the answers." Maybe the time is ripe for you to consult another doctor (i.e. get a "second opinion")… or perhaps to consider exploring what other alternatives are available to you. Then he throws the thought at me that maybe I have UC after all (16 years of after all), even though that was his original diagnosis. If so this surgery would cure me. I really think that is what he is hoping for. But what if it turns out *not* to be UC after you’ve had the surgery? I would want to be darn sure before submitting to surgery – yet another reason for getting a second opinion. Then we talked that if surgery was decided upon that he would like to refer me to Mayo clinic, or some other place with Jewish in the name, for it. That sounded like a good idea to me. If I am going to have a perminant body change it should be done by the best, that really know what they are doing, right? Oh, I absolutely agree! If you’re gonna get cut anyway, go for the best! My husband has to have surgery (for something else, not IBD), and we really did our homework and are actually planning to travel quite a distance for him to be placed in the best possible hands. If you have to have it, you want someone who does a *lot* of this kind of thing and has the best possible success rate. I told him about my mom and husband’s reaction to this surgery thing and he said to drag them along to my office appointment after the tests. He figures he can do a good "sales" job on them. ;-) This is set for the 14th. Hmmm… that gives you almost two whole weeks to become as educated as you can about both the surgery option and your other options. Many people on this newsgroup have offered excellent suggestions. I’ll simply reiterate that, in my own experience, I’ve seen the SCD help the most people. If you decide to give it a try, you have this two week window to get it going. There are no guarantees, but it may at least buy you some more time. — MG
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Well, I went in for a "I’m sick now" appointment today. Talked with the GI a little more about things. It was nice to have some input from you guys to share with him. He thinks I may be a canidate for the J-pouch surgery. Not sure that is really what I want to do though with all the negitave things I have heard about it lately. However, I do already have diarrhea daily…more than 10 times a day and that seems like it should go down to 6 or so, right? Doc says he is looking at a diseased organ that he doesn’t see much hopes for treating medically anymore and if there was he would do it…which i already knew. I just think that it basicly isn’t functioning hardly at all anymore from all the scar tissue and now active disease. I am having scopes done on Friday. Both kind. Yippie. Then a upper GI series done on Monday. This is all to tell if the disease is all in my colon or not. He wants to make sure he gets a good look at my small intestine and take biopsies. I say he better give me lots of drugs. I DON’T want to feel all this. Then he throws the thought at me that maybe I have UC after all (16 years of after all), even though that was his original diagnosis. If so this surgery would cure me. I really think that is what he is hoping for. Then we talked that if surgery was decided upon that he would like to refer me to Mayo clinic, or some other place with Jewish in the name, for it. That sounded like a good idea to me. If I am going to have a perminant body change it should be done by the best, that really know what they are doing, right? I told him about my mom and husband’s reaction to this surgery thing and he said to drag them along to my office appointment after the tests. This is set for the 14th. Told my mom about all this today and she wasn’t happy AT ALL. Hubby seemed to take it better, but then again he doesn’t usually vocalize his feelings. Thanks everyone for your input and support. I really am going to be needing it no matter what happens! I am still praying for yet another miracle to drag me out of this mess. Julie CD 84
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